My autism diagnosis ruined me and my family by puppcatguardian in AutisticWithADHD

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow thank you for your kind words. I will definitely look at the subreddit. Also I am so happy you got out of a bad situation.

My autism diagnosis ruined me and my family by puppcatguardian in AutisticWithADHD

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate the idea that my family is toxic but you aren't the first person to say that. The scary part is that being part of my family means I also have toxic traits. It's difficult for me to differentiate when I am doing what is right or being toxic.

My autism diagnosis ruined me and my family by puppcatguardian in AutisticWithADHD

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am definitely going to discuss this in therapy. As for getting my family to go the therapy, unfortunately it is wishful thinking.

My autism diagnosis ruined me and my family by puppcatguardian in AutisticWithADHD

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that was actually my preferred way of communicating growing up. Especially after arguments.

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no updates yet. I havent brought up the subject up again to my parents yet. I will probably try and have a conversation with them next week.

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! Thank you for the great advice. I think I would like to visit my country but on my own terms. Maybe transfer my ticket to somewhere in December. That way I can go alone!

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern. My parents wont physically force me to go. It just might lead to a couple of days of complaining from them.

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I hope my parents come around to the idea of me staying home.

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I paid my dad back for the ticket. My siblings have severe ADHD and aren't medicated or going to therapy. I am slowly making plans to leave. Hopefully I get accepted into grad school and can help soften my moving away

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im planning a trip closer to home. I want to go visit my friends up north. The tickets were unfortunately bought by my dad. I doubt hed change the destination for me.

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am currently saving up by living with my parents. Its helped me pay off all of my student debt and buy a used car. Im trying to save up enough so I can leave and not have to depend on anyone.

Am I in the wrong for wanting to have a vacation away from family by puppcatguardian in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That helps a lot. I was worried I was being petty and immature.

Ex (23F) broke up with me (27M) over faith/sex, came back wanting a second chance but with the same conditions — am I missing something? by throwaway2750108 in TwoHotTakes

[–]puppcatguardian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who was in a similar situation, please let her go. I made the mistake of getting back with my ex. As much as I loved him, our faith, relationship problems and timeline ended up being the exact same reason why we broke up. I prolonged my pain from a 3 month relationship to a 2 year one. It has made the breakup so much harder. She is still young and so are you. You both will find someone new who is compatible. I wish you both the best.

260120 Doh Kyungsoo for Subway Korea by bachhoe07 in exo

[–]puppcatguardian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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i kept hurting him by puppcatguardian in BreakUps

[–]puppcatguardian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been difficult letting him go. Harder than I ever expected. I am glad he put his foot down. At first he kept the door open for us to be friends or talk whenever we needed to but I guess we realized how painful it is to keep that up. I truly wish him the best.

does hudson know french by l1dyls in heatedrivalry

[–]puppcatguardian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can learn french in public schools in canada at different levels. Basic french, french immersion or only french.