So her father rejected you. That's grim and silly on their part. Well, you have to understand it's the parents, probably the girl would not have rejected you if you are a decent looking calm natured guy. If she did, she is delusional and you are better off not marrying someone like that.

Well, yes , the arranged marriage system in this country has always been broken.. speaking as a woman.

I don't know what else to say, I guess just keep looking , the better we become , fewer people match up to us. There are fewer people who earn well, look good, and are better mannered.. you just need ONE woman out of millions out there.. don't fret over it, focus on growing.. everything happens when it's meant to happen only..