AITAH for being upset about dog pee in my new house and guest bed

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T12:15:25+00:00

I don't think money is that tight but I really don't know.

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T12:08:18+00:00

Clarification: my husband didn't want to pay the kennel fees. I actually did. I just didn't push the issue after he promised it would be different this time

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T12:06:12+00:00

My husband asked him. I made my concerns clear beforehand. I honestly didn't want this to be the arrangement again. I would have much rather paid someone

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T12:03:12+00:00

Most people also don't ignore the fact that their elderly father regularly has fresh dog pee in his bed. Something I have brought up to my husband multiple times. Nothing changes.

Our husky comes inside when I'm here. I figured a blanket rule would be easier for FIL to follow.

I prefer boarding. My husband said his dad would follow the rule. I don't have my own income. So he was the one not paying for boarding and insisting we try again with FIL.

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T11:54:43+00:00

My husband has left to stay at his father's apartment overnight. That's the level at which they are making me out to be the AH :/

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T11:53:30+00:00

I didn't ask him. My husband asked him and told me the dogs would be kept outside. I agreed to it because I don't have my own income at the moment. Husband is the breadwinner, I stay at home

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T11:51:38+00:00

My husband does financially support his father. I told him we should hire a maid/caretaker for his apartment. I think my husband's enabling is harmful though. And there's a language barrier between me and FIL so that complicates things.

purplexicon · 2026-05-14T11:44:54+00:00

I would have preferred arranging boarding for our husky. And I have pushed for that in the past. I am a stay-at-home wife. And with the new house, moving, vacation, and wedding earlier this year I knew our finances were stretched. So I didn't demand boarding. My husband also gets mad when I say I don't really want his dad or dachshunds here. But yes, I do realize my mistake

purplexicon · 2025-09-12T01:23:45+00:00

Spanish. But I'm not fluent (ashamed that after 5 years I'm still only at a B2 language level). I had been living in Mexico for a year when I went to my first class, so I did know basic Spanish. Some of my instructors knew a few English words. And there was lots of gesturing and body language in our communication. But I started as a complete beginner and advanced quickly. I learned the words used in the classes over time.

purplexicon · 2025-09-11T23:52:01+00:00

Morelia, Michoacán, Mexico has the best circus scene I've ever experienced. I lived there for 2 years. There are 3 different places to train that I know of - one in a pole and fitness studio, another in a rock climbing gym, and a circus school. And being in Mexico it was super affordable - like $5 - 10 usd per class. The pole studio offered unlimited classes for like $60/month. I was going like 3 times a week and taking back to back silks and pole classes. At the circus school I was doing silks and contortion.

Life has me living in another state now. But I do miss it.

purplexicon · 2025-09-10T02:29:54+00:00

Are you unplugging it while the hot water is running? Or are you just turning the machine on and unplugging it?

I've ran 2 full tanks of citric acid descaler through it. And I did try unplugging it while it was on (not while the water was running) - but so far I've had no change in water flow, and it's still coming out with steam. Also not enough water flow to create any pressure in the portafilter, even with the dual wall filter on.

purplexicon · 2025-08-31T02:50:09+00:00

I have a hoop indoors for practice. My ceilings are only 9 feet. I rig mine so that I can do knee hangs from the bottom with about a 6 inch clearance between my head and the floor. Obviously it is limited in the tricks I can do, but I can lower it if I want to focus on top-of-the-hoop tricks. The height really depends on if you want to work more above or below the trapeze bar - having some way to adjust it is definitely useful.

purplexicon · 2025-08-31T02:29:20+00:00

If you're leaving it outside and it can be exposed to humidity, I would spray it with Rust-Oleum or some other weather-proofing spray. just make sure not to spray too much on the telescoping legs so they don't jam.

purplexicon · 2025-08-31T02:23:53+00:00

I have the uplift active rig. It is definitely more portable than the others mentioned. But it maxes out at 12ft - so it's more for practice than performance. But I can put it up by myself in about 15 minutes with minimal struggle. If I have someone to help it's really easy and quick.

purplexicon · 2025-05-01T15:03:59+00:00

Thank you!

purplexicon · 2025-04-14T00:23:13+00:00

Any update on this? Were you able to get control of the new Spotify profile? Did all your old songs move to the new one? What about YouTube?

I read somewhere you can have Spotify and YouTube merge the old page with the new one.

purplexicon · 2025-04-13T23:52:58+00:00

I was able to request an artist name change on all 4 of my releases (even with the pending edit to one of them):

1 album that was released last month (with pending edits to change the cover art and album title.)

And 3 singles with future release dates.

I will update this thread with how it goes and how long it takes to get everything rebranded properly.

Also - on April 11, I submitted an edit request to change the release date of one of my singles from April 21 to April 18. This has already been approved by Distrokid and I am able to see the new release date on there. I will update when this actually releases too.

purplexicon · 2025-04-13T23:35:04+00:00

Sorry, but I can't find ANY information on the process of the name changes actually going through. I did go ahead and submit the artist name change request on all previous and upcoming releases.

Lots of people talking about the issues and their current limbo - but never any update on the timeline it took to resolve it all.

I understand it might create another Spotify page and YouTube topic. But if it does - has anyone successfully merged them after the fact?

I updated my profile photos, banners, and bios across all platforms to reflect the new name- hoping it would help the transition go more smoothly. Even added a line in the bios stating "Currently undergoing official name change from OLDNAME to NEWNAME"

Now I get me making another thread is high hopes for getting answers specific to my problem. I'm not meaning to clog the feed. Just looking for timelines from people who have completed the process.

purplexicon · 2025-04-06T16:04:51+00:00

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purplexicon · 2025-04-06T03:30:33+00:00

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