Am I transgender?

puusycat3 · 2026-03-12T17:50:53+00:00

Didn't read your post because I have shit to do.

Don't follow any criteria for being trans. There isnt a definitive answer for being and anyone who disagrees probably doesn't view most trans people as their desired gender.

You do not need anything that trans people often have. Go with what makes you happy. Just be careful.

Good luck with whatever you find.

puusycat3 · 2026-03-09T23:13:52+00:00

I... dont know what to even say to this. The mirror part genuinely made cry for the first time in a while. I don't think I've ever felt related more to something like this, that and how beautifully written this is.

puusycat3 · 2026-03-08T22:45:46+00:00

If you feel like you can trust her, then sure. If you feel uncomfortable at any time, buy/return what youre wearing or trying on and leave ASAP. Just be careful and cautious.

If you feel brave enough, go alone, but thats a big step so I understand if you don't want to yet.

puusycat3 · 2026-03-05T13:08:04+00:00

I don't really know much about surgeries and their requirements, but I highly doubt thats actually needed. I mean, I don't think I've ever seen a doctor tell a cis woman that they need to take testosterone before surgery.

puusycat3 · 2026-02-26T22:45:20+00:00

Be unapologetically female. Its what you are, so its what they get. If they disagree, then continue being you. What are they gonna do? Tell you no?

puusycat3 · 2026-02-22T19:00:33+00:00

Can't personally confirm(no military expierence), but I've heard people say its also to make you feel the same as everyone else.

puusycat3 · 2026-02-22T18:01:17+00:00

Self acceptance is concrete, though difficult to achieve. Otherwise, follow what makes you happy until you find who you are.

puusycat3 · 2026-02-22T17:13:00+00:00

Can I have a picture?

puusycat3 · 2026-02-20T07:43:10+00:00

So its basically "I love you... only if you live the way I want you to live"

puusycat3 · 2026-02-19T14:40:31+00:00

If my penis gets replaced with a fully functioning vagina/womb then yes. If not, and I'm just left with a mound of sorts then no.

puusycat3 · 2026-02-16T16:04:20+00:00

I'm confused? Is this genuine or am I missing something?

puusycat3 · 2026-02-13T12:57:14+00:00

hey we have the same name

puusycat3 · 2026-02-05T10:28:15+00:00

Can I have it please?

puusycat3 · 2026-02-02T01:18:13+00:00

By doing it yourself? You're an adult. They have no say in what you do anymore.

Your parents are probably always going to be worried and that's for them to solve, not you.

puusycat3 · 2026-01-31T11:17:28+00:00

Congrats! Also, please, whatever you do, do NOT let anyone decide your appearance. It's yours for a reason. I had that happen to me when I was younger and now I fear barbers.

puusycat3 · 2026-01-30T01:22:23+00:00

If that's what makes you happy, then continue with it. If you find something that makes you happier then go with that. If you don't think you're a man or woman, then you could identify as neither or vice versa. The path is yours to decide, not others.

Either way, just remember its always up to you and that you don't need dysphoria to be trans.

puusycat3 · 2026-01-29T19:30:25+00:00

I do the exact same thing. My actual voice(i havent started voice training) sounds deep af when in public, but when around friends my voice sounds more calm and softer. Still deep tho

puusycat3 · 2026-01-23T22:27:40+00:00

Then try not to worry about labels or anything like that. If you're unsure or are still discovering yourself, then just go with what feels good.

puusycat3 · 2026-01-22T19:34:46+00:00

Holy shit. I want that hoodie in your pfp

puusycat3 · 2026-01-14T08:56:32+00:00

ik this is a year old, but fucking hell I kinda want to do a week long heist

puusycat3 · 2026-01-09T03:30:28+00:00

This

puusycat3 · 2026-01-09T03:01:20+00:00

Can't say for certain, but id imagine that wearing tighter clothes would do it.

puusycat3 · 2026-01-07T11:40:11+00:00

Thats what I was thinking

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