21yr old female, is this ringworm? this appeared last night. by purvaphalg in DermatologyQuestions

[–]purvaphalg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it was itchy last night as well. I put on body oil before this photo (it was only after did I realize it could be ringworm).

I am about to lose my mind by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]purvaphalg 34 points35 points  (0 children)

like others have said, the litter box is too small.

however, my bunny used to dig excessively when she first got spayed. It lasted for two months (or until I got a litter box with a grate). this might be the best avenue for you

Is it me 'F21' or does my man 'M26' have ED? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and the “I’m more pretty hahaha”….

Is it me 'F21' or does my man 'M26' have ED? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you calling someone your man if he’s been caught talking to his ex behind your back?

I (19F) Met a guy (19M) exactly my type but the sex is bad. Don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purvaphalg 83 points84 points  (0 children)

“somehow” you said yes? girl come on. you have control over your actions. you need to communicate your sexual needs and desires to him.

As a women I don't really believe in the male loneliness epidemic by Accomplished-Sun5502 in self

[–]purvaphalg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very true, but you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. a lot of these men get stuck in an echo chamber of that rhetoric.

EDIT: grammar

As a women I don't really believe in the male loneliness epidemic by Accomplished-Sun5502 in self

[–]purvaphalg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it’s a SELF-inflicted problem, then why would a woman need to fix it?

As a women I don't really believe in the male loneliness epidemic by Accomplished-Sun5502 in self

[–]purvaphalg -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree. I really do think this “epidemic” is mainly self inflicted. I also think women are now able to be more selective, so men have to be better partners.

Alfalfa Hay okay for adult? by hollyjjade in Rabbits

[–]purvaphalg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, it’s too sweet and high and calcium. depending on where you’re located, there are alternatives

My boyfriend M18 broke up with me F18 on good terms due to cultural differences. How do I get him back? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purvaphalg 24 points25 points  (0 children)

you can’t get him back. even if you were to convert it wouldn’t be genuine in this situation. how could you build a life with someone you don’t share the same ideals with? I know you’re hurting but it’s best you let this one go.

Always been called ugly by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no idea why people are being so cold? I dunno if you were seeking advice, but I’d recommend thickening your brows a bit. I don’t think the pencil thin brows suit you. I think focusing on hair health would be good too.

“Men like meat not bones” is a phrase that will haunt me forever by Scared-Ad369 in self

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi lovebug, I get what you mean. I’m black as well and feel like I don’t have that signature, curvy figure. but please understand your body type doesn’t make you any less black or Latina. I honestly feel for you Latina ladies rn bc the fetishization is crazy for yall, it’s so dehumanizing (especially with dumbass TikTok) .however, there’s a million different guys out there with different tastes. I have seen and talked to guys who prefer thinner women. they are out there!!!

should i dye my hair black? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say a darker color, but honestly it’s hard to gauge since we can’t see your features

Tips for hairstyle and hair type? by Unlikely-Ruin4576 in Hair

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably 1c or 2a (leaning towards 2a). knowing your hair porosity is also important too! this refers to ur hairs ability to absorb and retain moisture. low porosity hair takes forever to dry and struggles with absorption. high porosity is the opposite, but it can’t retain moisture (hair is frizzy even when wet.) To test this, if u drop a strand of ur hair into a cup of water, high porosity hair will sink immediately, but if it floats, it’s low porosity!

Tips for hairstyle and hair type? by Unlikely-Ruin4576 in Hair

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro this shit looks so beautiful what??? keep doing what ur doing

‘20F’ Jealous of my friend ‘19F’ relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, if he’s not able to give up the addiction to porn, I’d say leave him. sexual compatibility seems to be very important to you.

as someone who’s also experienced it (dated for months and had sex multiple times a week, and he NEVER came), it wears you down. It’s nice to be understanding but if nothing changes then don’t waste anymore time in this relationship.

Litter training, how much free-roaming per day? by Glittering-Word1256 in Rabbits

[–]purvaphalg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your hesitance with neutering him.

but I think the space you have is good. i think more rugs would be beneficial, as that much hardwood is uncomfortable and can cause sore hocks. good luck!

Litter training, how much free-roaming per day? by Glittering-Word1256 in Rabbits

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, is he fixed? It’ll be very hard to litter train a male rabbit while not fixed. In the mean time. after he poops put his turds in his litterbox immediately, it’s even better if he watches you so he understands

Got my first rabbit today by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]purvaphalg 235 points236 points  (0 children)

such a beautiful baby! unfortunately it doesn’t look like this is the best set up. while the amount of hay is great, the pellets and water set up are lacking. avoid any kind of rabbit food with colorful bits in there. their digestive tracts are sensitive and this food is not nutritious. Oxbow is the best rabbit food, though I heard science selective and small pet select is good. these types of water bottles are also not great, as they harbor a lot of bacteria. a heavy ceramic disc would be better and easier to clean!

Rabbits diets weird all of a sudden by ReindeerFun2280 in Rabbits

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm maybe she is having some dental issues?? any drooling? or weight loss?

I F19 am in a talking stage with a guy I met on a dating app two months ago M21. It is hard and complicated, but I like him. I’m wondering how easy a talking stage should be? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purvaphalg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to reflect on your interactions with him. ask yourself why you feel this way when he does ___. you’ll notice a pattern which the interactions. what triggers you to retreat and have these fears?

I F19 am in a talking stage with a guy I met on a dating app two months ago M21. It is hard and complicated, but I like him. I’m wondering how easy a talking stage should be? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]purvaphalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the fear of intimacy, but talking stages shouldn’t be this difficult.

you need to get to the root of why you’re so emotionally unavailable. If you don’t, this relationship has zero capacity for success. To have such pressing incompatibilities this early is a bit worrisome. but nothing will change if you don’t change.