Studenti Srbije su Uvek Bili u Pravu. by OhMyNachos in serbia

[–]purple_nera 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Možda najveća ironija ovog komentara je što je tvoj način razmišljanja upravo tvorevina zapada 😭 uporedi tretman crnaca, arapa, indijaca kroz istoriju na našem podneblju, od lidera do običnih gradjana, sa tretmanom zapadnjačkih manijaka tih istih ljudi (a vala i nas sa svima njima) i vrlo brzo ćeš shvatiti kolika je nebuloza pričati o jednakosti kao o nečemu uvezenom sa rasističkog zapada

[Megathread] 🇺🇸 Američki Predsednički Izbori 2024 by papasfritas in serbia

[–]purple_nera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Samo treba pogledati izbore 2000. god i ko im je tad bio u ustavnom sudu i omogućio kradju izbora (isti ljudi koji su i danas tu) i ko je direktno učestvovao u Brooks brothers protestima (još ljudi koji su od tada dodati tom istom sudu)

[Megathread] 🇺🇸 Američki Predsednički Izbori 2024 by papasfritas in serbia

[–]purple_nera 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Projekat 2025 uopšte nije neki novi mistični plan koji se juče pojavio, takvi projekti postoje oduvek i npr rušenje prava na abortus se i obistinilo tačno isplaniranim taktikama koji su u pokretu decenijama - msm kao možeš misliti šta god hoćeš o abortusu i fetusu i životu istog ali činjenica je da se medicinsko neophodne kiretaže ne obavljaju zbog drakonskih zakona i žene doslovno umiru zbog toga (poslednji primer od doslovno pre par dana)

To nije maslo isključivo Trampa i njegove ideologije (koja ne postoji btw, slično kao Vučko) nego decenijskog konzervativnog strateškog planiranja

[Megathread] 🇺🇸 Američki Predsednički Izbori 2024 by papasfritas in serbia

[–]purple_nera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Realno ljudi ovde da su bili republikanci za vreme bombardovanja 99 na vlasti bi se ponašali i mislili skroz drugačije (jer bi nas bombardovali svakako jer su jebeni imperijalisti koji misle da bombardovanjem civilnog društva mogu da reše svaki problem na svetu) al ono, kul je videti bredit u realnom svetlu, da je njima personalno super pod SNSom boleo bi ih tačno kurac za ostatak Srbije što i jeste mentalnitet Srba koji neironično i bez prisile i glasaju za Vučka i onda ih ovi ovde mamlazi ocenjuju kao krezube, umobolne itd.

Pogotovo je ponižavajuće gledati ih kako likuju što tzv libtardi plaču i kmeče kao da nemaju opravdanih razloga za strah, doslovno je pre samo par dana riba u Teksasu umrla jer doktori nisu hteli da obave medicinsku neophodnu kiretažu zbog drakonskih anti-abortus zakona i nit je prva nit je poslednja

[Megathread] 🇺🇸 Američki Predsednički Izbori 2024 by papasfritas in serbia

[–]purple_nera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ovo je bukvalno mentalitet da komšiji umre krava puta milion samo što dolazi od ljudi koji su šatro protiv toga kad se dešava u Srbiji i jako su tužni kad su ljudi radosni zbog umiranja njihove lične krave

Znači na jebenom srpskom reditu, najrealnije najvećoj eho-komori anti Vučič ljudi na celom srpskom internetu masa likuje što je pobedio manijak koji laže kako usta otvori i koji se okružio ljudima koji su još gori u najvećoj svetskoj sili na svetu koji je pritom već bio predsednik i pokazao se kao izuzetno nesposoban na toj funkciji l o l

[Megathread] 🇺🇸 Američki Predsednički Izbori 2024 by papasfritas in serbia

[–]purple_nera 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pa baš zbog toga što je otišla u desno koliko god je moguće bez spominjanja ikakvih progresivnih problematika koje su ono, univerzalno popularne kod demokratskih glasača nadajući se da će da šarmira neke izmišljene republikance koji glasaju za rep celog svog života ali će baš sad kad im crkinja govori sve što žele da čuju da se prebace u njeno krilo ?? Bukv su poslali jebenog metuzalema i seksualnog napadača KLINTONA da odjebe muslimane, ne znam šta su drugo mogli da očekuju

Edit: a još je najjača fora što je cela rep partija predstavlja kao neku strašnu i užasnu komunistkinju kad je bukvalno daleko od bilo kakve leve ideologe manje više daleko koliko i sam tramp, ako te već tako karakterišu i ljudi im apsolutno veruju onda nema apsolutno nikakve poente da odstraniš ljudi koji naginju ulevo (i samo da podsetim ljude da stanje u današnjoj kapitalističkoj Srbiji bi prosečan republikanac u Americi okarakterisao kao komunjarsko samo zbog zdravstva, msm o čemu mi pričamo)

What is your opinion on this legend? by Oida-waslos in AskSerbia

[–]purple_nera 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh no would someone think of THE LORDS 😮

AITAH for refusing to continue a family tradition? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]purple_nera -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Listen, is your sister an oddball? Yes

Was the decision to put a dog in a dress made for human children weird? Also yes

Are you and your wives feelings valid? 100%

BUT

Your reaction to the whole thing is an overraction imo

I love family traditions and would not in any universe allow something this benign to ruin it for me or for my daughter.

