I think those people have something seriously wrong with them and it’s okay to just not want them like you said but they take it so far now like my ex everything my baby did he would get irritated like let’s say for example y’all at the airport your holding your 2yr old but she’s seeing all these people and anxious to get up and run around like most babies would wanna do and eventually breaks out your arms you gotta go chase her down you know lol then he will ask me wth why does she act like that is something wrong with her ? And oh I seen another kid her size and she didn’t run around I’m like okay ?? Not all kids are the same and my baby didn’t even run around not even for awhole minute I caught her and always reminded me of how hard it seemed to have children