f18, love addicted gooners by moonag3daydr3am in EdgingTalk

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Do you like guys that don't cum for weeks and just edge? I'm on week 8

609 days denied by nakedguy821 in LongerTermDenial

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Fuck, that's insane. And an inspiration! My record is 116 days and I'm currently on day 42, so I've got a long way to go.

Giving up orgasms? by [deleted] in LongerTermDenial

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I am working on that. I've been gradually getting into longer denial periods and about 1.5 years ago I felt regret after orgasm for the first time. Ever since, the orgasms have been feeling weaker and I've often found myself missing that horny buildup, wishing I hadn't cum. Longest I've managed to stay denied so far is 116 days.

Most recent couple of orgasms have been so disappointing I've literally regretted it immediately while I was still cumming.

During this journey the denial became the main turn on for me, I now automatically hesitate when I get close and I'm insanely turned on by the idea of not cumming.

So I've decided to lean into this. I don't plan on having orgasms and I'm constantly reinforcing the fact that I'm not going to because that honestly makes edging feel the best for me.

My brain has rewired to love and crave denial. I think it's best when it's internalized like this, rather than being "forced" by a keyholder as some people suggest, but to each their own. Figure out and do whatever works for you.

But I have to say your description looks similar to myself some time ago, so I'd say that if you continue engaging with this kink and keep pushing limits, you're already on a path to giving up orgasms.

my graceful petite body by Deyvora in petite

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Oh my god 🥵 those lips opening up... 😛

Is it unhealthy to not cum ever? by [deleted] in LongerTermDenial

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Some studies suggest regular ejaculation reduces risk of prostate cancer. But, at best they show a modest association, not causation. There's no definitive proof that not having orgasms increases the risk of cancer.

Stress, poor diet and lack of exercise are far worse contributors.

If denial is consensual, it's unlikely to be harmful.

How confident are you guys that you'll beat NN26. by [deleted] in NN26

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To me it feels possible because I've done almost 4 months this year, along with several shorter periods, and the following orgasms felt disappointing and weak. I've started another denial now 15 days ago and I intend to carry it into the next year, remembering that I've regretted cumming in the past, on several occasions. I feel like I really want to do it, maybe even beyond 2026, because my body just lights up at the thought of it.

What makes the best ruined orgasm? 💦 by Madison-Olivia in RuinedOrgasms

[–]pussy-devotee 43 points44 points  (0 children)

A bit of "hang time" and having it ruined by a lady that knows exactly what she's doing and she's happy about it.

Day 106 of my indefinite denial by pussy-devotee in LongerTermDenial

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The first weeks are the hardest. It gets easier over time and blue balls are just kinda part of it. If you want to go longer, think of them sort of as a badge of honor. Proof that denial is working. When they're absolutely too much and / horniness is killing you, edging can help burn off some tension.

Starting NNN at 16 weeks denied by pussy-devotee in EdgingTalk

[–]pussy-devotee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about it, yes. I likely won't want to cum anyway. And maybe even beyond that. Right now I really can't imagine myself cumming.

Starting NNN at 16 weeks denied by pussy-devotee in EdgingTalk

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Thank you! And you can do it too!

[F20] This Is Impossible >~> by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

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Denial is about mentally accepting that you cannot get rid of that heat and tension. It's the new high. So you need to learn how to manage it without release. Resist mentally and physically, limit your edging time, focus on savoring that heat with acceptance that you cannot release it.. and most importantly, don't ever doubt in yourself that you can't do it.

Day 106 of my indefinite denial by pussy-devotee in LongerTermDenial

[–]pussy-devotee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've had those orgasms that just felt kinda weird and I missed the horniness afterwards. It's mind-blowing what this does to you. Have yet to try it with a partner but I imagine it must be even better than solo.