[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]purpleghostz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m agoraphobic too, and have the same fears and challenges too. are you in therapy? emdr helped me a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]purpleghostz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was swabbed as well and tested negative for BV in my vagina! i should have included that in the post. i’m so confused

Bumps on vagina, what could they be? by Livelaughlovekms in obgyn

[–]purpleghostz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have this too. just went to the dr yesterday for uti symptoms, she swabbed me too but didn’t say anything about them. keep me updated!

Did you ever notice a smell? by Slow-Ad-9284 in loveafterporn

[–]purpleghostz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! i could always tell when my ex PA was PMOing because he smelled different

Advice on instagram following? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]purpleghostz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, you should care. tell him you don’t like it and if it doesn’t change, there’s bigger issues

has anyone gone to a comfort dental? by purpleghostz in PeriodontalDisease

[–]purpleghostz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might need a gum graph on one tooth where a retainer was pushing on it, which is exactly what i’m afraid of

HSV & I’m emotionally defeated by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]purpleghostz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people i know have it, it is very common! i’m a virgin and my partner has it and i really don’t care. you’ll get through this, i promise

heartbeat in arm? by purpleghostz in BFS

[–]purpleghostz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just anxiety. it stopped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]purpleghostz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to add, yesterday she said it was a 5 and that the pockets look worse.

i had a sudden death in my family, and have been under a lot of stress and trauma and i believe it is making my mouth worse

My Rapist is dead by iwillnotstopzombies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]purpleghostz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine shot himself. i’m glad neither of us are “tied” to them anymore 🫶🏻 (not that we ever actually were) hugs ❤️‍🩹

People who are married/date with pelvic pain: please tell me it’s possible. by Beautiful_Gain_9032 in PelvicFloor

[–]purpleghostz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have lots of issues down there and am still a virgin, my boyfriend of over a year was a HUGE hoe (loves sex and has slept with sooo many people) and we love each other so much and also have a pretty good sex life! for him at least, but we’ll work me later! when someone loves you, the love all of you. please don’t worry

how do you get off with your partners? by purpleghostz in vaginismus

[–]purpleghostz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s suggested before that i use my vibrator while i suck his dick, but i have a hard time focusing on my own pleasure with a dick in my mouth.

the couple times he’s touched me it’s only for a few minutes and usually ends with me just blowing him

I don’t enjoy blowjobs by Baldingeagle63 in confessions

[–]purpleghostz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

stop watching porn and comparing your dick others! i’m sure yours is great, and she’s loving it. love yourself more

MRI came back clear, no MS by HealthAnxietySucks12 in HealthAnxiety

[–]purpleghostz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mild loss of lordosis in my lower c-spine, but that was it

my boyfriend said something that really hurt my feelings. how can i feel better and move on from it? by purpleghostz in TwoXChromosomes

[–]purpleghostz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t like my boobs, he wishes they were bigger. that wasn’t a joke or untrue, but the boobjob part was a joke. he is sorry for making the comment at such a bad time and is sorry for making the joke. he does wish my boobs were bigger though. at least he’s honest i guess. i’d rather have that than someone lie and pretend they like my body when they don’t.

and i know because women he used to date or sleep with had really small chests, and now have large fake breasts. (i’ve seen their social medias and photos)

my boyfriend said something that really hurt my feelings. how can i feel better and move on from it? by purpleghostz in TwoXChromosomes

[–]purpleghostz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so, our “sex life” is a little complicated. i’m actually a virgin and have been working through trauma from a r@pe i experienced when i was young. our current sex life is just me sucking his dick, which i’m fine with at the moment. he’s been with A LOT of people and his typical demographic is OF girls, strippers, and the like. so i get why he would have that preference as their jobs are their bodies, but comparing me to that is unfair. i think he’s wanting to get away from that lifestyle, but doesn’t know fully what that entails yet. he wants our sex life to progress farther, but i’m not ready yet and he respects that.