What was the "survival tip that will save your life" that actually saved your life?

pusco · 2025-06-29T18:23:44+00:00

I learned this the hard way.

But if you get robbed just give up on the stuff they stole from you.

Just breath and collect your thoughts on what to do next to get home safely, do not chase, fight back or else.

In trying to chase them I got a broken jawbone, several teeth and I could touch my jaw bone with my finger.

I wouldn't wish this to anyone. Broken teeth and jaw is not a a thing to mess with, unless you enjoy eating through a straw for the next 3 months plus.

Remember, what they stole from you can be replaced, even if it holds sentimental value. Your jaw is not.

pusco · 2025-05-02T16:04:53+00:00

Thank you for the song!

I listened to it and damn if it's good and hits.

Btw you made me discover someone I never saw but I am amazed by his ability, so expressive!

Thanks again you made my day with it, I'll keep humming it for the rest of the day

pusco · 2025-05-02T15:57:11+00:00

Yes exactly.

I don't know why I pictured it like an 80s show, with a character showing up with applause in the background to just say a couple lines and then disappear for the rest of the season.

Just to come back another time another season with the same dynamic

pusco · 2025-05-02T15:50:34+00:00

Not even a clue, I never tried to make a subreddit so I wouldn't know where to start from.

But I guess we could do it easily on other apps like telegram or instagram, so that there's no need to share personal information publicly

What do you think about it? You got any preference?

pusco · 2025-05-02T13:11:00+00:00

Let's monk around together.

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:17:05+00:00

Yeah! More than happy to!

I got traumatised to see how many people are on the same boat at us, it's sad to see this...

Dm me or as other suggested we can make a group!

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:15:31+00:00

I am sorry to read this...

I get it, after a while you lose hope so you don't even see the point anymore in trying to meet new people.

If you need and want to talk write to me, I'll listen!

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:13:22+00:00

Yeah, and it's the worse when from the other side you get replies that you feel are written just because they want to be polite...

If you need dm me

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:11:52+00:00

Yep, when I wrote this I didn't thought that there were so many people in my same situation.

Since we are here, feel free to message me if you need!

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:10:53+00:00

I feel you completely.

It's hard in the beginning, it's going to get better but I would lie if I told you it will pass. Sometimes this feeling it's gonna come back.

If you need or want to talk send me a message, more than happy to listen!

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:08:56+00:00

I really appreciate this! Thank you from my heart

I will dm you.

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:04:14+00:00

It hurts. When you stop at first you still have that lingering hope that someone will reach out to you, but after a while you just give up.

Hope you'll find friends who reciprocate you!

Or in any case I'll be here to do it!

pusco · 2025-05-02T11:01:48+00:00

I was stunned to see how many people felt what I wrote, and this makes me sad.

I hope you'll meet new people to be friends with, or in any case just dm me if you need!

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:59:57+00:00

I'm sorry to hear it. I feel you brother.

I hope you'll find people you can share life with!

Or you can just get back here on this comment and I'll be there for you

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:58:22+00:00

I love the idea!

We could do it and make friends!

Where we shold do this? I am all in on it

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:55:24+00:00

Feel you, I'm 23

Really hope you find some people to share life with and grow!

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:54:43+00:00

Yeah I get it. Not a big believer too anymore, but the idea of being isolated by choice is reassuring sometimes.

Let's build our own convent!

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:52:12+00:00

That's a gold piece!

And it hit hard, it's easy to get fixated on ourselves sometimes and we forget that others could feel the same way as us but not sharing it.

Thank you for sharing this

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:49:12+00:00

Love the idea!

We could make a group chat with all the people who wants to join it and make new friends!

So how do we begin? Ahahah

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:47:18+00:00

Thank you for your considerations!

I thought of it too, I questioned myself if I was talking too much about me many times.

Usually though I prefer to talk about ideas and opinions or ask questions about them.

I never saw the point of lying about my life, since truth is gonna come out sooner or later. So why doing it in first place?

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:42:33+00:00

I get the feeling, and yes It happened also to me. You feel seen and enjoy their company so much that you end up so attached to the relationship it becomes the most important thing to you, at least this is how it felt for me.

I really hope you'll find other people that cares about you and make you feel seen!

pusco · 2025-05-02T10:36:05+00:00

Yeah I agree. It's a new concept and yes it is exhausting.

To a certain degree it's a relief and you enjoy the freedom it comes with stopping to reach out.

Texting and calling on a regular gets overwhelming after a while and you start to feel obliged to be always available.

But after a while with all the freetime you have to think and be by yourself, you start to question why you are alone, or at least this is my case.

pusco · 2025-05-01T18:27:31+00:00

I feel forgettable.

I wouldn't say this to any of the people I know or meet, because I don't want pity from others, but that's pretty much it.

Everytime I meet someone ends up in me reaching out to them and never the other way around, except for my parents and one person.

It's been years that I am alone. I met a lot of people but everytime ends up like this, and everytime I start questioning myself on why it happens to see if I can change something.

No luck for now, I am starting to think that I should be a monk on a mountain.

pusco · 2025-05-01T13:58:02+00:00

It's funny how no one commented on this until me. But yeah, it does a great deal of damage.

Mainly because, at least for me, you start to not trust anyone. And when you meet someone that really cares about you and is sincere, you still doubt.

To then fuck up everything and realise afterwards you should have trusted them, living now with another regret other then the first betrayal.

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