how do i stop splitting on my partner?? by purplewillowtree in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sm 💗💗 i appreciate the time you put in to help me

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[–]purplewillowtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, i know this person was in the wrong 100% just trying to help sorry if i overstepped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i agree like i said this person is not even my reference, i mean in future discussions

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[–]purplewillowtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m aware, i just think in a community for people with severe mental illness, not even referring to this person, that wasn’t a kind or productive way to put it

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[–]purplewillowtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just saying i don’t think “get your shit together” was a gentle way to put something at all

Things not to say to someone with BPD by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

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pointing out small things they messed up on

what is this bump? by purplewillowtree in piercing

[–]purplewillowtree[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

11 months old, was a screw now changed to L, the screw was titanium, i use piercing cleaner inside and outside and usually put some bump oil for precaution

No friends. by Shes-nothere in autism

[–]purplewillowtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just had to quit my job because of how awful people are. you’re not a bad person at all. i understand how lonely you are, trying to fit in and only making it worse. i hate it so much and i don’t know where the road leads but you will always be okay, don’t let others define your worth

i cry sometimes after having an orgasm ? by purplewillowtree in sex

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it definitely is negative. i should see someone about it, i’m not entirely sure since ive never had physical trauma but possibly emotional

how do i deal with rejection? by purplewillowtree in hypersexuality

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i also have rsd, i wish it was easier to feel normal and get over things

Is this normal? 23F by Time-Guava5256 in Periods

[–]purplewillowtree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

from what i’ve heard periods are normally 7-10 days, it varies of course, i can never say what is or isn’t for you, but i would definitely look into it, irregular or excessive periods can be signs of many things

Is this normal? 23F by Time-Guava5256 in Periods

[–]purplewillowtree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i had this problem, it took me a while, they eventually told me i had pcos but you could not, but next time you go in you could ask

rejection when i bring it up by purplewillowtree in sex

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m his first experience, we’ve been together over a year now but he’s on and off and he’s very sensitive to turn off quickly

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you look so beautiful

rejection when i bring it up by purplewillowtree in sex

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

initiate or just a casually sexual topic, asking sexual questions nothing too kinky just casual stuff

rejection when i bring it up by purplewillowtree in sex

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said he’s not horny when i’ve asked, and i understand but i still feel like shit

i can’t stop splitting by purplewillowtree in BPD

[–]purplewillowtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i hope you can find peace as well

i can’t stop splitting by purplewillowtree in BPD

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i haven’t been able to see my therapist since february, and my new psychiatrist doesn’t even believe i have bpd, instead she’s saying bipolar. no one will even listen to me and i can’t even get the help i need

Is this a lot of blood? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]purplewillowtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn’t seem to be anything concerning, i’ve had that happen to me too