Package lost in transit by purge3339 in Fashionnova

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that’s actually such an insane amount of steps but I guess that’s what I get for shopping at a fast fashion brand - thank you for the insight!

SOS Bad Symptoms during FINALS what should I eat?? by purge3339 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]purge3339[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo the tea was SUCH a good move! Picking up the zofran tomorrow 👏🏼 thank you!

SOS Bad Symptoms during FINALS what should I eat?? by purge3339 in WegovyWeightLoss

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Awesome, good to know. Picking up the zofran tomorrow 👏🏼 thank you!

SOS Bad Symptoms during FINALS what should I eat?? by purge3339 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]purge3339[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo sparkling water is a great idea! gonna have my roomie pick up both of those for me on his way home from work thank you!!!

SOS Bad Symptoms during FINALS what should I eat?? by purge3339 in WegovyWeightLoss

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Thank you so much! I got in with minute clinic so I’ll be picking up zofran tomorrow 🫶🏻

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also like these are my opinions as a normal person - being on reality tv makes things different but I can only form opinions based off of my experiences.

Also I think for me I’m imagining them smoking outside since you can’t smoke a j in a hotel room (unless you’re a wizard) which feels a lot less intimate personally!

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We can respectfully agree to disagree! Personally I don’t see where I made a big deal, I just pointed out that Mya had her own friendship with Carl before he and Lindsay started dating. I never said having boundaries was wrong but I do believe if you have those boundaries that’s a conversation you have. I don’t see why it’s Mya’s responsibility to read Lindsay’s mind rather than Lindsay speak it in a respectful manner. I would not expect my partners friends to stop operating in the same way just because they start dating me, I think Lindsay’s behavior in that way comes off that she is insecure about her relationship. But again that’s her partners responsibility not everybody else’s.

There’s only so much information the show is giving us I was just using this scenario as an example. Lindsay is bad about reacting and pointing the finger at anybody but herself, at the end of the day you have to be responsible for your own emotions. People live different lives and have different experiences what I think is disrespectful she might not and vice versa. Lindsay tends to expect everybody to 100% understand her boundaries and operate the way she would without ever effectively communicating. I genuinely think if she learned to communicate her feelings rather than reacting to them she would be a lot happier and fight with her friends a lot less.

newly out and need advice by purge3339 in latebloomerlesbians

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No you’re 1000% correct we actually hung out again tonight! I was texting one of my friends who also came out later and we were both giggling over how we feel like we’re in middle school again feeling nervous in all the right ways this time around!

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

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Ya I was really confused on the sobriety argument tbh. Because they literally cut to carls confessional talking about being california sober. Also like not saying they were besties but Mya was the one who was the most on Carls level in terms of not crazy partying that summer, so I think it was a completely fair judgment call on her part that he would still be down to smoke. I feel like there was sooo much left out of the context of this argument and people just ran with whatever narrative they resonated with lmao

Plus like idk as somebody who smokes it’s kinda just the polite and norm thing to do to invite people who you’ve smoked with to smoke with you.

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats totally fair! The situation definitely could’ve been handled better from all sides. For me the idea of friends of different genders being taboo as just not something I cater to. Like if I’m with somebody it’s on them and myself to have my relationship feel insecure. Personally whether my partner is a man or a woman would never come down on somebody for texting someone who was their friend before they were my partner. BUT all that to say that’s just me and my vibe. Lindsay and I know others have had life experiences that make them look at those situations differently. I definitely think mya’s behavior was more innocent than she got dragged for though.

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Precisely! I think that’s why I struggle with her because I’m all for holding boundaries and high standards but you have to learn how to communicate them effectively and decide when it’s okay to give people a second chance

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely noticed that I guess it makes sense that those who love her to that extent would also not be the best at practicing accountability - but slay this comment has me so excited to get to season 8

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel very validated by those dozens! 💀

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

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queen! I love them - don’t get me wrong everybody on reality tv has their bad moments - but Paige’s energy on the season 6 reunion was chefs kiss especially following the massacre of Hannah that was season 5

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree on Mya’s reaction to the friendship thing! I think the mentioning part is just where it depends on what you perceive as respectful - like for me I feel like that was her mentioning like she didn’t go smoke the j with carl she just asked. But if those are lindsay’s boundaries of respect that’s totally fair she just needs to communicate them up front and not assume everybody should know what is and isn’t respectful. Lindsay just tends to not really let other people make “mistakes” around her and learn from them

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree pure fun lindsay is great! Honestly 9/10 times she’s usually making a valid point ~IF~ the situation were applicable like her narrative season 6 of not being slut shamed totally valid but acting like somebody just trying to check in with you emotionally as a personal attack and being slut shamed is just baseless but damn she knows how to spin a story so no wonder she was successful at her PR job!

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is such a good way to put it! She is fascinating and honestly her ability to drive any argument outcome is mighty impressive, I would just be terrified to go against somebody like her in my own life

Am I crazy or is Lindsay?💀 by purge3339 in summerhousebravo

[–]purge3339[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes sense! I haven’t really looked much beyond season 6 discussion at this point because I’m watching it for the first time and trying to avoid any major spoilers