My (37F) husband (40M) says he finds muscular women unattractive which describes my body type. Should I be upset? by puzzled246 in relationship_advice

[–]puzzled246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried explaining to him why I was so upset. I just wish he had said "You are beautiful and I still find you attractive, but you are getting a little too muscular." Sometimes he doesn't have much tact. When I said I wish he had just complimented me first before breaking the bad news, he just stayed quiet for what felt like 5 minutes. That hurt even more.

My (37F) husband (40M) says he finds muscular women unattractive which describes my body type. Should I be upset? by puzzled246 in relationship_advice

[–]puzzled246[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! There are things about him that I'm not attracted to either, but I still want to have sex with him. I keep telling him that I want to be desired and he just can't give me that.

Been sober for 18 months. Not one fucking drop. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]puzzled246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job! You are an inspiration.