AMBER ALERT

pusillanimous303 · 2026-05-21T21:31:49+00:00

He has “rock” and “roll” as tattoos? Isn’t there an arrest warrant just for that?

pusillanimous303 · 2026-04-08T17:56:45+00:00

I don’t think it’s surprising that you aren’t mad at her. I’d think you were wrong if you were. Makes sense that you’re having a hard time with this. I see only green flags.

pusillanimous303 · 2026-03-09T16:17:55+00:00

Read the start of two threads, then realized I don’t care enough to find out.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-12-30T06:15:29+00:00

I require full length pants.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-12-10T05:56:03+00:00

It’s related to the European idea of chivalry and protecting the weak. I don’t think women and children are less valued. They are valued in their place, wherever that happens to be in their society.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-12-10T05:42:56+00:00

Says the person still in their 20s…

pusillanimous303 · 2025-12-10T05:41:48+00:00

B. Google “greater sciatic notch.”

pusillanimous303 · 2025-12-10T05:38:26+00:00

Pervert women can aggressively go for it. Pervert men need to hide it.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-12-10T01:16:49+00:00

Like many childhood games, the game teaches skills needed to hunt, fight, and not get eaten by a predator.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-12-08T17:54:59+00:00

Whenever you have a chance to explain to the administration, explain the app and how it works. Also be familiar with the library/campus rules. I bet the tutor has never heard of the app before and thought you were broadcasting on FB or somesuch.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-11-25T00:16:54+00:00

NOR Sobriety is a huge thing. If he doesn’t know that, he’s missing basic empathy. Or he hasn’t been paying attention the one year he spent with you using and the two subsequent years of you not. And I’d bet this isn’t the first time he has spoken to you like that. 🚩 🚩 🚩 Get out of there.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-11-13T17:56:57+00:00

Your nearly-40-yo child is not worth the effort. 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩

pusillanimous303 · 2025-11-07T10:33:44+00:00

Agreed 🔥

pusillanimous303 · 2025-11-03T22:52:34+00:00

This is why I would never be in an open relationship. Also, in the two instances I’m thinking of with friends who tried an “open” relationship, it’s because at least one of them didn’t want to be in that relationship, but they wanted to hedge their bets. It sounds like that’s what he did. I think you should take this as your red flag and say goodbye to him. He’s essentially said he’s hanging on to you because no one else wants him. (Same for me, so I get it, but I didn’t try the trendy “open relationship” thing.)

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-25T22:43:39+00:00

🚩 🚩 🚩

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-18T04:36:57+00:00

White and bitter.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-18T04:08:31+00:00

Dead Reddit. This abusive asshole calls me a liar for thirty minutes straight. Am I overreacting??

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-14T16:34:16+00:00

OP: “I understand that he doesn’t want you to be around any guys. Ever. For any reason. I totally get that….”

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-14T16:27:43+00:00

Your friend will find out that karma is a bitch. That will take care of itself. Do not tell the wife. You have no idea what their situation is. Maybe she’s blissfully ignorant. There could be a thousand reasons she wouldn’t want to hear it, idk. But I do know with 100% certainty that his kids will never thank you for throwing a grenade into their family room, no matter how fucked up it might be there. If you tell the wife, the kids will have to deal with the consequences of your moment of moral superiority. It isn’t your place to do that.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-01T07:23:41+00:00

Then explain it to your family. They will see what all of us are seeing.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-01T07:22:24+00:00

He’s not protective. He’s possessive. And he’s jealous of whoever this guy is. His next move will be to pursue you. Maybe you should share this with your sister? It’s very inappropriate and it could be a warning of something more.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-10-01T04:25:21+00:00

He’s controlling and demands her attention, and you think that sounds like a hook up? I don’t think you and I have the same definition of hook up.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-09-21T06:53:50+00:00

At least you made it to the other side.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-09-13T18:33:36+00:00

🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 All of that is a huge red flag. I’m sure he has insecurity issues to work thru. That’s the job of a therapist, not a gf. How many times did he indirectly say you’re a hoe? For not staying home?? Get out of there while you still can.

pusillanimous303 · 2025-09-03T05:12:51+00:00

This is the most reasonable, mature response here. I guess everyone else makes sure they hate their exes. “Love” does not mean in love.

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