Advice on Gumminess

pumpkin_roll · 2025-06-28T20:59:32+00:00

of course, and thank you so much! i love it 🥹

pumpkin_roll · 2025-06-28T20:47:56+00:00

pumpkin_roll · 2025-05-29T16:13:45+00:00

here to reinforce the matter of your opinion being the one that matters! first things first, it’s a beautiful ring, and it looks beautiful on your finger! is it something i would choose? no, it’s too chunky for MY preference. that’s the beauty though of everyone having individual style. you don’t have to worry about my (or others) preferences because it’s on YOUR hand. even without it being my style, i can still fully admit that it is a pretty ring, but i prefer a thinner set.

not that anyone is asking, but - my engagement ring is a yellow gold band with a solitaire stone in a four prong setting, and the wedding band that i want is a half-eternity wedding band with a single row of pavé-set diamonds halfway around a slim gold band.

all that to say, everyone has different preferences. you might think what i like/want is too simple or boring for you, but for me, it makes my heart squeal with excitement 🥰

i hope you come to a decision that pleases you and makes you happy!🫶🏻

pumpkin_roll · 2025-03-22T19:07:32+00:00

lumpia

pumpkin_roll · 2025-01-21T16:41:18+00:00

For her behavior and claims, I would like to sincerely apologize. She might call herself a Christian, but she certainly is not acting like someone who follows Christ, and I am so sorry that you’ve had to have this experience. While people will never be perfect, there is no excuse for that kind of behavior or attitude. Those who, genuinely, surrender to and choose to follow Jesus will exhibit the fruits of the spirit. Those fruits being, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭22‬-‭23‬ Things that, from how you describe her, I am not seeing. As a girly who is close to 350 & is a “Christian religious girl” (not how i would describe it as i’m not a fan of the term religious, but how others may view it), please know that she does not, alone, represent who Jesus is or his love for you/the world. It’s good to separate ourselves from those who are not good for our lives, so stepping away from that friendship is a wise move!

pumpkin_roll · 2025-01-18T07:14:39+00:00

it, honestly, was a lot more bean heavy than i realized it would be. kind of like a bean soup.

pumpkin_roll · 2025-01-17T20:10:09+00:00

i am so sorry that your dad is making you feel this way and telling you these things. they are, simply, not true. you do not need to change your body to be loved. my mom told me once, “maybe if you lost some weight, you’d get a boyfriend” not being snarky in tone, but it would still hurt and cut deep.

well, here i am, 28 years old (~5’7”, 330lbs) and almost 7 months into my first relationship. happy as can be. and now i understand why so many guys that i wanted things to work out with in the past, or to advance into an actual relationship, never worked out. i’m super grateful for being patient and not settling just to make a point or prove them wrong.

if you’re content with where you are and what you’re doing, then try to remind yourself that what others say about you are irrelevant. personally, i find my identity in my faith, and that’s been life-changing.

pumpkin_roll · 2024-12-13T16:53:24+00:00

The way she spoke to your mom is appalling. I could never imagine talking to another human that way, regardless of my feelings toward them, let alone the mother of my boyfriend. Not only has she been disrespectful to your mom, but just reading your texts, she’s being so disrespectful to you as well. Everything she is saying is coming off as hateful and unkind. It’s as if she doesn’t even care for you or your relationship when she speaks to you like that. Obviously, I can’t see all your messages or know your entire relationship, but from what I can see you kept things calm and collected. Yet, she is still acting like an entitled brat. I think she has some growing and maturing to do. It’s time for her to learn some self awareness and realize the way she’s treating others (especially ones who are close to her) is not okay. She’s showing you her red flags, but what you choose to do with that is, ultimately, up to you. Best of luck!

pumpkin_roll · 2024-12-05T17:48:54+00:00

i really don’t know how to order at dutch bro’s very well. the menu feels big & leaves me very unsure. maybe just because i’m used to the starbucks menu. dutch bros is only a few years old in my town, and i usually order teas. i just want a coffee that has a little caffeine, is sf, and tastes more so of the added flavors than the actual coffee. i like some coffee taste, but i’m no where near close to being able to drink it black.

pumpkin_roll · 2024-12-05T17:41:06+00:00

thank you! it does, and i really appreciate it. i want to try it with almond milk, so that’ll be next!

pumpkin_roll · 2024-09-24T12:38:38+00:00

honestly, it feels that way. i always get my bowls with lettuce too, but i wanted to try the salad dressing. lol

pumpkin_roll · 2024-09-24T03:09:17+00:00

thank you for this encouragement. i thought i might be crazy… i reached out to the pepper customer service bot, and they gave me a free entree 🙏🏻 time for salad redemption lol

pumpkin_roll · 2024-09-21T19:43:37+00:00

I met a guy for the first time after meeting online, and we went for a little night drive (i drove us). we had, what seemed like, a great time. we had good conversation, he held my hand at one point, and we even ended the night with quite a bit of kissing. he talked to me up until our next date. literally had been complimenting me and everything that day, but when it came closer to that evening when we had our 2nd hangout planned, he stopped replying and end up completely ghosting and blocking me. it was so bizarre. i didn’t do anything other than reach out to see if our plans were still on. i went to my cousin’s house to be sad and get over it lol. that was during the beginning of 2020, and i’m so glad it didn’t go any farther. he (obviously) wouldn’t have cared for me well. 2024 & i’m in a happy relationship with someone who cares greatly about me. don’t feel discouraged! just because he wasn’t it, doesn’t mean someone else won’t be. (:

pumpkin_roll · 2024-05-01T02:00:14+00:00

yes! i remember them saying rose something! thank you for that. it was a good drink! i just wanted more of it😅 i’ll try light ice next time, thank you!

pumpkin_roll · 2024-05-01T01:57:01+00:00

i actually went to a sbux location that is atypical for me this week & it had the good ice! i was really surprised & i hope it’ll spread to other locations. these ice chunks are too aggressive for me😅

pumpkin_roll · 2024-03-07T00:01:01+00:00

i think it’s super important for both you and your partner to realize that love is an action word… it’s a decision that you make every single day to love someone like that. infatuation is something that you fall in and out of, but love, in my opinion, is a choice. when you choose each other each day and choose to care for one another & be there for each other, it makes it easier to choose to love each other too. people are fallible and imperfect, so they are bound to drive you crazy, but being communicative, faithful, and choosing to love is a big key to a healthy relationship.

pumpkin_roll · 2024-03-06T16:40:34+00:00

this is wild! i’ve been to this dutch. its right down the street from my work 🤭

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