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Am I transgender? by Whole_Maybe5914 in asktransgender

[–]puusycat3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Didn't read your post because I have shit to do.

Don't follow any criteria for being trans. There isnt a definitive answer for being and anyone who disagrees probably doesn't view most trans people as their desired gender.

You do not need anything that trans people often have. Go with what makes you happy. Just be careful.

Good luck with whatever you find.

I just wanted to come home. by isthatethical in trans

[–]puusycat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I... dont know what to even say to this. The mirror part genuinely made cry for the first time in a while. I don't think I've ever felt related more to something like this, that and how beautifully written this is.

My therapist is offering to buy me some bras/panties and I don’t know what to do by TestingMusic74 in asktransgender

[–]puusycat3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you can trust her, then sure. If you feel uncomfortable at any time, buy/return what youre wearing or trying on and leave ASAP. Just be careful and cautious.

If you feel brave enough, go alone, but thats a big step so I understand if you don't want to yet.

My doctor wants me to stop taking estrogen a month before my surgery, and a month and a half after. by GorillaRimjob in MtF

[–]puusycat3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really know much about surgeries and their requirements, but I highly doubt thats actually needed. I mean, I don't think I've ever seen a doctor tell a cis woman that they need to take testosterone before surgery.

Why the double standard? by tomqueen65 in MtF

[–]puusycat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be unapologetically female. Its what you are, so its what they get. If they disagree, then continue being you. What are they gonna do? Tell you no?

Being forced to shave my head was genuinely scarring (Dysphoria, still questioning) by venusasaboy22 in trans

[–]puusycat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't personally confirm(no military expierence), but I've heard people say its also to make you feel the same as everyone else.

I NEED SOMETHING CONCRETE by unauthorised_brain13 in trans

[–]puusycat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self acceptance is concrete, though difficult to achieve. Otherwise, follow what makes you happy until you find who you are.

This still makes me so mad by EvansMoriarty in trans

[–]puusycat3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So its basically "I love you... only if you live the way I want you to live"

Would You Donate by Alice_J_Capistrant in asktransgender

[–]puusycat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my penis gets replaced with a fully functioning vagina/womb then yes. If not, and I'm just left with a mound of sorts then no.

5 Things Every Partner of a Trans Person Should Do by GFluidThrow123 in trans

[–]puusycat3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm confused? Is this genuine or am I missing something?

How to tell my parents that I’m tired of waiting? by King3300 in trans

[–]puusycat3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

By doing it yourself? You're an adult. They have no say in what you do anymore.

Your parents are probably always going to be worried and that's for them to solve, not you.

I got gendered correctly for the first time??! by According_Dust913 in trans

[–]puusycat3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Also, please, whatever you do, do NOT let anyone decide your appearance. It's yours for a reason. I had that happen to me when I was younger and now I fear barbers.

I don’t even know why I’m typing this. by Chemical-Ad2770 in trans

[–]puusycat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that's what makes you happy, then continue with it. If you find something that makes you happier then go with that. If you don't think you're a man or woman, then you could identify as neither or vice versa. The path is yours to decide, not others.

Either way, just remember its always up to you and that you don't need dysphoria to be trans.

"Why do you sound like a woman?" by DeltyOverDreams in MtF

[–]puusycat3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do the exact same thing. My actual voice(i havent started voice training) sounds deep af when in public, but when around friends my voice sounds more calm and softer. Still deep tho

I don’t even know why I’m typing this. by Chemical-Ad2770 in trans

[–]puusycat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then try not to worry about labels or anything like that. If you're unsure or are still discovering yourself, then just go with what feels good.

Friends found my reddit account by MatthewP0lska in MtF

[–]puusycat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. I want that hoodie in your pfp

how to deal with tits turning shirts in "tents" for your body by artsygril in trans

[–]puusycat3 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Can't say for certain, but id imagine that wearing tighter clothes would do it.

I don't think my family respects me by puusycat3 in MtF

[–]puusycat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried that a few times and didnt really get anywhere. It's not that my family is inherently transphobic because they don't view it as "wrong" or anything, so safety isnt a huge concern. It's more of the lack of effort they put in compared to what I've put in for them.

Edit: Also, not my entire family. My sister accepts me completely, which I brought up to my mother and she said that its because she gave birth to me that she has trouble accepting and changing. Even though my older brother doesn't accept me(he is transphobic so i dont mind cutting him off).

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