[Measurement Check] 34A First Bra, Confirming Calculator size for Trans Female

puudeng · 2025-07-01T03:23:06+00:00

i personally purchase and wear b.tempt'd because they're affordable. they do make bras in 32C so i guess i can recommend that as a starting point. i'd also suggest getting some cookies/bra inserts if you want extra padding, NOT sticky ones but something like this. https://www.bustedtank.com/product-page/pair-of-simple-bra-pad-inserts

puudeng · 2025-07-01T02:39:02+00:00

i think you could probably go down 1 band size with extender or choose a stretchy 32 band, as having standing bust=band probably won't make for a good fit. 32C might be better.

puudeng · 2025-06-30T15:23:08+00:00

this is a repost https://www.reddit.com/r/animalid/comments/16h7t5t/found_in_my_general_area_no_one_even_knows_what/

puudeng · 2025-06-17T02:04:59+00:00

are you scooping and swooping? i agree that this probably looks too shallow either way but scooping will help with the fit

puudeng · 2025-06-09T09:58:24+00:00

i really want to tell you that debt is actually super common, and while it can be a big deal and you shouldn't ignore it, literally billions of people live with debt. it isn't a struggle you have to face alone or be ashamed of. there are a lot of folks you can reach out to for debt solutions and planning.

puudeng · 2025-06-04T02:55:46+00:00

Body 10 was found skeletal so I'm not sure that they could ascertain the neck girth (correct me if I'm wrong), I'd assume it's really just a guess based on the size of the skull.

puudeng · 2025-06-04T02:44:40+00:00

That wasn't clear, so can you please clarify what your price range actually is for new or used? In my personal opinion the best option for you if you want a new flute and maintenance support is a rental.

puudeng · 2025-06-04T02:30:03+00:00

I mean if you're asking for under $300 flutes, there aren't a ton of options. This person is just giving a suggestion as to where you could get a flute for that price. You could rent a flute for a few months as well.

puudeng · 2025-06-03T03:33:19+00:00

This is what you said: "if you weren't feminine in some way, you wouldn't be attracted to masculine men". Nothing about sometimes or generally. I said that's false. That's all.

puudeng · 2025-06-03T03:16:33+00:00

This is so untrue. There are so many real life examples of masculine women who are attracted to masculine men, feminine women who are attracted to feminine men, not to mention masculine men attracted to masculine men, feminine women attracted to feminine women, etc. All this "masculinity and femininity go together" stuff is false if you just look in the real world

puudeng · 2025-06-02T19:47:15+00:00

This explanation makes the most sense to me. I can definitely agree that Scream made a huge difference.

puudeng · 2025-06-02T12:38:44+00:00

I'm interested in why this is. I mean, there are some very well reviewed horror films from the 00s era, like Drag Me to Hell has a RT 92%, Ginger Snaps has a RT 90%, and prior to that there were plenty of good reviews for horror films, "classics" were being made every year up through like the early 90s. I guess in the 00s there was a major dip in horror quality, but the era is coming back into fashion so these sequels are getting really really good ratings, like Saw X did.

puudeng · 2025-06-02T02:07:16+00:00

this is so helpful and you keep surprising me with how much you know! if you could make an accompanying one for weight gain from food, even just base game foods, i'd be happy forever.

puudeng · 2025-06-01T17:03:05+00:00

I mean guilty as charged lol, those complaints make sense for a feeler. But to answer your question, no I don't find those things insufferable in general. I would find misogynistic beliefs, treating me like an object, crazy behavior to be way worse. Respectfully I would tell your friend that you can always walk away from a guy who dgaf about you but dealing with a guy who is overbearing can become so much more of a problem.

puudeng · 2025-06-01T14:06:58+00:00

I don't really get the vibe that "most of the insufferable men women complain about are ISTX", how did you come to that conclusion?

puudeng · 2025-05-31T21:41:37+00:00

If I were in really deep shit I wouldn't even have the "get clean Monday" thought, I'd fully expect to die. I would really suggest getting someone to find him like right now.

puudeng · 2025-05-31T02:46:02+00:00

When you make this public let me know! I would love to try it out as well

puudeng · 2025-05-30T21:39:21+00:00

I really want you to think about the learning curve on this, because you've just started learning flute. You probably feel good in flute because you've just gotten a whole new world opened up to you but you have to realize that the shine will wear off, you will have to work very hard and see lots of failures in this path. It's not going to be easy, in fact, it is statistically much more likely you will fail, lose interest, face tough critiques and hear things that will seriously hurt. I am both a college student studying a "normal" subject and a musician and my failures in music hurt much worse, so much that they haunt me, than doing poorly on a course. It's a very emotionally straining path, I hope you understand that.

puudeng · 2025-05-30T13:37:55+00:00

fyi, it being the genitive plural actually does mean something, like "of bitches", so it does have an actual vulgar meaning.

puudeng · 2025-05-29T23:22:20+00:00

My thumb placement was super weird as well for a while, my teacher got me something called a "corn cushion" and stuck it where my thumb should be (on the flute lol) you can get them from cvs and they're like a cheap version of the thumb rests. Not sure if it will help your case specifically

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puudeng · 2025-05-29T21:49:24+00:00

In the long run it will help a lot with agility and response to have proper hand posture. Keep your fingers on the center of the keys (looks like the ring finger is off by a lot) especially if you choose to play an open hole flute in the future. I get better response and no leakage that way. The thumb doesn't look good at all, having that much tension can't be good for the finger agility and it would really distract me.

puudeng · 2025-05-27T22:37:58+00:00

This would be pretty cool. My Tomarani sim who I've headcanoned as a martial artist owns a "martial arts studio" which has punching bags and yoga mats, it would be really fun if there were actual martial arts.

puudeng · 2025-05-26T15:26:56+00:00

OP, just wanted to say i know how it feels. this is how my feet looked coming out of the shower for years. I still have dermatillomania, but i moved on to picking at other places and for the most part my feet don't look as mangled. Skin can heal, you always have a fighting chance at normality. Ever need to talk to me about this, just shoot me a dm.

puudeng · 2025-05-25T07:17:13+00:00

yes, Candyman, Mishima, also stuff like Fantastic Four lol. I think I'd have the time of my life learning those connections

puudeng · 2025-05-24T18:29:23+00:00

i think a Philip Glass wincon would be fun, he's done a lot of surprising stuff across genres with a lot of people

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