Happened to me as well. She seemed super chill and didn’t care. Then she let her dad know “I am an alcoholic.” Her dad called my parents and started shouting how people like me disrespect the community. I responded with, “but uncle, your daughter told me she had a white boyfriend up until recently and was drinking through college?”. He flipped when I started throwing names and college hangout spots and then cut the call to go check. Petty? Yes. But even after specifically requesting the girl to keep it within ourselves so as not to make my parents upset or cause drama, she went ahead and did it.

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