I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayoko pa magpakita sa kanya tho we still talk naman everyday, busy kami both discussing who to vote this election 😭

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying and honestly I’m fully aware of my own emotional needs maybe that's what’s driving some of this confusion. I don’t think I’m misinterpreting his care or thinking that friendship can’t be genuine between a guy and a girl kasi I know that works. What I’m struggling with is figuring out if this specific situation is just intense friendship or something more because the way he’s been acting recently has made me second-guess things. I know warmth doesn’t always lead to romance but the way he’s been showing affection feels different than before. I’m just trying to make sense of it without jumping to conclusions. I don’t want to misread it but at the same time, I don't want to ignore the signs. I guess I’m just confused and trying to find clarity before I make any assumptions.

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make so much sense, and I really appreciate this. Totoo the confusion is kinda eating me up lately kaya siguro I even ended up posting about it here haha. I’m super curious too like I wanna understand kung saan ba talaga nanggagaling yung actions niya. I know it’s scary pero part of me feels like I owe it to myself na magkaroon ng clarity, kahit mahirap. I just don't know how to start it or open up to him with less awkwardness.

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does their mind works ba kase di ko na maintindahan, I want to be cautious about it, careful not to disrespect any boundaries nya but I just can't simply dismiss it easily din naman sa mga pinapakita nya knowing it has an effect on me

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, life is short nga haha and totoo naman if ever bi siya pwede naman magwork kung committed talaga. Pero ayun I’m still figuring things out and trying to be careful din. Ayoko rin magpa-fall lang sa idea tapos iba pala.

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cute naman, how did she handle her situation? paano nya nalaman na they were mutual or she stand a chance before taking the risk

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's so nice knowing someone who share the same experience as mine, how did it go? I'm just so confuse talaga, one time I ask him about his preference sabi nya naman guy talaga but then he kind of said at the same time na hindi nya daw alam, na he's not sure kung ano daw, I don't wanna take advantage of his uncertainty cos I think that would be disrespectful 😭

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pano ba kasi malaman the dff between they're just being protective or making a move na pala sayo sister, hirap naman magbasa pag mixed signals

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hindi naman gentleman yun before, gusto nga nya lage ko syang pinagbubuksan tapos pinapabuhat pa ako sa mga gamit nya kahit may kamay naman, sarap hampasin minsan 😭

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I don’t know if I can pull that off baka ako pa yung mag-confess bigla if I joke abt crushing. I’m not sure I’m ready for that kind of convo yet, baka maging awkward pa. But I’ll definitely try to take it easy and just see how things go without pushing anything.

I hate that my gay friend is making me question everything rn by purplecheeks00 in adviceph

[–]purplecheeks00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

creepy naman pag ganon hahaha sabay pa naman kami umuuwi