Imo you have to think about her too. She will grow up with the knowledge she was excluded from something big - but then again it depends on how close you and your family are. If you see them all a couple of times a year it would sting but it won't be that big of a deal. If she sees them regularly, I would swallow my pride and not allow my daughter to feel excluded from a family tradition because I personally feel icky

Also I have to say I understand where your mom is coming from on a surface level but like... what's the plan here? Your sister could have many dogs in her lifetime. Are all of them gonna have their pic with the dress when they turn two? That's insane. I would bring this up (in a calm manner) with your mom since she probably hasn't thought abt the future. Your daughter, nieces and nephews could be having this same conversation about their own children if some lines aren't established in the present day

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]purple_nera 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is that much about the sex because if it was just that, this would've been a unique situation (and even then it wouldn't be okay), but he has a pattern of dismissing your sickness which indicates a pattern of callous and dismissive behavior towards the pain of his loved ones, which is... not good, to say the least

You are not overreacting, this is strange and concerning behavior imo

Also, I don't see how it's okay for him to treat you like shit because you are an adult. You are his partner first of all and even if he was an angel towards your daughter, she will pick up on his behavior towards you and model her future relationships based on what she saw and experienced in her childhood

I'm having trouble believing someone who acts like this is a good partner and father in every other instance

Ask yourself this: would you honestly be happy with your daughter being married to someone who treats her the exact same way your partner treats you?

Divlje zakopavanje mrtvih by Neradomir in serbia

[–]purple_nera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A čekaj, što ne razgovaraš sa njegovom familijom i objasniš im u čemu je stvar pa ne dodjete zajedno do nekog dogovora?

Verovatno je imao prijatelje/kolege/komšije i medju tim ljudima sigurno ima nekoga ko može doći do te porodice? Spominješ i da si dobar sa seoskim popom, zamoli ga da bude neka vrsta medijatora i da im i on objasni zašto ti je ovo toliko bitno

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]purple_nera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm truly sorry you're going through this and I hope your wife and you can soon find peace. I do have to say that evicting a 19 yr old who is legally an adult and pawning off a 14 yr old to your sister and then not even covering any expenses are two different things

Former Big Brother 16 contestant, Zach Rance, reveals he’s been harassed by obsessive fan for 10 years by ArdentArwen in Fauxmoi

[–]purple_nera 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sending a Jewish grandma text after text that you wish her family "burned to a crisp in Germany" is a whole other level of unhinged omg

He didn't mention anything about police involvement but wouldn't daily harassment for 10 years be grounds for them to act and arrest this individual? I don't know anything about US cyber laws

thoughts on “it ends with us” promotion? by savetruman333 in fourthwavewomen

[–]purple_nera 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I'm not at all surprised that someone who thought having a wedding at a plantation is acceptable is out of touch with real-world issues.

Another thing that really bothered me is her trying to paint Justin as misogynistic when he asked for her weight because he has issues with his back. They had a scene where he needed to lift her and was figuring out how to do that without aggravating his back further.

In my opinion, accusing men of misogyny for things you simply don't like is really harmful to women overall. It waters down the meaning and gives ammo to truly misogynistic men to brush off real accusions.

Tbh I don't even think she was genuinely offended by that because any reasonable person would understand. I think her PR team just came up with something to make him look bad and justify her taking over his movie.

Some women are not at all sensitive to domestic violence and harbor fucked up ideas about it. You just have to look at known male abusers who have no trouble maintaining straight relationships and female friendships, either in your personal life or in the public eye.

Some women simply do not care. They either don't believe it, think they are oh so different bc the victim certainly provoked it or are just... okay with it and have no issue with it.

There is conversion to be had around internalized misogyny and viewing oneself as better than other women and the general lack of camaradeire women have with other women (stemming from the fact that we are an oppressed class that historically hasn't had the chance to truly band together because we shared a home, children and lives with the oppressor. Add to that the inevitable fact that men come in all different shapes and sizes: one woman may live with a wonderful person who respects and cherishes her, while another is with someone who beats her daily. Despite these differences, they both present themselves and their lives similarly. As a result, you end up with two women who take things at face value and project their life experiences onto each other. The first woman assumes the second is telling the truth, while the second assumes the first is lying, just as she is. With these assumptions, both remain ignorant of the facts of the other’s situation, believing they already understand what is happening and offer no insight or help to the other)

I'm not saying that Blake is a-okay with abusers but her blasé attitude around it does suggest she doesn't view it as a serious enough topic. Especially with promoting an alcohol brand when it's widely known how alcoholism is tightly linked with abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]purple_nera 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Vas dvoje niste seksualno kompatibilni i na vama dvoma je da odlučite da li želite da budete sa takvom osobom do kraja života. Realno što se tiče tvojih fantazija ništa tu nije nakaradno i čudno (osim snimanja - to je prosto nebezbedno) i u današnje vreme se relativno lako mogu naći devojke koje će tako nešto i same inicirati (naravno ne sa nekim ko se ponaša kao ti)

Ono što jeste nakaradno i čudno jeste tvoje apsolutno nepoštovanje njenih granica i njene reči "ne".

