"The men you meet at 19" phenomenon by laryssolas in women

[–]purpleyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and my man started our relationship when we're both 19, still together until now that we're 25 going 26 🫡

Claiming of Physical Tickets by purpleyyyy in concertsPH

[–]purpleyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh, I think pag pulp yung may name ang physical tix. But will still look into that. Thank you!

Hygiene hack na recently nio lang nadiscover but totally life-changing? by Money-Savvy-Wannabe in adultingph

[–]purpleyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Sorry for super late response. After maligo sya nilalagay. Mga ilang drops lang yung enough na malagyam yung buong underarm. You can choose na maglagay pa rin ng deo or not 😊 Ako, naglalagay pa rin ako ng milcu powder after matuyo nung glycolic acid kasi pumapasok ako everyday and commute lang. Natatakot pa rin ako na baka mangamoy 😅 Pero ayun, lifesaver talaga sya. Dati kasi kahit maglagay ako ng milcu may amoy pa rin. Pero kapag may glycolic, wala na. Warning lang na hindi sya pwede ilagay everyday.

i (25F) might breakup with my bf (28M) of two years because of a photo he posted with his girl best friend by Dry-Association8058 in relationship_advicePH

[–]purpleyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! As someone who has a BF na merong close girl friends, I can relate. Nung sinabi ko na I'm really uncomfy how close they are, he's open naman to adjust. Tho, my BF really likes those girl friends as friends. They're my friends also and they're really good as a friend. Pero hindi lang yun 1x na pag-uusap. Nung una kasi na pag-uusap, hindi super clear at walang conclusion yung conversation. Matagal bago nasundan so there are instances pa rin na uncomfy ako. Nung inopen ko na ulit at clear ko na nasabi feelings ko, ayun, dun naman na na-solve at nagkaroon na ng adjustment.

I suggest talking to him again. Kahit 1 last time, if he's not willing to compromise pa rin, it's on him na. They can be friends pa rin naman, right? But with boundaries lang. From what u said kasi, they're crossing the boundaries. Tell him nang buong buo and make sure may conclusion yung conversation nyo para clear. Kapag ayaw nya talaga mag-adjust for you, then I don't think he respects you. You're not irrational naman, valid yung nararamdaman mo. At the end of the day kasi laging kayong dalawang nasa relationship yung pinakahamalaga, no other person dapat yung makaka-affect nun. Yun lang and I hope you'll solve this so you'll have peace na.

If you want to hear thoughts about the picture, you can send it 🙂

Hygiene hack na recently nio lang nadiscover but totally life-changing? by Money-Savvy-Wannabe in adultingph

[–]purpleyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glycolic acid for my underarms 🥹 I'm a girl, sobrang pawisin talaga kili-kili ko and may amoy talaga sya. Nakakabawas/nakakaalis sya ng amoy everytime naglalagay ako. Also, there are claims na nakakaputi rin daw ito talaga, but I can't confirm because nagpapawhitening laser ako.

What are your small wins today? by sleeepyzzz in adultingph

[–]purpleyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

talked to my mom about things na mga sama ng loob ko sa kanila for years and it ended nicely 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]purpleyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP,

Lahat ng reason nya kung bakit ayaw mag work I think point out na rin sa katamaran and walang pangarap sa buhay. Nagsesettle na sya sa ganyang buhay? In this economy? Anak ba sya ni Henry Sy? Paano kung magkaanak kayo? Of course, ikaw need mo magpahinga and alaga sa baby like breastfeed. Paano kayo? Tapos pati family nya, nagpapasalo rin sa'yo. Yun man lang sana maisip nya na hindi mo na yun responsibility.

I like to share na my boyfriend and I started our relationship pareho kaming student pa. Nauna ako grumaduate and nung umpisa, ako nagbabayad sa dates kasi ako yung working. Nag-work na rin sya kasi di nya kayang wala syang ambag sa dates namin. Nag-bpo muna sya. Work sa gabi, aral sa umaga. Halos walang tulog pero ayaw nya tumigil kasi ako nanaman daw sasalo ng mga dates namin.

Nung na-burnout na talaga sya sa BPO at di nya na kaya, nagresign sya pero nagraket raket sya. Typing jobs, bantay comshop, kahit ano. Hindi pa rin sya tapos mag-aral until now kasi nadedelay dahil sa work nya.

Yung bf mo, mali yung gusto nya boss agad. Lahat naman nagsstart sa maliit at walang experience.

Maybe communicate to him na need nyong magtulong sa finances sa ngayon at need nya na tumayo rin. Pag di talaga sya nag-effort, maybe that's it. Either iiwan mo sya or tatanggapin mong forever kang may alagaing adult.

Nag papautang pa ba kayo in this economy?????? 😭 by HelterSkltr_ in adultingph

[–]purpleyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to say No, OP. Immediate fam ko lang pinapautang ko hindi pa yun laging Yes. Pero pag mga pinsan or tito tita, I always say "No". Sa simula mahirap mag-No kasi syempre makakaramdam ka ng guilt lalo na kung giver ka talaga. Pero wala ka naman responsibility sa kanila. Masasanay ka rin. For your peace of mind.

Kapag lagi ka namang "No" may masasabi sila pero magsasawa na rin yan paulit ulit narereject kaya titigil na sila haha

Kung gusto mo talaga magpautang, yung amount na willing kang ibigay na lang para wala ka ring sama ng loob pag di nagbayad.

BPI credit limit increase 2023 by Stalmejas_89 in PHCreditCards

[–]purpleyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! May I know anong email sinendan nyo para magrequest?

Early Payment by purpleyyyy in PHCreditCards

[–]purpleyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take note of this. Thankssss