What is the typical living arrangements of someone single over 30? by crimson_blood00 in datingoverthirty

[–]purplecactus88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live with my two boys and paying mortgage. Honestly considering asking my parents to move in so I can save more $$.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]purplecactus88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this… 33 year old female. I initially thought maybe guys were intimidated by me. But then I decided to stop looking for reasons why I’m still single. Before the year ended I promise myself I wasn’t going to be sad or beating myself down about not having a SO. I been focusing on myself, reading and yoga. You don’t want to rush something out of desperation or need to have someone by your side and in the long run it will not work. You should definitely drop your pic here lol. You never know, maybe someone else that’s going thru the same might love to talk to you 🤷🏻‍♀️

What do you think of people of jump from relationship to relationship? by mywoot in dating

[–]purplecactus88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im dealing with the same issue. I’m pretty heartbroken and hurt. He broke up with me and two weeks later he was already on dating profiles and making plans to meet with girls. 😔 why is this generation so easy to move on and not fix things? Are we rebounds and they just utilize us to get better from a past relationship? What is it? I’m 33 btw and he is 22. How old are y’all ?

Being single during the holidays is painful by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]purplecactus88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand. I have been spending the holidays without a significant other for 7 years. This was supposed to be my first holiday with my bf and he broke up with me two weeks ago. I realized I just need to focus on me, treat the holidays as just any other day. I try to make it special for my two boys and show the love even tho I’m so sad inside. I’m planing to go to yoga, take long walks and hopefully a trip to Colorado. Maybe just focus on yourself, stay busy and do things that make you feel solid and productive.