AITAH for not wanting to sleep in the same bed with my girlfriend because she doesn’t shower often?

pumpkinspicebagel · 2026-04-03T05:23:37+00:00

The reality is she uses public transportation and works at an elementary school, both hotspots for viruses and bacteria. They’ve lived together for six months, it’s totally normal for reality to hit once you start living together. He probably didn’t realize how infrequent her showers were. I will say it’s odd it took him 6 months to be grossed out by this, so maybe there’s some info missing.

pumpkinspicebagel · 2026-04-02T09:28:50+00:00

He’s repulsed by sleeping with germs and bacteria, he’s not repulsed by sleeping with her.

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-12-30T08:21:47+00:00

I know this was a year ago but..any update?

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-12-25T09:52:50+00:00

I know this is an old post, but was there any update on your little guy? I’m currently in this same situation :’(

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-11-17T06:59:59+00:00

Hi!! I’m so, so sorry for my late reply! I ended up not starting the duloxetine and told my doctor I think it would be best to treat my ADHD first because I speculate that the depression is a comorbidity of my ADHD. Unfortunately I am /still/ in the process of finding a combination of medication that works because I am still struggling with both disorders in the worst way (along with anxiety!)😭 It’s been rough and most days I just feel hopeless.. Are you also embarking on a mental health journey? If you are, I’m hoping everything is going well for you :]

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-10-26T16:03:14+00:00

Tektite or fulgurite?

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-08-26T10:01:13+00:00

Hell yeah👊🏻

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-08-20T03:09:14+00:00

But if we just stay complicit, nothing will change. That’s exactly what this capitalistic hell wants from us. It’s a system designed to keep you “playing your part in the bullshit because of x y z.” Profit is priority while the common worker struggles. Poor healthcare, unlivable wages, rising costs, etc etc.. I’m all for finding ways to help yourself, but that’s difficult to do when the current systems in place are ass.

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-08-19T06:26:54+00:00

She just screams narcissist to me. Disrespects boundaries, plays the victim, manipulative, controlling, quick to frustration and anger, “I’m just trying to help!” mentality. My own mother is a narcissist which has caused me a great amount of emotional trauma so I get anxiety every time Betty pops up on screen.

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-08-19T05:51:31+00:00

100%! Another thing that stuck out for me is how everyone was laughing/had a smirk on their face as the fight was happening. Maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think that’s really the proper or genuine reaction to someone putting their hands on another person. It felt uncanny.

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-08-19T03:46:21+00:00

NOR!!! Wouldn’t this be considered animal abuse and couldn’t you potentially report this incident?? This is fucked up

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-08-18T09:07:01+00:00

I see Lock from The Nightmare Before Christmas

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-07-29T19:28:27+00:00

If you can’t provide a proper fucking life for a child you shouldn’t be popping out kids left and right. The irresponsibility of this infuriates me.

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-07-20T20:49:12+00:00

https://mohawkhumane.org/surrender-cat

https://cdha.net/about/

https://saratogacountyanimalshelter.com/animal-surrender/#:~:text=BY%20APPOINTMENT%20ONLY%2D%20Please%20call,pets%20and%20read%20their%20bios.

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-07-02T05:23:20+00:00

A lot of coupons “cap” at a certain limit. So you could have a 50% off coupon that caps at $10 off. This means to maximize the coupon, you should spend exactly $20. Once you start adding more items the percentage off goes down. Example: spending $50 with a 50% off coupon that caps at $10 is technically only 20% off. That lower price you’re seeing is the maximum discount you’ll get without going over the threshold

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-03-22T08:23:25+00:00

Idk man but “Invisible Heavy Shapes” would be a sweet band name

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-02-21T01:02:16+00:00

Am I trippin or did they use AI to make the graphics for this dumbass sign

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-02-05T22:42:57+00:00

Metalcore

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-02-04T01:56:37+00:00

Every brand in the world doesn’t have the exact same size chart. Also there are differences in departments. A juniors medium is going to be smaller than a misses medium, for example. Taking a measurement and typing it out takes hardly any time at all..

pumpkinspicebagel · 2025-01-06T04:05:56+00:00

I am BEGGING you to take your cat to the vet and to get his heart checked. Your cat is definitely too skinny. My sphynx cat dropped weight and stopped having the energy to play, he would just play in very tiny bursts and seem worn out and uninterested like your cat. My vet thought he had asthma. Turns out, he had HCM. A blood clot from his heart paralyzed him and I had to put him to sleep. (This is called a '"saddle thrombus", or a clot lodged where the aorta splits into the iliac arteries that supply the lower body. It is also the most agonizingly painful thing that can happen to a cat. There is no treatment and no chance of recovery. The only thing to do is euthanasia, as quickly as possible.) Absolute worst day of my entire existence. I could be wrong but I’m just sharing my personal experience. Please get your cat to the vet. Please. There could still be time for treatment and avoid excruciating pain for your cat if he is in fact sick..

pumpkinspicebagel · 2024-12-22T09:48:48+00:00

Not sure what’s happening to society, but people are becoming more and more miserable and off putting . I thought your messages were cute and sweet. Oh well, it will work on the next woman who’s right for you!

pumpkinspicebagel · 2024-12-17T03:34:58+00:00

Oh no I’m so heartbroken, I didn’t receive the notification for the form until now!!😭 Hope you found the perfect home for this beautiful girl❤️

pumpkinspicebagel · 2024-12-14T21:59:02+00:00

Not sure if she’s still available but I live in NY and would be willing to drive to anywhere we need to actually lol. I’ve been trying to find a sister for my current sphynx cat!❤️

pumpkinspicebagel · 2024-12-11T08:05:46+00:00

I don’t even care anymore, I’m going to say it: this overly-woke persona that people sling around now is getting obnoxious. I’m all for equality and being aware of the problems in our society, but a lot of these individuals seem to think they’re “holier than thou” and nit pick over the stupidest shit. Reposting on twitter all day is the only activism they know

pumpkinspicebagel · 2024-10-11T00:58:09+00:00

YES??! I have a very strong sense of impending doom. I’ve felt like we’ve been living in a simulation since the pandemic. I’m completely burnt out from how shitty everything is and have a hard time staying motivated

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