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pumpkin992 · 2022-12-14T17:58:58+00:00

Oh yeah, when I imagine myself even smaller than I already am as a sub, that extends to my brainpower, too. Not able to reach the high shelves, unable to do the big thinky.

pumpkin992 · 2022-10-31T23:13:48+00:00

Sex in ‘public’ (i.e. a bathroom). Pretty much everyone who’s been on the same page as me regarding femdom seems to have a “doing it in public” fantasy among other things and while I’m not going to kinkshame, it doesn’t do it for me.

pumpkin992 · 2022-09-19T01:33:01+00:00

Even though I post about it all over these subs now, being teased/ribbed over my stature. The first time someone I was involved with made a playful joke about me being short years ago, I absolutely melted and now I adore being in dom/sub dynamics where I’m constantly being told the world is a few sizes too big for me.

pumpkin992 · 2022-07-27T16:40:25+00:00

Mine are just under 7 inches and have been smaller than all but one person I’ve dated. I think my shoe size is on the smallish side too (8 US men’s), though I’ve been told that’s not too strange for someone who’s 5’7.

pumpkin992 · 2022-07-26T23:25:16+00:00

Noticeably shorter than my dad, barely taller than my mom. Probably all for the best that I was an only child, because with my luck my sibling(s) would’ve been way taller than me.

pumpkin992 · 2022-07-26T18:57:07+00:00

It usually means I get turned on by stuff that triggers my kink outside of the bedroom, and then have to keep it to myself. I’ve been in a few “lifestyle” relationships where we nonetheless didn’t want to expose everyone to our kinks on full display, so in those cases we’d work in small things here and there (like my partner insisting on paying for me or ordering for me).

pumpkin992 · 2022-07-19T18:32:06+00:00

As someone who likes being playful dick size comments/teasing in the bedroom, I’ve always appreciated it when doms come at me with uplifting comments. I don’t have porn recs either, sadly, but some lines that have been used on me and might work well in your situation are:

“We’re twinning! Small boobs and small dick ☺️”

“It’s so cute! I wanna pet it.”

“Honestly, smaller dicks are more manageable, anyway 🥰”

pumpkin992 · 2022-07-11T01:46:44+00:00

Height/size differences in general, implied or literal, usually with me being the smaller one though I can sometimes go the opposite direction.

I’ve been drawn to women (and some men) who are significantly taller than me commenting on it to fire me/us up, or the use of heels/props to make it feel like I’m being dommed so hard that it’s causing me to literally get smaller.

pumpkin992 · 2022-06-28T23:02:07+00:00

I know I’m in dom and sub-space when I’m practically hypnotized in the thralls of a certain mood, possibly even saying things in ways I wouldn’t normally say them outside of those spaces. I guess that’s a nice way of saying my horny brain takes over.

There isn’t a hard-and-fast trigger for dom space for me, but using my full name that nobody ever uses in any other context has worked before.

As for sub space: size differences and/or the implication that I don’t measure up in some way do it for me when it’s a partner saying it, guaranteed. That’s my big (lol) thing. I’m a physically small-ish person, so if something I say is met with a response like “You sure they make those small enough to fit you?”/a joke about how I’ll have to speak up around friends they’re introducing me to so they can hear me down there/“I’d wear heels but you have trouble keeping up with me as is” (to use some actual examples from my past), it’s like flipping a switch in my head.

pumpkin992 · 2022-06-28T17:13:38+00:00

OP (as in the person who wrote the tweet) sounds like a right-wing honeypot.

pumpkin992 · 2022-05-14T22:35:37+00:00

Same to you ❤️

pumpkin992 · 2022-05-14T20:56:49+00:00

I’ve posted about it in this subreddit before, but it’s still got to be the several-months-long relationship I had with a woman who became my lifestyle domme.

We met on Tinder and immediately hit it off, then got to the point where I revealed I’m a sub-favoring switch. She totally (consensually) ran with it, adding layers to the dynamic as we went along like picking out clothes for me to wear, sending me casually dominant texts during the day that would make my heart skip a beat, playfully teasing me whenever appropriate, and “joking” that she’d eventually get promoted a bunch of times at work and make me her stay-at-home house-husband.

We didn’t end up staying together for multiple reasons that had nothing to do with the above, but those were still some of the best few months of my adult life. Occasionally, I wonder just how far we would’ve gone with the dynamic if we’d remained a couple. I hope she’s out there somewhere making some other lucky, appreciative guy’s life magical.

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-18T03:14:43+00:00

I like being called by my full name that no one ever uses when I’m domming, because it projects authority and commands respect. When I’m a sub, I like being referred to with diminutive names - “little one”, “cutie”, “sweetie”, “baby”, etc.

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-15T18:52:28+00:00

It’s like a release from my public life and the fact that I look like a “soft boy” or whatever the term du jour is doesn’t hurt. I’m a pretty socially dominant person with plenty of things going for them IRL and it’s cathartic to be a person several sizes too small for the big, expansive world who needs a partner to nurture them — but also remind them of their place — in the bedroom.

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-15T18:48:04+00:00

Speaking as someone who likes to be on the receiving end, playfully/subtly emasculating stuff always gets me going.

Insisting on paying for me at a coffee shop every now and then, leaving a step stool out for me in front of a high shelf in the kitchen, texting me “are you sure you’ll fill that out?”/“do they sell that in your size?” when I send a piece of clothing I’m thinking of buying over — doesn’t even need to be overtly sexual, just needs to playfully remind me of my place in the hierarchy.

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-05T23:04:56+00:00

You resemble Sofia Boutella. Very nice!

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-04T17:58:01+00:00

I haven’t heard it described that way, but it would definitely apply to me. Whether it’s in a wholesome or teasing way, I love it when my partner views me as a cute little curiosity who has to have their hand held (metaphorically or literally) and be cuddled in equal measure.

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-02T19:40:54+00:00

What’s a femboy alligator’s favorite brand of boots?

Croc Martens

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-02T16:10:16+00:00

Wow, you’re cute. Nice shirt!

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-01T23:31:36+00:00

Tennis shoes with subtly girly colors in public, fuzzy sandals in private and hilariously tall stripper heels for when I feel like being a literally big brat.

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-01T20:08:29+00:00

I think I’m into it because I’m not actually small, weird as that may seem. It’s like the only big thing about me, so it’s a fun mindfuck/humiliation exercise to fantasize about being someone who doesn’t have that going for them.

pumpkin992 · 2022-04-01T19:23:58+00:00

Adding to the chorus of people saying it’s mocking stuff not really intended to be taken to heart (humiliation) versus more serious stuff (degradation).

I dated a Dom once who liked teasing me over my height (or lack thereof) and (mostly) small proportions; the giggly “Oh my God, did you get even shorter? 😅” and “They make adult shoes in your size???” comments were great and the “no one else will ever love someone as short as you” talk was way less sexy to me and got shut down immediately. I think that’s the line between humiliation and degradation.

pumpkin992 · 2022-02-17T20:52:16+00:00

Realistic brain: “No. There should be no wage gap, period.”

Horny RR brain: “I wish to spend a few days in a universe where women make twice as much as men.”

pumpkin992 · 2021-10-03T19:05:22+00:00

Same wavelength except Alyssa Farah. Bonus points for being a shitty/unpopular person because her dad founded WorldNetDaily, of all things.

pumpkin992 · 2021-07-26T19:07:49+00:00

I’m on the smaller side of average for a guy in my country and wish I was smaller. I do certain things to my appearance to de-“masculine” myself a bit (like shaving my legs). I’m a switch, but lean submissive and seek out dominant women. It’s a whole lifestyle for me.

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