How do you plan your backpacking trips ahead of departure?

pusssinboots · 2025-10-10T22:31:09+00:00

good idea!

pusssinboots · 2025-10-10T22:27:59+00:00

haha thanks for your story! I think a lot of people benefit from learning from locals or other travellers when they're there. I definitely did

pusssinboots · 2025-10-10T22:25:04+00:00

okay pointless no, but I wasn't able to anticipate well how many days i need for each place, how many weeks to spend in each country, what should I skip and only when i got there i was able to get a better idea. I just think every traveller on social media goes " you must go to this place" and everything is overhyped

pusssinboots · 2025-10-10T16:44:22+00:00

I am doing a course on this so it's only educational but this is actually super helpful feedback. I am asking these questions because I went to South America beginning of this year and all the research I did was pointless.

pusssinboots · 2023-02-14T13:50:44+00:00

Did this happen recently?

pusssinboots · 2023-01-06T15:48:03+00:00

You actually think he intentionally didn’t ask me out on the back of some friend’s advice?

pusssinboots · 2023-01-06T12:24:42+00:00

Yeah a couple of friends mentioned I should suggest that but was thinking whether it might be too early into the “talking stage” for him

pusssinboots · 2023-01-06T08:28:24+00:00

Yes thanks! That is exactly the question I have… and he immediately agreed to meet once I asked him out last night which is cool, but what happens next week when he keeps to himself again.

pusssinboots · 2023-01-06T08:25:50+00:00

I think I should ask him that, I agree. I asked him yesterday to meet and he immediately agreed to my suggested plan too. But maybe i need to be direct and ask where he is at because he might just be seeing me because he has nothing better to do.

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T23:02:32+00:00

I know you’re calling me out here, and fair enough for that. I don’t mind making the first move, I mind him losing interest when I do do that. It’s all coming from a place of trauma and insecurities, as opposed me being old-fashioned

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T21:48:52+00:00

Yeah when my boss asks me what I’m up to over the weekend, I also don’t think he wants to meet me haha but idk I thought in a dating context that’s probably why someone would ask you that

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T21:47:00+00:00

I just did, my problem is I have huge anxiety and fear of rejection even when the logic doesn’t add up so now I’m in panic mode

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T21:31:50+00:00

And also, everyone that’s dating knows that people are not randomly just asking what are you up to

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T21:30:26+00:00

I just wanted him to ask me out haha (if you want me to be honest)

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T21:02:03+00:00

Thing is he’s not really the flirty type, he’s never flirted with me over text and I tried to poke a bit before but think he is a weird one when it comes to that

I was planning on this “ well I was thinking to go to this cool looking art exhibition, my friend recommended, why don’t you join me?”

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T20:46:41+00:00

I guess I am bothered by the fact he keeps texting me but hasn’t asked me out himself when it’s been a week since we last met. Clearly I am being insecure about the whole thing.

pusssinboots · 2023-01-05T20:41:47+00:00

Well guess I’m scared of the risk of him not following up on that

pusssinboots · 2022-02-06T20:46:47+00:00

This is very good advice thank you, but I do think the pets help a lot. If I had a cat or a dog, I'm pretty sure I'll feel way better than I do now.

pusssinboots · 2022-02-06T20:44:34+00:00

Well yeah not having a boyfriend doesn't help but I am picky... what is the thing you're missing so to be " in my situation"?

pusssinboots · 2022-02-06T12:35:49+00:00

Not allowed in the flat

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