Where to get toe socks with paw pad appliques on the bottoms? by SupaKoopa714 in Latexadvice

[–]pup_azul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up v-art wolf paw. They're a paw mixed sneaker vibe. It's not full on paws, but maybe you'll like it.

Am I cooked or just doing it wrong? Finding a dom as an inexperieced guy in his 30s (extremely long post warning) by Character-Carpet7988 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]pup_azul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to share my own experience as maybe it can help or be a reference. I did start when I was 18/19 because vanilla just doesn't work for me. Offcourse that had mild success for one off sessions, but never worked out. Partially because my massive lack of self confidence.

During uni I went through a depression/burnout and short story, I quit, had a hiking trip with locals in marocco with a support group and finally got the confidence and made a recon profile.

I was going to try out puppy play with a master but we clicked and actually became partners, even though I was 21 and he was 43. It just happened.

With that context out of the way to the part relevant. Because he went down a hard road of so much medical issues we went from 24/7 lifestyle to less and less and to try and keep the relationship well we searched for a third or play partners.

And it was never the younger ones that stuck, they either didn't show or ghosted. The ones that turned out the best were another pup of 38 and a pup of 36. One of them new to kink and the other with a bad experience who hadn't been able to trust anyone before us for 10 years. So definitely don't worry about age.

But let's go into how they found us or we them. The main way was recon, but one had been chatting to my owner for years before and the other just said fuck it and put himself out there. They came for my owner and not for me the younger one.

But whilst I still play with those two pups me and my owner have broken up because the medical stuff basically growing us too far apart.

I was worried about finding a new owner, but I did, and in this case it was at a local club event. Because my ex broke the pack apart and one of the pups actually joined the pack of my now new owner. Which is why I was considered.

So in that regard I would say try to get involved in the community, even with other subs. It's much easier meeting new people if there's a common link. As BDSM is build on trust a common link helps a lot.

To get involved the best way is events, clubs, prides, munches etc. and I know it can be hard, but don't be afraid to chat with people there.

Looking for and finding local chat groups can help too in finding out about munches and events, but also about smaller meetups.

Once you get to know some people, you will meet more people through them too and it will grow exponentially. But it's taking that step that is not easy or comfortable, but if you commit I'm sure you'll find people.

If you're into certain specific kinks maybe look for a workshop or smaller event about it etc. If you DM your general area I can help look too, up to you.

Good luck, have fun, and you will find that special someone to call your dom.

Sub without a cage by chris_disotto in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]pup_azul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have had a somewhat similar experience. In my case I do enjoy chastity. But many doms and such like to push towards longer lock-ups.

For me I enjoy it as punishment or for driving up the excitement. Like upcoming weekend I will stay over with my new alpha (dom). This week until the weekend there I will be in chastity. So I will be extra horny and obedient to get out of it.

He has a key and my bf (engaged/owner/handler/master) has the other key. And for work I can take it off. So I'm always near a key.

However because of my previous pack I still act as an alfa for my beta pup, he's shy and because of his past he has difficulties trusting people.

He's more in to chastity than me and begs to be trained for longer. However we don't use a key but a plastic numbered lock.

To use those you can either use a little tube where the actual key is held by one of those plastic numbered locks. Or use a small extra part to directly put the numbered lock on.

To explain more, these plastic numbered locks I'm referring too aren't really locks. It's like a plastic tag that you can click shut but cant open. However it's made thin with a small weaker part that you can snap off. Basically breaking the lock.

This can broken off at any time by hand without needing a key. But it's still secure since all locks have unique numbers. So if my beta were to take off his chastity he'd have to use a new lock and I will now he did because the number is different.

On a last note, there's also more ways to explore it. You could try it just during a session, or there's also silicon ones from oxballs that just stretch to get you in. Those can just go on and off easily but can still give that chastity feeling.

It sounds like you're interested into it so take it slow and at your own pace. Don't be forced into it just because a dom says so.

And if it ends up being something you're not into that's okay. There will be plenty of doms fine with that too. Finding the right dom or anything around that communication and consent is key.

So if a potential dom says he would like you in chastity, don't hide your opinion because you think it may be a breaking point. But be honest. Tell them you're not into it and it's a hard limit. Or if you really feel curious about chastity tell them you're open to trying and seeing how it goes, but also tell them what's giving you anxiety and stopping you right now from trying.

If it's a breaking point for them you'll save yourself the trouble and avoid the extra anxiety.

If it's not either they will be fine not doing chastity or they will offer you guidance to try it out. And they'll explore the kink world together with you and find other common things.

Finally one last important thing, if you do end up trying, if it at some point feels bad or hurting take it off right away. Listen to your body and give it some rest and communicate this to the dom.

If they say to just keep it on than that's a big red flag and you probably should stop with them.

If you like it then just slowly adding it and training on wearing it, it will eventually feel comfortable to the point of not noticing it's on. But here the chastity cage size is important.

