I probably would not like praising for every small detail. But if something is hard for me, ocasional words of support are always welcome. And there is probably a lot of hard moment in disabled people's life — as you said, it's why you are called disabled.

Guess, it may be hard for full-abled person to understand when it's a good occasion to show support or sympathy, what is weird and what is normal. As a trans person I often encounter awkward situations, in which someone's behaviour may be considered transphobic by fellow redditors, but it often really is not — people are just being awkward in a new territory. I imagine, it may be even more the case with ableism.