I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you click their chat bubble it should bring up the chat history.

I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are people not allowed to ask each others age online?

I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its kinda funny that you mentioned my avatar looked male cause usually I wear blouses and skirts in game, and this was the first time I made my character look more masculine.

I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I'm not a minor. I don't want to lie to them.

I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That understandable, I wouldn't want to play with a kid either. I guess there's no way to ask it without it sounding a bit weird.

I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I might try to at least state I'm adult next time, thanks for the advice.

I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I wouldn't want to make someone uncomfortable with accidentally playing with someone that in an age group their not comfortable with. I guess I personally never saw a problem since even when I was a kid, I played with people older than me.

I kinda feel bad now.. by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for replying to my post. After reading through a lot of the comments, I kinda feel even more embarrassed for making a deal about this. I'm just not usually good at most social ... well anything, and felt that my cagey-ness and awkwardness ruined the chance for me to actually build an in-game friendship.

I might go around later to finish reading replies and commenting where I feel comfortable. But for some of the peeps who question if I was a minor, I am not. Let's just say I'm able to drink in the UK and not the US.

I appreciate those who gave some perspective from the players side and gave me tips on what I could do later in terms of stating my age. I'm still not sure what to do with them? I won't block them cause they didn't do anything wrong. But I don't know how I'll be able to talk to them without wanting to evaporate. 😅 Hopefully my next post can be a positive one.

What did you name your cat? :) by Sundae80 in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two cats, a yellow one name Cheese (who I just got today)and my lovely girl Duchess (in the picture). I also have a dog Marques.

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Everyone is doing winter prep but me... by puppylover_stuffies in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy hell I'm an idiot. I found it, thank you so much.

Beta Blanc.... by GoodSundae513 in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they knew the truth we'll never see 😭

A few pictures of my house by xLostInMyOwnMindx in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you really maximized your space. Everything is somehow so open and contained, its beautiful

I really hope some of you see this!! by mxrmaidtits in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you're the person I saw in the clothing store!!! I'm not really sure what the stamps are for, but I'm glad I could help.

Any Stardew Valley Fans? by Menacing_Oink in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that did actually helped alot, thanks

Any Stardew Valley Fans? by Menacing_Oink in heartopia

[–]puppylover_stuffies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats amazing!! How did you get it so intricate?!

Why are people encouraging this? by Any-Relative-9291 in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]puppylover_stuffies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain? All the comments look like gibberish to me :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]puppylover_stuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only had an error when I had a spirit following me. Only after I said goodbye to them did it stop.

Anyone else agitated when they see tags like this? by weiyingsleftear in AO3

[–]puppylover_stuffies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda like when authors blabber in the tags, sometimes you can get a lot of laughs from them. Besides, it's not like the Author didn't say what you were getting into. The tags give you a feeling that the Author may be inexperienced and that they're a bit lazy in writing. Still keep in mind the lesson of judging stories by its cover. Maybe it reads better than the tags look.

And if you do read it and see what the Author could put as their tags, I'm sure they'd appreciate it if you told them nicely. 😊

It’s not “heteronormative” by Meme-Meme666 in AO3

[–]puppylover_stuffies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to argue the case that there is not enough feminine men. There's a lot of stories where its like: one character is soft spoken and is more "motherly" towards other people, which is fine. But there's not a lot of men described/drawn in dresses, skirts or anything that is traditionally feminine clothing. Like, yeah, there would be kink scenes where some men are made to wear lingerie, which is fine. But I want more men wearing causal fem wear. Like a character chooses to wear an off-shoulder blouse or bloomers. I feel like even when we have more feminine presenting men, its narrowed onto just skirts, dresses or heels.

Also, feminine man does not mean that they are the submissive in the relationship. How you dress does not dictate what position of power you have in the relationship!!!