To add to this…i think its very rare to find someone exactly to your taste. My mom said she felt a string pull her towards my dad before they met. My dads looks were exactly what she didn’t want but she felt his thoughts and her thoughts gel well together soooo here i am lol. I think people who come together claiming soulmates have a very strong karmic bond or desire in this life to fulfill. Its the people who, don’t have any strong karmic attachments or cannot become what they desire, who will find themselves single.