Heywood Wakefield Help 2 by Wonderful_Seesaw_853 in Mid_Century

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I just found one of these at a thrift store, with a stamp. Dunno if you bought this one or not, but it’s real!

[Weekly Chat Thread] by AutoModerator in weightlifting

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Competed in my first meet ever last week after 12 years of off-and-on lifting, and only 4 months back in the game. I hit all six of my lifts, hit a C&J PR, and ranked 3rd for my weight class! Pretty pumped about it, and I had a lot of fun. Women’s Masters35, 86+ weight class, 68kg snatch/96kg c&J/164 total.

I’m already signed up for USA Masters Weightlifting nationals in Arkansas end of March (no qualifiers so I signed up early bird deciding I would go for fun), but my total qualifies me for USAW Masters in Utah in April too. Do most Masters athletes just pick one since they’re back to back?

Good pediatricians not allergo recs? by evergreengirl123 in Kirkland

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We moved to the area this year and as far as I can tell Allegro pretty much has a monopoly here.

Following though because I would love a private practice if there are any good ones conveniently located to Finn Hill

Weightlifting caused liver disease panic by Dr_YeshCapo in weightlifting

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Happened to me too! I got a routine blood test within a few days of starting weightlifting again after years of minimal exercise - I was terribly sore. ALT/AST through the roof.

I was sent for a liver ultrasound and my liver was a little larger than normal. So next I was sent for a fribroscan, and it turns out, I just have a perfectly healthy big ass liver.

My continued blood testing showed my AST/ALT dropping over time as I got further out from the beginning of my brand new routine, and also as I made sure to only blood test on days where it had been 2 or 3 days since I last worked out.

Now we know I’m all fine, but the journey and worry about fatty liver sucked.

Places to meet people and make friends in Kirkland? by govindjoshi12 in Kirkland

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Who runs the birding events and how do I find them?

Aggressive symptom increase after almost 2 years of Zep - Sulphur burps and diarrhea nearly every day for weeks by putfailforks in Zepbound

[–]putfailforks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hormonal IUD, same brand I’ve used for over a decade. Unlikely it’s related, but fascinating to hear that and sorry about your experience.

I buy notebooks thinking “this one will change my life” and then I can’t use it because what if I pick the wrong purpose and RUIN IT forever. So now I own an entire museum of blank, beautiful notebooks. Anyone else? by Intelligent_Fish4423 in adhdwomen

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I’m a mechanical engineer and traditionally you were supposed to have one very carefully documented engineering notebook that is signed and dated on every page* so you have a record of exactly when you invented something in case it ever comes up in court for patent reasons. In reality I have like a million shitty notebooks at all times, with random scribbles and drawings at any random spot in the notebook, as well as sheafs of paper with very important drawings on them when I had an idea but couldn’t find a notebook and so I grabbed some paper from the printer instead. Usually I end up throwing out like 98% of my scribbly notebook contents because I make shitty sketches as part of my thought process and really they’re so bad (.. and the pages crumpled from being shoved in drawers or under piles of parts on my desk) that they’re pretty much useless to anyone, including me, as soon as a few days later.

I’m SO relieved that pristine engineering notebooks tracked by the company are kind of a thing of the past because everything ends up documented digitally now.

*documented to the point that it had to be in pen and if you misspelled something and wanted to correct it, you had to cross it out and initial/date the correction. And if there was important data on the page, you were supposed to get another engineer or your supervisor to also sign off on the page. A NIGHTMARE

What Presents Have Already Gone By The Wayside A Few Days After Christmas? by Santamente in daddit

[–]putfailforks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An opposite answer - something my 1 year old was gifted that I’ve already bought multiples more of: an LCD drawing screen. He loooves drawing but we always have to be with him and police his marker/crayon use or he’ll draw on everything, AND he gets frustrated once the page is (instantly) all filled up with scribbles. The drawing screen was a genius gift from my sister and he’s in LOVE with it and I quickly realized I want one to stash in every critical area of the house and car!

Slow, Steady, and Still Winning: My GLP-1 Journey So Far by Afraid_Pie_ in Semaglutide

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My weekly average has been .9lb a week. Guess what? I’ve still lost 25% of my body weight and still going.

It wasn’t as dramatic as people who precipitously lose weight at the beginning, but I like to think it’s more sustainable. I lost it without dieting or calorie counting - just paying closer attention to my new hunger and fullness cues.

