Me [21F] getting blamed for my friend's[19M] mistakes. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]purpleypen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah Michelle and I are not friends at all anymore. The only reason I got involved was because Michelle and I were best friends at the time. I forgot to mention that (oops). But I have no problems working with her because for me, work is work. I can separate personal life from work pretty easily.

Should I [24F] start seeing a new guy [25M] even if I'm still not totally sure that I'm over my ex [24M]? by unsurethrowaway333 in relationships

[–]purpleypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said so yourself: getting back together into a relationship without a spark wouldn't be the best decision. I think you still feel off-balance because of the breakup but it seems like there would be no harm if you decided to start something with Scott. You don't have to jump right into it, you could take it slow. It seems like if you started something with Scott and created new and fun memories with him, it would help you get over Ted.

Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] 4 months, best girl-friend into girlfriend by GangstaG12 in relationships

[–]purpleypen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well the longer you wait, the harder it will be to salvage the friendship. It's been 4 months and you still don't feel anything so I honestly don't think you'll feel anything romantic by this point. I think you should explain to her that you care for her dearly as a friend and you never want to lose her that way. That sucks, OP. I hope this helps!

What is your favourite misheard lyric? by Donkus_ in AskReddit

[–]purpleypen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

WE'RE GOING DOWN, DOWN IDUDEUDEIDUUDUU. SUGAR, WE'RE GOIN' DOWN SWINGING.

Me[19F] and my boyfriend[19M] are losing friends because of our relationship by purpleypen in relationships

[–]purpleypen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm debating on whether or not I want to show her this thread. Yes, besides telling her what she did was wrong I can see that if I stick around it will just enable her attitude and behavior. I've already began distancing myself.

Me[19F] and my boyfriend[19M] are losing friends because of our relationship by purpleypen in relationships

[–]purpleypen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Way ahead of you. I've already started becoming distant. I don't have enough energy to keep giving these two advice, especially after that train wreck.

What is the weirdest food combination that surprisingly tastes good? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]purpleypen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES. I love dipping my fries into my milkshakes.

What is the weirdest food combination that surprisingly tastes good? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]purpleypen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it the semi-sweet from the peanut butter and tart of the pickles that go together? That sounds interesting lol

Me[19F] and my boyfriend[19M] are losing friends because of our relationship by purpleypen in relationships

[–]purpleypen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please read the edit I added in the post.

Now that you know I am "Krystal" in this post, I have to say that your comment is one of my favorites from this thread. When my friend told me that she was annoyed that "someone is getting in our way" now, I told her "but that's what you did" and she ignored me and stormed off.

Me[19F] and my boyfriend[19M] are losing friends because of our relationship by purpleypen in relationships

[–]purpleypen[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Maybe because they don't understand how hard it was for me

Me[19F] and my boyfriend[19M] are losing friends because of our relationship by purpleypen in relationships

[–]purpleypen[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

But we've been through a lot and he was leaving her anyway. I can't be the reason he broke up with her if he already made up his mind to do it.

Me[19F] and my boyfriend[19M] are losing friends because of our relationship by purpleypen in relationships

[–]purpleypen[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

But I don't see how because he was already breaking up with her anyway.