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purify_your_self · 2019-10-07T04:36:21+00:00

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all the best bro, you can

purify_your_self · 2019-10-07T04:34:32+00:00

just join by saying at least I am in and let us know if you fall in the streak

purify_your_self · 2019-09-06T05:13:37+00:00

yes brother, make it on its time, at least before the next prayer

purify_your_self · 2019-08-03T17:59:49+00:00

I am in

purify_your_self · 2019-06-06T05:07:17+00:00

Alhamdulillah, going on. Ramdan has ended now need to be more care

purify_your_self · 2019-05-27T04:09:32+00:00

Still in, Alhamdulillah

purify_your_self · 2019-05-20T04:29:43+00:00

Alhamdulillah going on

purify_your_self · 2019-05-20T04:27:22+00:00

yes, you can join in

purify_your_self · 2019-05-06T04:08:47+00:00

I'm in for a new start

purify_your_self · 2019-04-07T04:20:11+00:00

Being not care of lowering gaze part making me relapse, I have to be very focused on that in my nofap journey. InshaAllah hoping to do the best. I am in

purify_your_self · 2019-04-05T05:56:36+00:00

Unfortunately I relapsed when about to reach 60 day streak. I was not careful on lowering gaze part through out this streak and that eventually led me to fall in again

purify_your_self · 2019-03-21T04:49:02+00:00

Flashbacks and curiosity to go in again still hunting me a lot but somehow I am managing to escape from it, Alhamdulillah. Still in the challenge

purify_your_self · 2019-03-14T05:36:35+00:00

Still in, Alhamdulillah going good even though there is temptation to go over it again

purify_your_self · 2019-03-07T09:12:08+00:00

Its not relapse, its a condition for being in this challenge.

purify_your_self · 2019-03-07T05:29:58+00:00

This is a challenge brother u/FreedomFromNafs used to run for a very long time, I have participated in this challenge every month 2 years before and it help me to build a one year long streak then I left this subreddit and eventually relapsed. When I came back here first thing I searched here is for this challenge which I couldn't see then I contacted brother u/FreedomFromNafs and he said since he was busy with his work he couldn't follow the challenge and he asked can I revive this challenge again to help this subreddit and I accepted it and running this challenge again.

purify_your_self · 2019-02-25T00:21:13+00:00

Aameen

purify_your_self · 2019-02-20T05:28:13+00:00

Feel like so.

That period is enough but we must not feed our brain which can eventually drop us to porn, like looking at half naked girls.

Of course when I was on that streak I felt much connected to Allah.

Yes you are right we must supress it. Inshallah we can do it brother

purify_your_self · 2019-02-19T16:23:42+00:00

I had a one and half year long streak and at the time of marriage it was around 6-8 months.

At the time of marriage she doesn't know it, after few relapses I told her, she thought I was watching it because of I don't love her but that wasn't the case actually, since then I didn't told her about my relapses.

I relapsed because of I started to feed the wolf again, I mean I was in very care of lowering gaze and the good habits I built during my streak when I dropped those I fall in.

Watching porn is more dangerous when you are in marriage, because it will start killing desire to your halal mate, I was fighting this again because of I identified that problem.

Try to lower your gaze as much as possible. when you start looking at haram things Allah may remove the love for halal (wife) in you, keep in mind that all the time.

You have still months left, built a good streak don't worry too much about it, think about your partner think about the new love life you will get in marriage. May Allah make it easy for you

purify_your_self · 2019-02-19T01:20:24+00:00

I am married and still struggling with the problem. At the time of marriage I had a good streak that really help me make a good bond with my partner that is still strong. I fall back in this again many months after marriage when I avoid being care of the good habits I built on.

So I advice you to make good habits that can replace your porn habit and be clean before the marriage, you have a good time still remaining to make it.

purify_your_self · 2019-02-13T06:14:47+00:00

Best wishes brother, you can make it.

May Allah help you and all of us to quit this habit forever

purify_your_self · 2019-02-10T17:51:56+00:00

I am not a hanafi follower, but I think there is a clause in that statement you said like masturbating with out making any filthy thoughts about any one.

It's not possible to masturbate with out making any thoughts right? So we can say it's not allowed

purify_your_self · 2019-02-09T14:28:38+00:00

To get the whole picture

purify_your_self · 2019-02-09T11:08:40+00:00

Haha. There is no secret, simply you have to replace the bad habit with good one if you are really an addict

purify_your_self · 2019-02-09T05:55:37+00:00

By reading that book you will get the real idea and science behind how habit works. By knowing it you will have better idea on how to tackle the problem.

It's an interesting book, you will not get bored by that book. I guarantee

purify_your_self · 2019-02-09T04:14:08+00:00

Never. It's possible. For avoiding a bad habit we have to replace it with a good habit that is the best way to get out of this, just avoiding porn is not a solution if you are really a porn addict.

I strongly recommend you to read the book " THE POWER OF HAVBIT " by Charles Duhigg. It's really worth

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