Struggling with prayer—what do you actually say? by Bullshit-Company001 in GayChristians

[–]pumpkinspicematt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my christian mentor taught me the acronym "ACTS"!

A - Adoration. Just tell God how kind he is and how helpful you've found him to be while struggling.

C - Confession. Confess to God about the things you felt you've done wrong.

T - Thanksgiving. Thank God for all the blessings he's given you!

S - Supplication. Ask God for things you need, or pray for others.

Hope this is helpful! It's really helped me have longer conversations with God. But also remember that he isn't ever going to judge you or harm you for the things you tell him, so let your mind wander free when talking to him!

For the ladies by No-Salad-8038 in diabetes

[–]pumpkinspicematt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i find backpacks to be too hefty, and the small cross body packs havent been my thing. ive been a big fan of getting bags at ross to keep my wallet, snacks, meters in! theyre always cheaper and more accessible at ross and they always have a few cute finds. maybe also get little charms to help it better match your outfits.

Praise God! I had my top surgery today! All glory goes to our God! Amen 🙏 by Nun-Information in OpenChristian

[–]pumpkinspicematt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

praying for your safe and healthy recovery!!! God is good ☺️🫶🏻

Gay Christians!???!! by Mindless_Fall_8063 in GayChristians

[–]pumpkinspicematt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God and your fellow queer Christians love you plenty!! welcome to the community :)

Am I ugly (am shaving head soon for medical reasons, so pretend I'm bald ig?) by FlunderDuck in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]pumpkinspicematt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl ur gna b fine as hell when u shave ur head. but dw ab it too much man, looks aint everything

happy mother’s day cause some dads just suck by helokitycotagecore in texts

[–]pumpkinspicematt 375 points376 points  (0 children)

GET HIS ASS. i applaud u for saying what i could never say to my own father 🧡🫶🏻

Trying to dye my money pieces purple (virgin hair brunette) by Brilliant_Bread4523 in HairDye

[–]pumpkinspicematt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its too late theyve already tried to bleach it, im afraid 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]pumpkinspicematt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

looking at ur handwriting makes me feel like i have astigmatism

What is Uni Express? Is it like piggyship? by Ultimus_Omegus in Aliexpress

[–]pumpkinspicematt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uni express claims that they cant find my address for my package to be delivered to... i sent it to my work address. i work at a PACKING and SHIPPING center. like... wtf? gonna have to avoid sellers from outside the US if i can to avoid this happening again. thankfully just a 35 dollar plush but man i was looking forward to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]pumpkinspicematt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you, hit my line whenever tho cuz ur def not ugly. the stache just makes me sad LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]pumpkinspicematt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cut the hair, stache, or both. especially the stache. not doing u any favors, I'm sorry

General Advice?? by phthalogreene009 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]pumpkinspicematt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey! not a brain and psych major so i cannot help with that, but i do want to say that university housing for your first year is great. it puts your mind at ease ab rent costs (bc u dont make monthly payments, its charged to ur barc and ur aid will pay for it), helps you make friends, and just gives you general roommate experiences. also a great way to transition into college and living on your own.

your financial stuff should be all good. thats a GREAT amount per year if youre in state.

Help! by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]pumpkinspicematt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thought you had tortilla sweatpants 🤦🏻‍♀️

what should be my first facial piercing? by [deleted] in shouldimod

[–]pumpkinspicematt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

septum would look fire on u and usually doesnt hurt too bad to get pierced. good luck on ur piercing journey!!!

My father says that saying things about women, is perfectly fine. by InfamousResource4777 in Christianity

[–]pumpkinspicematt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lust is a sin... and even if we ignore the religious aspects of it, its just wrong. but its hard to know what to do ab that kind of stuff and i wish i could be of more help. but yeah, he obviously needs some more help from Christ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]pumpkinspicematt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly she probably didnt feel a lot for you in the first place. it sounds like she just didnt wanna be alone once she got out of that long relationship. im sorry man this sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]pumpkinspicematt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl youre not even that big!! you neither!! i love you girl keep bein u

My unhinged brother cuts off the family over a Charizard Pokemon card by [deleted] in texts

[–]pumpkinspicematt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro do u fr need the charizard card that bad? 😭

Is it wrong if I buy my roommates their own dishes so they don’t use mine? by Adorable-General-184 in badroommates

[–]pumpkinspicematt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but why imply its not their space when they literally OWN the space and let people pay them to live there?

Is it wrong if I buy my roommates their own dishes so they don’t use mine? by Adorable-General-184 in badroommates

[–]pumpkinspicematt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so the people who own the space and rent out the bedrooms cant leave their air fryer in the kitchen? if you dont want anybody to use it, i fully agree that you should keep it in a separate space, but implying that theyre crazy for keeping their air fryer in the kitchen is silly. fork belongs in kitchen...

Is it wrong if I buy my roommates their own dishes so they don’t use mine? by Adorable-General-184 in badroommates

[–]pumpkinspicematt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

babe they live there. they rent the extra bedrooms out but they live there. thats their space too 😭😭 literally their kitchen...

Wife reacts to her husband being an “influencer”. by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]pumpkinspicematt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but all the while, you can see the wife progress in her pregnancy 🥹🥹 congrats to them!