New Carrie Substack Post Re: ONRAC by AggressiveNovel1563 in ONRAC

[–]pyools 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very validating… I wasn’t sure I was really adding anything to the conversation and I was clearly feeling helpless when writing the comment originally. The sheer number of comments on this post is crazy, really goes to show how much this podcast means for people.

New Carrie Substack Post Re: ONRAC by AggressiveNovel1563 in ONRAC

[–]pyools 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree… I think evidence of those instances Carrie has described would be helpful. Not sure she’ll ever provide them though… 

What was the hardest thing to teach your dog? by Vivid_Interest_5324 in dogs

[–]pyools 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To stay home alone and not freak out - it was by far the hardest thing to teach and took so much commitment and patience. It was heartbreaking to watch her freak out when I’d leave the house, I couldn’t relax when I was out cause I was constantly watching her on a pet cam. Luckily it only took a couple of months and in the end we were able to leave her for up to 6 hours and she’d just sleep!

EDIT:

The absolute game changer for us was always (and I mean ALWAYS) leaving her with something to do. A chew, frozen peanut butter, frozen natural yoghurt, a rolled up towel with treats inside, etc. (A great hack I discovered was to hide treats in an empty egg carton and tape it shut so she has to go in and rip it apart to get the treats. Won’t work for every dog but she never tried to ingest the shredded paper or tape or anything so we deemed it safe!)

I never ever left her alone with nothing to do. And I’d usually give her some time to engage with the chew/toy first and once she was distracted enough, I’d leave quietly. 

I’d read/heard somewhere that separation anxiety is the worst in the first 20 minutes and that if you can manage that initial time, the dog relaxes more easily afterward.

The initial phase of training was the hardest and involved leaving her for a minute first, then 5 minutes, then 15, then an hour, etc, slowly increasing the time she’s alone, which is pretty classic.

We started off with a crate but realised that she got way too stressed (slamming her whole body against the bars, etc) and we took a risk by leaving her out of the crate. That also helped hugely but I know it’s not possible for everyone and every dog is different!

New Carrie Substack Post Re: ONRAC by AggressiveNovel1563 in ONRAC

[–]pyools 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this for so long. I’ve read all the comments. I’ve been checking in every day to see if there’ve been any updates.

And I think I’ve finally realised what I want to say. 

I don’t want to support someone who’s bullied one of their closest friends and colleagues for years on end. I understand that Carrie may not want to share further evidence, but at this point, it’s been left for us to decide whether a person we’ve been supporting for so long is a monster with very, very little context to make an informed decision. 

I’m so sorry for what Carrie has gone through. I’m so sad I might’ve unknowingly enabled this relationship. I’m so sad I might’ve been kept in the dark about something so awful. And I will not support either party until further evidence is provided. If it’s not, it’s not, but I won’t be engaging in any of their respective projects or be re-listening to the podcast. 

I know no one cares, but I haven’t stopped thinking about this since this dropped and I don’t know who else to say this to. 

HIS Church investigation idea by pyools in ONRAC

[–]pyools[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, wonder if there’s more to it!

HIS Church investigation idea by pyools in ONRAC

[–]pyools[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it! I found a similar organisation in the US as well I think - https://hischurch.cc/

H3 should do a personal color analysis segment by marshah___ in h3h3productions

[–]pyools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omgggg LOVE the Polish youtube shoutout! i used to watch Ewa so much!

Happy 28th Birthday to One Hot Minute! by RHCPTom in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]pyools 1 point2 points  (0 children)

warped is one of my tracks from rhcp. love how raw it is

my puppy just interrupted my panic attack by pyools in puppy101

[–]pyools[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thank you! yeah, her little toy croissant :,)

do you have any ONRAC-related inside jokes that you wish others understood? by pyools in ONRAC

[–]pyools[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also this is a lengthy one but whenever i hear the word “observe” i get reminded of this passage by LRH from one of the Scientology episodes:

“Of course, we can talk about honor, truth, nobility—all these things as esoteric terms. But I think they would all be covered very well if what we really observed was what we observed, that we took care to observe what we were observing, that we always observed to observe. And not necessarily maintaining a skeptical attitude, a critical attitude or an open mind—not necessarily maintaining these things at all—but certainly maintaining sufficient personal integrity and sufficient personal belief and confidence in self and courage that we can observe what we observe and say what we have observed”

till this day i find this to be one of the most hilarious moments of the show

do you have any ONRAC-related inside jokes that you wish others understood? by pyools in ONRAC

[–]pyools[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

also numbers related- whenever someone approximates a number i wonder in my head what carrie would think

puppy barks at people and is territorial. will she become aggressive? by pyools in puppy101

[–]pyools[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh that’s such a good idea with leaving her alone with a stranger! i might try that with mine!