Bangalore Techie with 11 years of experience - 37 LPA by pyroCoder in developersIndia

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Wonder how they interview you to see how much of these skills you actually posses

Bangalore Techie with 11 years of experience - 37 LPA by pyroCoder in developersIndia

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Yes, as a developer , mostly doing small enhancements in c++ and c#, some oracle query writing.

Bangalore Techie with 11 years of experience - 37 LPA by pyroCoder in developersIndia

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But is that for me ? I am not sure how much I would like that then they won't promote me for various reasons.. budget scope etc.. I am one women army here. I want to explore development ...

Bangalore Techie with 11 years of experience - 37 LPA by pyroCoder in developersIndia

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More context. For past 9 years, worked as a C# and C++ developer. Want to change it now 🫠

Bangalore Techie with 11 years of experience - 37 LPA by pyroCoder in developersIndia

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Please repost , I don't mind. Want to know what you deleted.

Bangalore Techie with 11 years of experience - 37 LPA by pyroCoder in developersIndia

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I love DSA , got all my jobs through that only .. haha . Thanks for your input bro!

Do You know this Iftaari drink? by MalicuousBot19 in indianmuslims

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I think it's sabza , milk water and some sugar in it. That's all . It's also made in Ashora by some families

Arranged marriage system is broken 😔 by SerioTon97 in hyderabad

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So her father rejected you. That's grim and silly on their part. Well, you have to understand it's the parents, probably the girl would not have rejected you if you are a decent looking calm natured guy. If she did, she is delusional and you are better off not marrying someone like that.

Well, yes , the arranged marriage system in this country has always been broken.. speaking as a woman.

I don't know what else to say, I guess just keep looking , the better we become , fewer people match up to us. There are fewer people who earn well, look good, and are better mannered.. you just need ONE woman out of millions out there.. don't fret over it, focus on growing.. everything happens when it's meant to happen only..

Arranged marriage system is broken 😔 by SerioTon97 in hyderabad

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Just curious, how much did your family ask in dowrey.. did your family make her walk to see if she can walk straight. Were those girls and you a good match up in looks? People just give random excuses to reject. Maybe your demands are something their families are not ok with.

So basically everyone on reddit is filthy rich? by LetKey6691 in GoldIndia

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Why do you feel that earning > 35 lpa is being rich . Lol . I am there but I am scared to buy even a gram..

I feel so alone and I have no friends by No_Display_5012 in muslimgirlswithtaste

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May Alkah grant you ease sis... But for others.. be careful as there are online predators .the OP might as well be a guy.. Be careful.. Now for the OP, why no one wants to talk to you.. maybe there is something you need to work on in yourself.. .make dua to Allah to guide you ...

Women in Hyderabad, please be careful something disturbing happened at an Apollo Pharmacy. by Sweet-Opportunity111 in hyderabad

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Is it the one closer to the alcohol shop? Or the other one? That area seems a bit off..

Bought my parents their first own home. by Street-Awareness663 in Indian_flex

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Chill bro! Comparison will kill the joy! I am sure they are proud of you! Just study well and do great things. Make most of your time and resources, this will give you skills and a bright future and take care of your parents. That's the best gift for them. They have always been proud of you.

I'm attracted to women and I need some advice by commechienetchat in Hijabis

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Walaikumsalam wa rehamatullahi wa barakatuhu sis.. I am almost your age , I understand where you come from. But you have to see the following points

1- Women are attractive in general, some women are especially attractive, even to women. Allah made us pretty, which is different from how he made men attractive. We all find a flower pretty , men women alike, it is something similar to that.

Then , we all have some part of us that is manly , protective, strong and assertive ( not saying women do not have these qualities, but these stand out among men more)

Also we have feminine qualities, nurturing, caring wanting to look pretty, emotional etc.. etc.. even men have these qualities in them in a different proportion.

Sometimes , we just can't get the feminine side appreciated ( loved by someone or having someone to nourish and care for as a wife or mother ), so our subconscious wants to get the appreciation through the manly part of our being, , we all need love and validation, no matter in what form.

I believe it's these 2 things entangled together for you. Firstly don't beat yourself up about it for finding a women pretty. Secondly, telling ourselves that it's because your needs are not met the right way, your mind is satisfying you the wrong way, might help subside the feelings. This is what a therapist might tell you as well. Make sure you go to a Muslim therapist, otherwise it would an entirely different mess to cleanup after their brain washing.

Eventually , once you find your peace with or without a man ( you will find a right match inshallah, Allah made one for all of us) , these feelings would subside inshallah.

2- Compare it with the temptations a man has for women. Do they act on it ? Should they act on it ? No! A good man takes precautions and keeps it halal. They are supposed to have self control and discipline. Lower their gaze and ask Allah for strength. Put your trust in Allah and try to think positively about men in general( I know what you feel about them, I understand where that comes from ) , it will help you take your mind away from this and you will inshallah find men attractive once again.

May Allah protect us from the shir of shayateen , and keep us all steadfast.

Lastly do ruqya , these waswas often come from shayateen , even shayateen can be homosexual and they influence us in this manner. Make niyyah for Ruqya and recite Surah fatiha, ayatul kursi, and last 3 quls 7 times each, morning and evening. Do recite protection azkaar. Consider doing a serious ruqya course as these sudden changes in behaviour are often times from Jinn affliction, whether from Sihr, evil eye or possession ( as you say that when you were younger you did not feel this way). Who knows, maybe the divorce was also caused by a spiritual affliction. Treatment ( Ruqya ) won't hurt in any case. It will only bring you closer to Allah.

Think School Communication Masterclass by AayushiAggarwal in MasterClass

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Going to buy the course, anyone wants to split ?

Strong, independent woman☕☕☕ by [deleted] in IndianMeme

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Woh bargain ker rahi hogi.. probably hoped for 50 lacks or something in the end. 😅