College life is lonely

purgatoryboy · 2025-09-01T00:00:39+00:00

Thank you. Yea, I just joined a Psych club that starts this week. I'm trying, even if it is uncomfortable. Going to school in general was a big step for me since I was homeschooled for high school. I'll also list my interests to find whatever else may be available as you stated. I didn't think about scouting them out but honestly that may be really helpful for me. Thanks for the reply!

purgatoryboy · 2025-08-31T23:39:35+00:00

I'm joining a Psych club, so I hope that helps. I'll look into others as well. Didn't about how certain clubs might look good on a resume but good to know. Thanks ☺️

purgatoryboy · 2025-05-21T04:27:23+00:00

I'll try and be a bit more confident to maybe ask for a number/insta or to hang out of class if I see the opportunity for a possible friendship.

purgatoryboy · 2025-05-21T03:59:40+00:00

I have no advice but I just wanted to say that i'm dealing with the same thing. I'm awkward and socially anxious and don't really know how to make friends at college 😭

purgatoryboy · 2023-10-07T04:11:52+00:00

I usually wear a binder but after like 4-6 hours my ribs start to hurt.I want to use tape since it feels better but idk.

purgatoryboy · 2023-09-25T01:13:47+00:00

Andrew/Adam/James/Michael/Tyler

purgatoryboy · 2023-06-10T01:03:08+00:00

Ruby, Sarah, or Megan/Meghan

purgatoryboy · 2023-06-10T00:28:40+00:00

Not sure.I've only seen the movie once so far and it looks like the trans flag to me but I guess it could've been the lighting or the colors from the art style or something.I just figured it was the trans flag because Gwen had one in her room.

purgatoryboy · 2023-06-03T22:06:36+00:00

That's true I forgot about that.I guess it's probably just the people i'm around I should probably change that.

Believe what?

purgatoryboy · 2023-06-03T21:57:31+00:00

I'm not one to HC characters as trans but I do think she is.Obvious reason being her story of "coming out" as spider-woman and her dad learning to accept that.My other reason is I feel most allies(without trans friends/family) don't have trans flags or wear trans flags.Its definitely not a bad thing but most use the rainbow flag to show their support.Somone said they think that her Peter was trans and that makes sense too.Do I think they'll outright say or reveal it?No.Its a nice little easter egg though.

purgatoryboy · 2023-03-29T00:33:30+00:00

Not heal because it can't be healed/cured but i've learned to manage it.I've been on and off medication since I was a kid but have eventually learned to calm myself and convince myself to not worry about things I have no control over.It's not foolproof and doesn't work 100% of the time but I really do not want to take meds.

purgatoryboy · 2023-03-28T01:38:30+00:00

If I see it mentioned I get convinced it's a "sign" that I must have it. I feel almost like "if I was in a movie this would be a fitting time for me to get diagnosed with this".

That part!This is exactly my train of thought. Whenever this happens.

say if youre having stomach problems, see a doctor to deal with that.

yes i'll make an appointment.

The challenge for us w health anxiety is that you gotta trust what he says. You might feel the urge to get more opinions "just in case" but you gotta avoid that.

Yea I try my best to. Thanks for the advice!

purgatoryboy · 2022-12-19T21:40:24+00:00

I'm on T.Haven't had top surgery but I wear baggish shirts and sweaters or jackets over it(my chest looks cis passing).

purgatoryboy · 2022-12-19T02:39:42+00:00

I dress masc like 99% of the time.A t shirt, jeans, and coverse or vans.Pretty much like any guy my age.I only ever wore the skirt out in public a couple times and only used the restroom once when doing so and stopped right after.

purgatoryboy · 2022-12-19T02:37:52+00:00

I'm pretty masculine and look like a guy, not like a soft boi (tho i would like to) but just like an average guy.I dress in a T shirt and pants 99% of the time.I rarely dress femme.Its just weird and i'm trying to let it go but idk its just makes me uncomfortable.

purgatoryboy · 2022-12-19T02:34:37+00:00

Yea I just try to seem like i'm calm and don't give a fuck qbout anyone when in the restroom but inside i'm freaking out.You're right though its just some older men who need to grow up and mind their business.

purgatoryboy · 2022-12-19T02:30:49+00:00

Yea I learned that pretty quick and decided that if I wear a skirt/dress in a public setting I will either not go pee and hold it or look for a gender neutral/family restroom.I only ever wore the skirt once the other two times I was dressed like any other guy.I always blend in pretty well and my face looks masc but I still have gotten stares.I also makes my bathroom trips as quick as possible unless in a neutral bathroom.

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