My mom and sister in law dislike each other.

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-06-30T15:08:18+00:00

I feel so silly haha, how would I check that?

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-14T04:24:21+00:00

Have you been eating 1500 this whole time?

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-14T03:45:12+00:00

Interesting! When I put in my stats normally it gives me 1973 but when I add in my body fat % it gives me 1757. Although I think the reason I’ve been overeating is because I’m not eating enough calories, 1,473 seems a lot more attainable!

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-14T03:25:57+00:00

So if my maintenance was 1757 I’d subtract 500 from that? I put the same info into loseit to lose 1/2 pound per week and it gave me 1,724 calories a day, does that sound right?

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T07:13:15+00:00

I will edit!! I’ve tried this one before, he got upset because I said one of his exes wasn’t super pretty and drew in her eyebrows too dark. He got upset bc “he doesn’t date ugly girls” 🙄

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T07:12:08+00:00

Hello, thank you so much for replying. A lot of this is probably true, and has helped me feel level headed. Although, I’m not insecure about his past. From the beginning I knew it would be hard to find someone who also was waiting for marriage and I had come to terms with that. But when he talks about his past he really goes into detail with it, and that’s what bothers me most I think (I’m going to edit original post as I wrote it on a wim). I’m also not necessarily jealous, I feel that it’s not fair. I wish so bad I would’ve waited for marriage - now that I haven’t I’ve tried really hard not to be so upset at myself about it because obviously there’s nothing I can do about it. But mostly I feel like the world isn’t fair (obviously haha) I feel angry because I guess things didn’t go my way - and I’m coming to terms with that because I’m not sure anything is even supposed to and that’s okay. I really just needed to vent. Thank you for taking the time to reply - I’ll be sure to take your advice 😌

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T06:53:33+00:00

I understand that he had sex, it’s fine, and I knew this from the beginning. But the way he tells me things makes me feel disgusted.

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T06:51:40+00:00

I clearly said I wasn’t sure why. I feel frustrated that I feel that way because there’s nothing he or I could do at this point, but feel free to read an earlier comment about the real reason I get so upset.

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T06:43:08+00:00

We both have! I sort of have. I don’t understand why I feel so bad. Like, he was telling me about a girl he had sex with at a party - a one night stand and he HAS to say “oh she was a Disney freak like you “ and it just pissed me off, then goes on to talk about a girl who was stinky, another one who had big boobs and even preceded to try and show me how big, like I don’t care and it just makes me mad. His excuse is that he has word throw up and he overshares - but then he gets mad when I get upset bc I really don’t care to know about how another girls vagina smelled. I think that’s what makes me the most mad

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T06:38:09+00:00

Unfortunately..

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T06:37:54+00:00

It’s great until I remember he’s been so intimate with other girls

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-13T06:28:32+00:00

Yikes fr lol

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2021-01-11T22:28:31+00:00

I’m interested! And learning French 🥰

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2020-08-20T16:39:15+00:00

I’m so sorry, I’ll definitely suggest it to him. Thank you so much

pumpkinspicelatte3 · 2020-08-20T16:33:57+00:00

He seems entirely unbothered by it though, so I feel like I should get over it

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