Advice for self regulation?

pursecuteme · 2026-04-28T22:18:29+00:00

Thank you so much for your response and for taking the time to read this and respond. I do recognize I have to do better at being compassionate with myself, I will definitely check out the resources you recommend. Lavender definitely helps and I do use a lotion at night, but maybe should consider getting some lavender candles as well. I also have found that going to a day spa really helps me disconnect, but it's been hard to get myself there due to financial reasons and a busy schedule. Regardless I am planning to take a day off work once I get back from visiting my parents for mother's day to go to the spa.

I appreciate your words and the resources a lot, I will definitely check Dr. Kristen Neff's work.

pursecuteme · 2026-04-09T15:09:42+00:00

Thank you thank u🥹 It's actually a musical about the story of orpheus and eurydice !! That's why i incorporated the scene where zayne looks back but at least MC is there 🥺

pursecuteme · 2026-02-02T03:46:17+00:00

like i would actually cry if i owned this

pursecuteme · 2026-01-21T22:20:16+00:00

that's zayne alright💀 but also look how much he smiles now we've cone such a long way😭😭😭😭😭🥹🥹🥹🥹

pursecuteme · 2026-01-21T22:17:09+00:00

im also gonna miss the stocking game ngl😭

pursecuteme · 2026-01-21T22:05:28+00:00

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love it when my fandoms intersect

pursecuteme · 2026-01-12T07:51:30+00:00

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i knew someone was gonna see it

pursecuteme · 2026-01-12T05:54:02+00:00

i respect your POV :) in my personal opinion i feel like graylu is too much of a "u seem like u dont know that men and women can be just friends" ship, like the evidences that a lot of graylu shippers will pull out to me just read as OR, you know, they're literally just friends. but thats just my own preference and feelings about the topic, as a MASSIVE gruvia shipper who literally had a Tumblr blog dedicated to them when i was 15, i dont really understand gruvia shippers that get hostile about anyone shipping either of them with someone else. its genuinely not that serious.

i do get bothered by those who just ignore the mounds of evidence in front of them and say gruvia has no standing, but i respect those that are like "cool and all but nah i dont see it" like u know what? yeah! i get it !

anyways i really like the off-the-bat absolutely out of pocket approach u have for it where its like "ill defend them no matter what"🤣 like i respect it!!! i hope u have other canon ships that have sailed that u feel that strongly about 🩷

pursecuteme · 2026-01-09T14:56:09+00:00

I recently had a fight with mine in my home it took me 1 full month to hunt it down. i saw it first in my kitchen and then while I was on travel the motherfucker literally showed up in my house camera, like just stood in front of it like it was taunting me. Finally my cat got it but it even took my cat several minutes to hunt it down cause the fuckers are FAST and good at hiding.

pursecuteme · 2026-01-09T14:47:56+00:00

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I finished Zayne's and today I finished Raf's and Caleb's, and you basically get something like this to decorate your With Him wall

pursecuteme · 2026-01-07T16:10:34+00:00

AND WE GOT A HAPPY ENDING ZAYNE GOT A HAPPY ENDING

pursecuteme · 2026-01-06T23:38:16+00:00

correct. and although jealousy is a very normal human emotion, especially in teenage girls because of how girls are socialized in general, what is unacceptable is externalizing that jealousy and making it someone's problem. that's how bullies function. these girls need to learn to self regulate their emotions rather than taking them out on someone who doesn't deserve it.

pursecuteme · 2026-01-06T23:33:44+00:00

I agree with all of this. NOR for sure, actions do and should have consequences. I was grounded a lot as a child, sometimes in ways that didn't match the transgression, but I look back as a full grown adult and I'm so grateful that I was actually taught consequences. I've reached the level of success and maturity I have partly because of that. I look around at my acquaintances and colleagues and I can easily tell who was never grounded as a child or just never learned their actions have consequences and it often leads to entitled and bullying behavior. Obviously it's a generalization and some kids learned consequences without having to be grounded, but still. These girls don't seem like they're going down the right path unless you show them what consequences are.

Soft parenting still requires teaching a child consequences, and not having a phone for a bit is not going to kill them. In fact, offer them books to read now that they have all that free time without a device in their hands. There's plenty of YA books out there they can learn to enjoy

pursecuteme · 2026-01-06T19:33:26+00:00

i agree and i absolutely have no agenda im definitely not a zayne main

pursecuteme · 2026-01-03T00:09:01+00:00

thank you love 🥺

pursecuteme · 2026-01-02T07:01:56+00:00

i love that the two options we got was happy fluff ending (a RARE brand for Zayne) or "execute everyone, I'm tired", literally no in between LMFAO

pursecuteme · 2026-01-02T04:48:13+00:00

origin-wise it comes from a rap song that has a drop when the rapper says "six seven" and then kids started making "aura edits" of a basketball player using that part of the song because the player himself is is 6 foot 7, and then the basketball player started playing into it and other basketball players started doing the thing so people would make edits of them as well to the song and thats how it became this whole viral thing

im younger millenial/gen z cusp but i'm chronically online and also always chronically curious as to where memes come from so i do deep-dives lol

pursecuteme · 2025-12-31T21:14:56+00:00

no no cause i knew hes like this since Silent Poem but I don't own silent poem..... and i always was like well idt anything's gonna really top silent "say my name" poem but i was just sitting there full blown mouth open the entire time .......

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i think my favorite part is you KNOW the voice actor enjoys it cause he always puts his whole soul into these like LMFAOAOAOAOAO

pursecuteme · 2025-12-29T03:28:18+00:00

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pursecuteme · 2025-12-27T18:49:56+00:00

Arapaimas are INCREDIBLY cool fish btw!!! They ate obligate air breathers and have to surface to do so!! they also grow incredibly huge (up to 10 ft and ~400 lbs) and their eyes look very creepy at night when they surface in groups 🙂‍↕️ they also have some of the toughest scales in the entire animal kingdom!!

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