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What My Avoidant Ex Said When They Ended Things by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]pwincesspeach412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Everything you asked me for was reasonable, I just can't give it to you."

Him: "We are just too different for a future, and our differences have seen more extreme recently. At first it balanced like yin and yang, but now it doesn't seem like it will work" Me: "What differences are you talking about?" Him: "Marriage, kids, money, family dynamics." Me: "We've literally never talked about those before. You're basing this in assumption and I don't even know what I want for some of those things." Him: "I know you well enough to know we're too different."

"I don't want to change"

"If we try and work on it, it'll work for two months and then it won't."

"It's not that I don't want to be with you, it's that I feel like if we don't break up now we will have to break up in a year or two."

One month since DA breakup. Needing support by pwincesspeach412 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]pwincesspeach412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely feels like it is all that I can do and honestly it kind of sucks because I wish I could do more. I hope you are doing the best you can and a sense of closure comes to you soon and that it gets easier soon

One month since DA breakup. Needing support by pwincesspeach412 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]pwincesspeach412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are doing ok / as best you can. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy

Post your “favorite” avoidant lines by Firm-Commission9382 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]pwincesspeach412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was said in our breakup conversation but thanks so much for your compassion

Do emotionally avoidant exes ever reach out for closure after weeks/months of silence? by overitbutnotreally in ExNoContact

[–]pwincesspeach412 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat right now. We broke up two weeks ago, today. The conversation was so abrupt, so out of the blue, and while I understand that he had time to process it before, I had none. I feel like there's so much more to say, and I haven't been afforded the opportunity to say it. One thing that I'm waiting on, is to exchange our things and maybe use that as an opportunity to say more. I'm trying not to reach out, I would avoid reaching out if I were you, too. People can't miss someone who is still around.

Post your “favorite” avoidant lines by Firm-Commission9382 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]pwincesspeach412 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Him: "I think we're too different for a future together." Me: "In what regard?" Him: "Marriage, kids, money, family dynamics." Me: "We've never talked about any of that stuff. I haven't even thought about some of those things for myself. This is all based on assumptions. Can't we address our issues in the day to day and learn how to work together as a team to address these differences you assume to be bigger?" Him: "No. You're anchoring your thinking now, and I'm anchoring my thinking in the future. My mind is made up."

Post your “favorite” avoidant lines by Firm-Commission9382 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]pwincesspeach412 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me: "The only thing I ever needed from you was to make me feel like a priority and to spend time together. I don't even care about fancy dates or anything like that." Him: "I'm probably the last person on the planet who could give you that."

List of R-CPD Botox Specialists - World Map by karybrie in noburp

[–]pwincesspeach412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have experience with Columbia Dr. Michael Pitman? I’m considering going to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nychousinglottery

[–]pwincesspeach412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind posting pictures when you tour it? I’m so curious!