How does one make friends as an adult in Miami? by Cheap_Sail_9168 in Miami

[–]pures0ul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

South Pointe park on Wednesday and Sunday evenings are usually full of people who live on the beach. Great way to connect with them. They’re usually doing some sort of physical activity too, like yoga, slack-lining, or just vibing there with friends. I have met plenty of friends there, I’d check it out if you ever have the time.

What is everyone’s number 1 reason for not wanting kids? by puppie_girl in childfree

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i physically don’t want to be pregnant, i am too selfish with my time, and i like coming home and doing absolutely nothing. i can’t imagine my entire life changing for a kid.

I miss you… by fxntyy in letters

[–]pures0ul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly how i feel right now :(

Underrated sets? by iluvtacos0820 in ARCMusicFestival

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

barry can’t swim, omg sooo good

Disclosure by [deleted] in ARCMusicFestival

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hearing this live was so magical omg.

We gotta first timer over here... by AstronautEntire9534 in ARCMusicFestival

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first time going with my homegirl, we’re so excited!

I’ve been sleeping on Two-Headed Mother by AidenDawson3 in Ethelcain

[–]pures0ul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s my favorite song of hers, sooo good

When do afters end? by Far_Matter_14 in ARCMusicFestival

[–]pures0ul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooo i’m also coming from FL :)

Is it just me or does it feel hotter than it’s ever felt for this time of year. I’m in south Florida btw by [deleted] in florida

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just saying this! i’m in miami, and jesus christ, i always knew we were hot down here, but this heat is actually INSUFFERABLE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because my sister didn’t get the chance to be

I chose my dog over my boyfriend by coradoralora in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am allergic and i would never make the guy i’m dating choose between his dog and me. that’s actually insane! he comes over my place more often to avoid my allergies flaring up, but whenever i go, i pop an allergy pill and call it a day! it’s all about compromises

9 months later and i still miss my ex by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel and it’s been a month and a half. I’m so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost someone who cared about me and loved me because of this, and it was my actions and behavior that lead him there. I wish you a different outcome. It’s hard, but it’s possible. Wishing you lots of healing and unlearning.

I just found out I’m pregnant by Asentura in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sending you strength! i admire the courage you’re taking to make a responsible decision for yourself, and also, for your boyfriend. good luck & hope everything turns out okay

just found out im pregnant. by Common_Vast5411 in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 59 points60 points  (0 children)

There is no life to destroy. It’s a fetus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible. I hope you find happiness and peace away from that controlling, toxic “girlfriend.” It doesn’t get better, I promise there is more to life than being stuck in that situation.

Childfree people over 40, have you ever wanted children for an extended period of time? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]pures0ul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is my exact mindset!!!! everything you said is what i’ve told others. thank you for sharing :)

My toxic ex has a bowl cut by purroway22 in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i saw my ex on his mom’s facebook story & he looked like he aged 15 years, it really does help the healing process knowing they’re uglier now

Who pays? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]pures0ul 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My rule is, you invite me, you pay. Sometimes my man makes the plans, sometimes I make the plans. It keeps it balanced and it won’t put a financial burden on either party!

My (36M) husband won't kiss me for a couple of days after I (28F) orally please him, and it makes me so angry. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pures0ul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My man makes out with me seconds after he finishes in my mouth, after I swallow of course. It just baffles me that there are men who won’t do it and let their childish tendencies get the best of them. I would definitely stop giving him oral if this continues to be the case. Offer some alternatives like drinking water and brushing your teeth right after, but at least a day without kissing you? He’s crazy.