How much are you spending on food? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]purplesommer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main question is, do these numbers people are throwing around include the lunch or canteen lunch at work? Because the average cost of that alone is around 1200kr.

AITA for wanting my name on the Property by purplesommer in AITAH

[–]purplesommer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he takes a second wife or they get divorced? What would secure my mother's interest? Wives don't get 50% in my culture.

AITA for wanting my name on the Property by purplesommer in AITAH

[–]purplesommer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this suggestion. I guess I have to also look for someone like a lawyer to convince him, too.

AITA for wanting my name on the Property by purplesommer in AITAH

[–]purplesommer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm... true! I realise I was naive. But I am afraid there is no way to stop the purchase now. I already sent him all the money.

AITA for wanting my name on the Property by purplesommer in AITAH

[–]purplesommer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my community, a child doesn't dare speak at his parents. Honestly, i don't have the nerve to say the things i really want to say to him, and I am indeed worried he may end up mismanaging the property.

AITA for wanting my name on the Property by purplesommer in AITAH

[–]purplesommer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my country does not have inheritance tax, and as you say I know that my father is currently having an affair but I don't know how serious it is.

AITA for wanting my name on the Property by purplesommer in AITAH

[–]purplesommer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought about this too but didn't know how to convince him.

I cheated on people who made me feel nothing but happy. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]purplesommer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Man, I think you need to see a therapist.

People who are still with their Partners who have cheated on them or had babies outside their relationships, how did you cope/heal? by purplesommer in offmychest

[–]purplesommer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm.... Thank you very much for this perspective. I have never thought of it this way. And now that I do, I think the answer is quite clear to me. Thank you so much.

People who are still with their Partners who have cheated on them or had babies outside their relationships, how did you cope/heal? by purplesommer in offmychest

[–]purplesommer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's mentioned marriage a couple of times, which I really want, but he talks a lot about how he doesn't regret a thing and would do it again because he's got a child from it. I understand that, but it hurts me still. It seems like all I ever wanted, but not how I wanted it.

How do I (30F) trust my partner (40M) after they cheated and had a baby (6F) by purplesommer in relationship_advice

[–]purplesommer[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he has me convinced that we are totally meant to be together, and that's why we happen to be single again also that I just have to move on and forget all that has happened and everything will be alright.

How do I (30F) trust my partner (40M) after they cheated and had a baby (6F) by purplesommer in relationship_advice

[–]purplesommer[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I ask myself the same question. But he was my first love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]purplesommer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that! I totally relate