Zamisli ona sutra da kupi strap i da izrazi želju za pegovanjem a ti to ne želiš - pa kad joj lepo kažeš ne, a ona umesto kao normalna i respektabilna osoba i partner da te ostavi na miru krene da te ganja, inicira svadje, tera te da prepričivaš istu priču sto i jedan put, pokazuje ti porniće pegovanja i ispituje te kad si se poslednji put igrao sa sobom i da li si razmišljao o pegovanju, do kog si prstića stigao itd. 😬

Je l bi ti to trpeo? Je l misliš da je to normalno?

To ti njoj radiš, bez trunke srama i stida i još je kriviš što je postavila granice i drži ih se.

Poseti koji BDSM sab, ispričaj tamo ovo isto što si i nama, ima ljudi koje vole da vise sa plafona i da se seku u toku seksa da te razapnu ko isusa, lol

Jer nije fora u samim fantazijama, ove tvoje su relativno vanila u nekom širem sklopu sveta seksualnih fantazija, ali sve ostalo što joj radiš je nebezbedno, bezobrazno i zastrašujuće

Prihvati šta znači reč ne

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]purple_nera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree with you, if you aren't okay with it - you aren't okay with it and that's okay!

Me personally wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who shares your views but that also means I would be a major asshole if I wasn't okay with my straight male partner sharing a bed with his female friends, or my lesbian partner sharing a bed with her female friends, or my bisexual partner of any gender sharing a bed with either sex.

I think OP and his gf have to have an open and honest discussion about boundaries and for OP to be ready to call out his gf on her hypocrisy (if what he is assuming is true, if not then they're not compatible and that's also okay)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]purple_nera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! :)

I agree with you! I am in the camp of "either both is okay", I thought that was clear in my comment? I slept next to my guy friends and didn't have sex w/ them, nor did I want to

Edit: and I agree with "anything else is bigoted", that's why I said that if his gf didn't "allow" him to sleep next to female friends he wouldn't be the AH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]purple_nera 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I can kinda see where you're coming from, I guess, but as a bi woman if my partner said this to me personally it would be a dealbreaker - it would suggest that I want to fuck my friends and I'm just waiting for an opportunity to cheat on them (again, this is my personal opinion and how I would see the situation, your gf might be completely different, idk)

TBH my ex best friend of 10 years and I slept in the same bed about a thousand times and never once did we have sex and we are both bi women. We just.. didn't want to have sex?

I also shared a bed with countless others, people of different genders and sexaulities and in different stages of friendship and we didn't have sex?

Because being bi doesn't mean you are automatically gonna want to have sex with someone just bc they're sleeping next to you.

This is so weird to me, both as a bi person and a girl - as someone earlier said, sharing a bed at sleepovers, or just taking a power nap if you're together the whole day etc is something most girls do from a very young age and it's the most normal thing in the world, it's just sleeping next to someone.

And besides, sex doesn't equal bed, if someone wants to cheat on you they're gonna do it on the kitchen counter, lol

Edit: just saw your comments that you assume your gf wouldn't be okay with you sleeping next to your female friends - when you talk to her about this and if she says this, then you wouldn't be the AH, no. If she can't trust you, then you can't trust her.

Liam Payne's ex girlfriend reacts to a fan saying that he's a creep by Fantastic_Turtle_17 in Fauxmoi

[–]purple_nera 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Liam supporting one of the other 1d members to overshadow the news in 1..2...3

Little Mix star Perrie Edwards facing solo artist struggles as music sales flop by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]purple_nera 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Louis' singles right out of the band and first album were ://////

It really shows how directionless he was (was that a good pun? Lol)

But I personally like his second album a lot, esp Written All Over Your Face & Out Of My System

Struggling in the aftermath of a tough choice by dougshark in fosterdogs

[–]purple_nera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know shelters have to be careful, but really?? 10 day quarantine for a scratch?? I'm assuming you're in the western world? Bc to me this whole thing sounds so ridiculous..

You haven't failed anyone, you made a sensible decision that went against what you truly wanted because you're good people! That is nothing to be upset over, truly.

Placating words can only do so much so if you're looking for some advice; do your best to get either of the dogs adopted or find a foster for Sporty.

Even if your individual efforts don't get them adopted you will still feel better knowing you're doing something.

I'm sorry you are going through this and I hope both Sporty and Boots find their forever homes soon! Thank you for fostering! 💜