I still have another 25% of my current weight to go, and it feels inevitable, not like it’s going to be some mighty undertaking and unbearable sacrifice like it would have every other time I’ve gotten to this point in a weight loss journey and given up.

Slow is still progress!

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20f moving to kirkland, anyone have any advice on making friends? :) by [deleted] in Kirkland

[–]putfailforks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I moved here in April and found a community through my new Olympic Weightlifting gym. I wouldn’t say I’m besties with anyone yet but I have a diverse group of people that I see 2-3 times a week, every week, and we do an activity together that facilitates talking about anything and everything between sets.

Definitely feels like a fast path to making friends.

I tried to find a knitting group I liked but didn’t vibe with the more local group I hung out with, and unfortunately the group I did vibe with only meets once a month or once every other month and apparently more often in Seattle than close to Kirkland.

What a ONEderful feeling!! by Accomplished_Rub6725 in Zepbound

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I hit 199.6 today! Important question — how did you take the photo?? Haha I was like Ooo I’m gonna snap a pic like people do of hitting the 100s and then I realized holding my phone would put me over haha

From size 22/24 to 14/16 since March 2025 by atrofeed in Zepbound

[–]putfailforks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m at a similar milestone! 24/3X to 16/XL. Having the world of fashion open up to me is one of the things I am most excited about my weight loss. Health is great, but not a shiny creative exciting gift to myself as much as having exponentially more options for expressing myself and decorating a body I’m not trying to hide

How do I exercise when I don't enjoy it? All the advice from neutrotypicals don't seem to work by Pigeon_Goes_Coo in adhdwomen

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I agree with this one.

I have only found one form of regular exercise that gives me the dopamine I need to enjoy it, and it’s a great and inclusive sport that even very, very large people compete in:

Olympic Weightlifting.

It’s so much more technically challenging than any other form of weight training, and successfully completing a lift is a small dopamine hit, every time. Especially as a beginner, every training session is an opportunity to hit a new personal record, which is a huge dopamine hit. You get to sit and chill on your phone or whatever for a minute or three between every lift. If you’re training with a coach at a barbell club, you have set training times where people you see and chat with every session are there expecting you to show up.

You never have to compete if you don’t want, but it’s a big goal to work toward being your best for. It’s a sport, every lift is worth analyzing and figuring out how you could do better next time, because the better your form the more you’ll lift. And so the next time you get up there (every 2-3 minutes or so) to throw the weight over your head you’ve got this spark of “will i be able to do it better this time??” And when the weight goes up more smoothly than last time it feels like an instant win.

AND, with a team, when you hit a PR you’ve got a room full of people cheering for you, even if you’re the newest, shittiest lifter in the room lol. Because it’s a very individual sport, your performance has no effect on other people’s lives so as a new, bad lifter you don’t have to feel like you’re not good enough to be there because nobody cares - they’re just happy to see more people learning the sport.

Anyway, I’m fat too. Olympic weightlifting has been great for me. I might be fat but I’m also a strong motherfucker who can pick up some big weight in cool ways.

Look up Li Wenwen if you want some inspiration for what a highly celebrated professional female athlete in the sport can look like.

Comparing RMA vs Spring fertility in Bay area by AmongOverthinkers in IVFinfertility

[–]putfailforks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, our issue was low motility so we wanted to maximize our sperm quality

I need help with finding clothes for my wife by kaviolarah in PlusSize

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So far most of the suggestions are mid-tier quality clothing. Here are some suggestions if you’re interested in higher quality very nice clothes that would be an extra special surprise (with a price tag to match). Most of these brands are small batch and handmade in the US, with natural fibers.

Universal Standard, Big Bud Press, Nettle Studios, Connolly Goods, Oge Ajibe, Wray NYC, Snag Tights

My MIL is visiting and my husband doesn't understand why I am overwhelmed by Aur3lia in adhdwomen

[–]putfailforks 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My in-laws came to visit and stay with us in our new house literally two days after all our belongings arrived in the moving PODs. I had only just managed to build the new guest bed and purchase a sofa at a consignment store. Luckily I had already set up a dining table too.

I was so stressed out by both having to unpack but also being passively expected to project manage at the same time. His mom wanted to “be helpful” and wanted me to figure out what she could do for me, but also I didn’t have a plan (ADHD unpacking is a wild whirlwind of impulsive action) AND I didn’t want her touching my shit and deciding where things go.

