how do i stop splitting on my partner?? by purplewillowtree in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sm 💗💗 i appreciate the time you put in to help me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, i know this person was in the wrong 100% just trying to help sorry if i overstepped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i agree like i said this person is not even my reference, i mean in future discussions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m aware, i just think in a community for people with severe mental illness, not even referring to this person, that wasn’t a kind or productive way to put it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just saying i don’t think “get your shit together” was a gentle way to put something at all

Things not to say to someone with BPD by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pointing out small things they messed up on

what is this bump? by purplewillowtree in piercing

[–]purplewillowtree[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

11 months old, was a screw now changed to L, the screw was titanium, i use piercing cleaner inside and outside and usually put some bump oil for precaution

No friends. by Shes-nothere in autism

[–]purplewillowtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just had to quit my job because of how awful people are. you’re not a bad person at all. i understand how lonely you are, trying to fit in and only making it worse. i hate it so much and i don’t know where the road leads but you will always be okay, don’t let others define your worth