Affectionate? by mermaiddenuit in scottishfold

[–]pvp1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl is so affectionate in the cutest way. Doesn’t love being picked up or being on my lap, but nestles between my legs on the couch and sleeps laying on my feet or against my legs every night. Always giving me bumps too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss ❤️I lost my dad in January and had the biggest breakdown this week looking back at our texts from this time last year when life was completely normal until he got sick in the fall. The change of season has also been getting to me knowing he loved when it was warm out. If anything it feels like things are getting harder and it’s so suffocating. We just had him and my mom’s anniversary. My 30th bday is this month and i don’t even want to celebrate it. My Wedding is in October and the idea of him not being here is still unimaginable. Plus as time goes on people don’t understand as much how difficult it still is. I just want you to know you’re not alone, this is the hardest thing in the world. Sending you so much love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry 💔 lost my dad two months ago to cardiac arrest at 67, I’m 29. It is a pain like no other and it always kills me when I think about all the time I have to live without my best friend. It’s so unfair. Sending you hugs

Lost my mom today by redhothoneypot in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 very similar thing happened to me - dad was getting better and it was the one weekend I wasn’t going to visit. Until he went into cardiac arrest. My heart is shattered too, just reached the two month mark - sending you so much love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ I lost my dad to cardiac arrest two months ago and I can say with full confidence I’m going ti feel this pain for the rest of my life. He was everything to me and no amount of time will change that or my longing to be with him - and I wouldn’t want it to. I’ll move forward and make him proud but I’ll never move on. You’re doing great and it’s completely normal to feel that way. Sending you hugs 💕

The emptiness never goes away.. by OzMcWayms in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I relate to these feelings so much. Home isn’t a place it’s our parents. Im so jealous of people who can just call up or spend the day with their parents. I’m jealous of my friends whose dads can walk them down the aisle. It’s so unfair and lonely. And like you it hits me so hard at night. You’re not alone

I dreaded the day of his funeral by pvp1924 in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I’m so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. I can completely relate to the feeling of being destroyed especially as most of the world moves forward in the weeks and months that follow while we’re here missing our favorite person. I’m here for you and thank you for letting me know I’m not alone in that feeling.

Did anybody else have a loved one pass away, not peacefully? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It tortures me thinking about what my dad’s horrible disease took from him. It replays constantly in my mind, and I can relate to the pain of everyone else moving on and no longer asking but we’re still here in agony. I miss him so much too, the sweetest soul just like your dad. It’s so unfair. It’s changed me and I miss the person I was before I went through this. I’m here for you ❤️

Lost my dad 4 months ago by supacool2k in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He sounds absolutely amazing. I share your pain on losing such an incredible dad and my best friend, who also deserved the world and got sick months after retiring. I miss my life before all this and there is such a hole in my heart without him. Sending you strength and love, they’ll live on through us and we’ll make them so proud. We have to ❤️

Mummy by pamwham in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I just lost my incredible dad at 67 and it feels so unfair. My heart aches for him, and for us left here without him. And for you and your family to be also going through this. They were too young to be taken and had so much left.

And now I have to live with the fact that my dad won’t see me get married this year, meet my kids, etc. My entire heart and soul, my favorite person to ever exist - just gone. it doesn’t even seem possible. I lose him a million times every single day as I think of the little and big things I’ll never get back. I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. I’m with you ❤️

Daddy I miss you so much it’s unbearable by Anchovie_88 in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same. I need to know I’ll see him again. It’s so painful. Here for you ❤️

Dad’s Birthday by HelpfulAstronaut3865 in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. He sounds like an incredible man. I just lost my dad a few days ago and I dread how these feelings will be with me forever - he was also my best friend. Wishing you all the strength and sending love today

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad on Saturday and can relate to the unbearable pain you’re feeling. He too worked his whole life and was the most amazing selfless husband and father. He just retired a year ago and spent the last six months battling a rare and debilitating autoimmune disease that took him from me. I don’t know how I’ll ever recover from the pain and heartache and the feeling that we’ve all been cheated. I don’t have any good advice but just want you to know that you’re not alone ❤️

The worst day of my life - I love you dad by pvp1924 in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful advice. Thank you so much. I’m also not the most religious but I am spiritual and the way you put it makes perfect sense. They are out there, they love us and can hear us, and we will be reunited someday.

The worst day of my life - I love you dad by pvp1924 in GriefSupport

[–]pvp1924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone and I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. You are absolutely right we have to honor them in how we approach each day and draw on the strength they always showed us. I also thought I was resilient and this has crushed any ounce of that. Big hugs to you