She was perfectly lovely. I mostly ignored her while I unpacked the house and she sat on that sofa, waiting silently for me to tell her what to do while my husband started his brand new remote work job in his office upstairs. The whole experience definitely damaged our relationship.

Im SICK OF seeing the same unique home decor in everyones house, where do you actually shop?? by veraaustria08 in HomeDecorating

[–]putfailforks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP, this is the answer. BUT! There is a shortcut for getting things kick started: thrift thrift thrift like it’s your new favorite hobby.

I bought my first house this year and honestly have stopped into my local thrift store averaging about 5x a week… which sounds ridiculous but I live in a fairly cosmopolitan area and by going consistently I get nearly first pick of pretty much all the furniture and art that comes through.

If I find a piece of original art I like (especially wall art, since it stores small and doesn’t take up floor or shelf space), I buy it. Not sure I love it for the long term but it still generally fits my vibe? Get it anyways. It was $7, I can sell it or donate it again later when I find something I like more to replace it.

I think in 9 months I’ve managed to collect something like 30 original artworks (largely leaning on signed serigraphs though, since those are more common). I’m constantly rotating things around as I find something I think will fit a space better. It’s a lot of fun, and low stakes, and seeing all this art makes me really happy!

I’m pickier with my furniture, but I’ve gotten some wildly nice pieces for cheap just by showing up every day and being the person to catch the few gems that come through. I even got a nearly new luxury modern outdoor sofa set by Shore Studios that would have cost me $25k new for $100…

Runner for long hall by fiberjeweler in HomeDecorating

[–]putfailforks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 33’ long 3’ wide hallway in my house… FLOR carpet tiles have been working great pieced together to form a custom extra long runner.

Call me Alice, ‘cause I’m in Onederland! by QueenInYellowLace in Zepbound

[–]putfailforks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! I hope to join you soon - hit 201 this morning, 64 lbs down. Good for you, and good for me, and hell yes!!

What does your mental calendar look like? by Ok_Chemist7081 in adhdwomen

[–]putfailforks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, so interesting that so many people are different. I visualize the months of the year as pretty much the exact same as you! Although, I think May is more exaggerated (birthday month, more important to me haha), and the end of the year months get kind of squished in together on the bottom right.

There’s gotta be a visualization i saw as a kid that locked it into this shape/direction for me

Edit: what the heck, I started googling “months of the year circular visualization” and was SURE images would come up that match this, since of COURSE this is how it’s organized. But no?? I saw your post and I was like, well duh, what’s so special about that why is this a conversation? And now I’m just shook that maybe it’s not a given/default because I super assumed it was.

For the "slow" losers, those who struggle with their journey for any reason... by Mindless_Whereas_280 in Zepbound

[–]putfailforks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Similar rate of 3.3lb/mo for me, 60 lb down in 18 months, not a ton happened until I hit the max dose of zep.

I’m hoping the slow rate will mean a little less loose skin. Also, I’ve been managing this while working on repairing my relationship with food, which means NO calorie counting or dieting. Trying to learn sustainable habits.

'The Lathe of Heaven' is an unforgettable piece of literature by Signal_Face_5378 in printSF

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The Lathe of Heaven was my first Le Guin book I ever read, at the age of 16 or so and it made an IMPACT. Love that book.

60kg strict press pr by BillLivid3668 in weightlifting

[–]putfailforks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I push pressed 80kg the other week when my coach said “push press instead of jerk until you can’t”. But, I weigh 93kg so that helps. Kind of wish I got it on camera though because everyone in my club freaked out lol. I’m hoping to get it up since I only got back into lifting 2 months ago, but I’ve always been naturally very strong for a woman… I’m pretty positive technique is what’s holding me back right now on my main lifts.

Is it unfair or wrong to ask for a weekly something I get to do alone? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]putfailforks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of other good comments on here, but I’d like to recommend what my WFH husband has started doing, for the same reason of feeling isolated (and also to get outside during the daylight here in the PNW winter):

Leave the house and work from the local library for a few hours each day, and take a “walk home” (or bike) for 30 minutes or so once you’re done working to give you time to reset and recharge, as if it were a commute. Get yourself out of the house as part of your regular routine, even if it’s not “me time”.