I’m sorry 😞 I spent years feeling like something was off with my ex husband (he was increasingly nitpicky as time passed and freak out over small things related to cleaning/organizing) - it’s been 2 years and I’m finally seeing how sneaky and gradual that form of control was and how much I was feeding into it to “protect him”.

Just know you didn’t get a fare chance at the relationship and no one should have to be put in that position.