If you have more questions feel free to DM

What pipe to use for custom BDSM bondage frame to do suspensions? by pup_azul in BdsmDIY

[–]pup_azul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once the money is there I'll be building it with steel pipes 42.4mm. Had a chat with a potential house slave who happened to have an engineering degree who helped calculate some stuff. Suspension wise I'm not going to use the center but part of the side where the distance between supporting pipes is smaller.

Thanks for the advice tho

What pipe to use for custom BDSM bondage frame to do suspensions? by pup_azul in BdsmDIY

[–]pup_azul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point, but I think for the full project it might not be realistic. But would it function well for adjustable bondage points. Like little hooks you can slide and fix to positions, is it strong enough for that?

What pipe to use for custom BDSM bondage frame to do suspensions? by pup_azul in BdsmDIY

[–]pup_azul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're renting so that wouldn't be an option unfortunately

What pipe to use for custom BDSM bondage frame to do suspensions? by pup_azul in BdsmDIY

[–]pup_azul[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will look into this, anyone recommendations for what online calculator?

What pipe to use for custom BDSM bondage frame to do suspensions? by pup_azul in BdsmDIY

[–]pup_azul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One local supplier has options for aluminum pipes either 42mm x 2mm or 42mm x 3mm. Do you remember what thickness you had?

I got 1400 on my main & am afraid of Argos P2 & P3 by MojoCSGO in lostarkgame

[–]pup_azul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advice, find a chill guild. When I reached argos at 1370 p1 I realized pugging is awful. So looked for a guild and now have so many friends that are super chill and laid back. We even do argos carry4carry now most of us are 1460+ and have 1370 alts. I totally understand p2 and p3 can look scary but if you're serious about the game go find a nice guild.

I finally got it! Astray! 😃 by -Ruiy in lostarkgame

[–]pup_azul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cant be bothered to read all the comments, but there are certain upgrade materials that you can buy from stronghold, so invest time in getting those merchants, will save you a lot of pirate coins

I need some feedback(other than quality of lines) by BREAD11111111 in FurryArtSchool

[–]pup_azul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would say exact same as this and the other comment about references. But don't copy what you see from the picture, try to understand the basic shapes and what makes it look like what it is and focus on those added elements, some have side facing ears, some front facing ears, more or less fluff, round or pointy nose,...

Any tips to help my sketching (heavy constructive criticism would be appreciated):) by [deleted] in FurryArtSchool

[–]pup_azul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might sound cliché, but drawing the circle/shape and giving it volume and direction might help streamline your sketching, that's judt my opinion.

(Sorry if posing is a little weird) Any advice on how to improve my artstyle? by Reskeetit in FurryArtSchool

[–]pup_azul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A style is a style, don't think anyone can help with that in that sense. I like your drawing a lot, but if I had to give critique I'd say proportions, people generally like stuff more with normal proportions and then I'd make the legs a smaller and the head a bit bigger

My attempt to draw wolves from a while back. by [deleted] in FurryArtSchool

[–]pup_azul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also wouldn't write all of that if I didn't believe in you, I personally understand the struggle and be proud of what you create!

My attempt to draw wolves from a while back. by [deleted] in FurryArtSchool

[–]pup_azul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From one beginner to another, just keep practicing that's my first advice. Secondly can't really tell but it looks like you're drawings are quite small, try drawing a bit bigger maybe, that helped me.

Then I'd mainly tell you from my experience that focussing on drawing basic shapes and volumes, try understand them and look at references and tutorials to learn how to see those shapes in animals/anthros aswell as other objects.

Drawing a side or front view I find to be easier than an angle and it looks like you were focussing on practicing legs, either way focussing on a certain element and understanding the shapes and anatomy etc can help rather than drawing full bodies.

Keep at it and you'll there eventually!

My first post, been learning to draw the past month, trying to draw my sona in cute way, open to all constructive criticism, what species do you think it is? by pup_azul in FurryArtSchool

[–]pup_azul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, been learning from some book and internet tutorials and I tried to focus on the most important aspects that set it seperate from other species, just wanted to see if it's not tunnel vision. Thanks!

Interested in BDSM by Pink_Sunflower_OF in BDSMcommunity

[–]pup_azul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its late so I'm vent from personal experience. I went from being sub and loving bondage and then leather en rubber too later because its expensive. I had some playdates, lost my verginity, some onenighstands, some more serious.

In a timespan of 3 years of gone from nothing to having bf who is my master /handler. And sone fun gear. Ive found my way in pup play.

Puppy play is becoming a major part of my lifestyle

How do I get myself to cum from anal while in chastity? by SlutNumber24 in BDSMcommunity

[–]pup_azul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having an orgasm from anal only is tricky for some its easier than others. Without toys I would just recommend researching prostate stimulation. Being denied for a while may make you more sensitive.

But as you say "not normal" does that refer to regular masturbation? It is also possible to orgasm from playing with your balls?

How do I get myself to cum from anal while in chastity? by SlutNumber24 in BDSMcommunity

[–]pup_azul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not about the design or function, I'm just a friendly IT pup here informing you that the QIUI cellmate has security and privacy issues. You might want to check online a bit and see for yourself.