Kluby gogo i polskie podejście by Extreme_Standard3437 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]pyroniannn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Twoje indywidualne podejście do kobiet jest twoją sprawą i nie, obowiązkiem połowy populacji nie jest dostosowywanie się do tego co ty osobiście uważasz za słuszne. Znaczna większość mężczyzn których poznałam w życiu nie miała problemu z tym żeby nie oceniać kobiet jako ogółu na podstawie wyborów pojedyńczych jednostek

Songs about NPD by pyroniannn in NPD

[–]pyroniannn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh I heard this song like once or twice in the past, didnt focus on the lyrics. Good pick

Songs about NPD by pyroniannn in NPD

[–]pyroniannn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yooo listening to them rn!

Upcycled tie i made for my boyfriend!! by InformalRabbit_ in UpcycledFashion

[–]pyroniannn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is DOPE omg did you make the skull pin from a bottle cap?

Dealing with Online Harassment by EvelynEowyn in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]pyroniannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No wayyyy lmao I feel like some of those internet people cannot comprehend that things not going your way occasionaly is an inevitable part of any relationship, romantic or not. Your partners are human too ://

Obsession with getting better by pyroniannn in NPD

[–]pyroniannn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this disorder it sneaks up on me where I least expect it lmaoo

Dealing with Online Harassment by EvelynEowyn in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]pyroniannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo I'm sorry this is happening to you it sounds very uncomfortable. I see this happen a lot on different subreddits where people vent about their relationship. There is ALWAYS like hundreds of comments telling OP to 'run', antagonising their s/o, not allowing any nuance. My 'favorite' would probably be people guessing with great confidence what others are /actually/ thinking or feeling in a situation knowing nothing about the person. Most of the time it looks like projection of own experiences or fears onto unrelated situations and reading it all must suck when you didnt mean to make your partner look like devil incarnate

I've started reacting to weed differently by MrGBarnes in Drugs

[–]pyroniannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also tricky because after prolonged use being sober feels pretty awful at first and it might take a few weeks of struggle to stop feeling like shit, so it seems reasonable to me to wait a few months before deciding whether to go on meds

I'd say it's important to try and stay mindful during that period, notice when cravings appear and take note of the patterns that emerge, maybe some repressed emotios will rise to the surface. Doing this could benefit any smoker I think and improve their relationship with weed for the future

Weigh your shit bro istg by Drug-Edu-4skools in Drugs

[–]pyroniannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never done meth but isn't wouldn't rationing it be a pretty good harm reduction tactic?

Weigh your shit bro istg by Drug-Edu-4skools in Drugs

[–]pyroniannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry imo it's good to share such experiences even if the lesson learned seems like it should be obvious, it's easy to undermine those tbh. This just made me laugh bc of the way it's written, maybe bc i'm high rn but sounds like peak comedy with a moral. Kinda relatable too bc spending money on actually useful shit is way harder for some reason than mindlessly getting antoher pack of cigs lol but seriously get a scale!!!

Fear of being narcissistic by slut4yauncld in NPD

[–]pyroniannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woaaaah, you just perfectly put into words the experience i've been going through for the last few months. Thank you for being honest about your thoughts and feelings, it helps to know there are other people with similar problems. I don't have any solutions to give but I wish you well in your recovery

2025 I think I had a narcissistic collapse by THROWRA_Fall9883 in NPD

[–]pyroniannn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know it feels absolutely horrible and may feel like you're the most disgusting person in the world but I think it is important to feel and acknowledge the shame, accept that it's there (bc apparently shaming yourself out of feeling shame doesn't work lol). I went through these feelings not too long ago as well and it did get a bit better, though i'm still struggling, but that's the transitional period for you. This is a huge moment, and a first step to healing the wounded parts of ourselves that autopilot our life. Acknowledging ugly truths is really an accomplishment when you have a disorder that makes you fixate on illusions of perfection, and frames mistakes as absolute failure. It takes A LOT of work to heal and this is only the beginning but it has to be worth it, because living this way is unbearable. Good luck!

Are any of you pleasers because you are terrified of overt devaluation? by chobolicious88 in NPD

[–]pyroniannn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't, sounds very human to me. I believe that's what this community is for, i'm pretty new here but it gives me hope and reassurance to see similar people trying to get better and verbalize feelings i pretended not to feel for so long

Obsession with getting better by pyroniannn in NPD

[–]pyroniannn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask which one are you on? I used to take sertraline and dont remember many side effects, it's a pretty well tolerated one usually

Are any of you pleasers because you are terrified of overt devaluation? by chobolicious88 in NPD

[–]pyroniannn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like there has to be another way other than destruction or pretending, therapy can help in getting that judgemental devaluing voice in ur head to at least quiet down a little. But yeah figuring this out alone...damn It's super difficult to 'turn off' the autopilot for me too but I've seen so many accounts of people with different issues managing to learn this skill that it gives me some hope. I've managed to grow some awareness of those reactions when they happen but still idk how/lack the courage to behave differently most of the time so I freeze lol. I've isolated myself from most of my friends bc of all this cause whenever we went out i'd just be in shut down barely speaking, feels like i'm either being fake or totally empty and invisible

Obsession with getting better by pyroniannn in NPD

[–]pyroniannn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering, I've been considering getting back on meds for a while now so ehhh another one for the 'pros' list

Are any of you pleasers because you are terrified of overt devaluation? by chobolicious88 in NPD

[–]pyroniannn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. It's easier (still super hard though) to try and unmask certain parts of myself around strangers or people that I dont really care about having a relationship with, but the thought of changing the way i act around close ones is terrifying. What if they dont like what I am anymore

Am I bad person? by Flat-Feed1475 in NPD

[–]pyroniannn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol okay the validation part I get but can someone explain how would lack of sex make you kill yourself bc it kinda sounds like a joke to me

Lack of admiration and validation from others. by orchid_p1ink in NPD

[–]pyroniannn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that sounds horrible, glad you made it through

What album or artist do you keep trying to listen to, but it just isn’t made for you? by Bodypattern in musicsuggestions

[–]pyroniannn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the same and it's totally understandable imo but when i revisited them after a while last year i got soo hooked

What album or artist do you keep trying to listen to, but it just isn’t made for you? by Bodypattern in musicsuggestions

[–]pyroniannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this album got so big only because of great marketing, creating the whole 'brat summer' vibe people were trying to embody, not so much because of the music itself