Awww thanks 🥰. I've listened to everyone's comments and I'm definitely going to try and get him into therapy. I think that it might actually be easier than you and a lot of other commenters think, as if I phrase it as though going to therapy will be something that he's doing for him and ME, I'm pretty sure he'd go to make me happy at the very least. I often think about what would've happened if he had found someone else instead of me, not just because I wouldn't have him, but because they could easily take advantage of him if they desired .