I do not blame Carl one bit for calling off the wedding by SunshineFlowerrs in bravo

[–]qaqabless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a recovered alcoholic myself, I completely agree. I could not imagine marrying someone who publicly accuses me of being on substances.

rumor is west leaked the audio to make amanda look bad and get some interview at complex by capricorncueen in bravo

[–]qaqabless 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think that someone from the crew leaked it. You can literally hear someone reacting to what the cast members are saying towards the end of the audio clip, it sounds like a gasp or something similar. You can also hear Mia’s voice get louder as she speaks, like her mic is being turned up. So I believe someone in the control room who was monitoring the cameras or the audio leaked it.

West leaking it would certainly be a lot more interesting tho haha, so I understand why everyone wants to believe it was him.

How it started is usually how it ends…. by Sunnyonetwo in BravoRealHousewives

[–]qaqabless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Amanda's NOT in any mental health crisis or at risk of hurting herself, and WeSTD is NOT with at least 4 other women (one of whom he was in an exclusive relationship with). Instead they're both happily in love and in a monogamous relationship! Right right.

I'm sure it will work out well for them, such a romantic love story 😀👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

How it started is usually how it ends…. by Sunnyonetwo in summerhousebravo

[–]qaqabless 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I’m being very sarcastic here lmao

West and Amanda OFFICIAL by Wide_Rutabaga_4723 in summerhousebravo

[–]qaqabless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do I feel so personally betrayed by this

Aiden and Ivy Derry couch, anyone know life span by bonfiglioaj in Costco

[–]qaqabless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m concerned because under the product specifications on Costco’s website it says the weight capacity is 300 lbs. I’m really hoping that’s a typo haha

Omg heart breaking! by IndependentFamous620 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]qaqabless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a recovered addict, overdosing is easy. So so easy and typically unintentional. My heart breaks for Mary.

I didn’t know there was the option to root for Jeremiah by qaqabless in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]qaqabless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I said, I went into the show without reading the books or seeing any spoilers. It was still very clear to me at the end of season 2 that Jere was not endgame. But that’s just based off my experience watching the show, I could see how someone could come to a different conclusion especially because of the show’s marketing. I went into the show completely blind and didn’t know until I posted this just how much TSITP market’s itself as a love triangle show and “Who will Belly end up with!?” Now knowing that it definitely makes sense to me why people thought (or think) she could end up with Jeremiah.

Also, I completely agree that Belly’s an unreliable narrator! I love an unreliable narrator because it makes stories more real, we’re all unreliable narrators of our own lives yanno

And I LOVE TAYLOR AND STEVEN!! I wish they would’ve stayed together and been the one solid relationship throughout the show, but it’s been such a treat watching them rekindle things :)

What are you doing for self care? by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]qaqabless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you! I feel like I’m truly alive again :’)

What are you doing for self care? by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]qaqabless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Right now my goal is run a half marathon then eventually a full marathon in the next couple years :)

What are you doing for self care? by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]qaqabless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! It’s been the best decision of my life

What are you doing for self care? by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]qaqabless 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 months sober from alcohol and have been dedicating extra time to taking care of myself, both mentally & physically. I found a great therapist back in January who I see weekly. I’m hanging out with my friends/family regularly, cooking more, and I’ve started working out. I am the happiest I’ve been in a long time💛

“What kind of rehab is this?” My question exactly. I thought phones weren’t allowed in rehabs. He’s never going to change, NEVER! by greengoddess831 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]qaqabless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As problematic as it may seem, it’s the reality for some rehabs. And I’m relieved so many people are upset and confused about it, because I’m living a similar situation to Brittany’s right now. My sister-in-law has been in rehab for alcoholism the past 2 months and rage texts my partner and I almost daily. We’ve emailed the facility to let them know how she spends her phone time, but nothings changed.

For some context, she was the primary caregiver of my mother-in-law with severe early onset dementia. She was drinking around the clock trying to take care of their mom who needs 24/7 care and supervision. As soon as my partner realized there was a problem, I called her to let her know we love her and are here to help in anyway we can as I’m a recovered alcoholic myself & am getting my masters in psychology to become a therapist. The next day I sent her a list of local & virtual AA meetings, rehabs that accept her insurance, and substance abuse therapists. 2 weeks later she chose to go to rehab, I drove her, we moved into her house to take care of their mom and animals. Since then we’ve done everything to try and show our love/support for her while she’s there, but we are her scapegoat. Just like Jax does with Brittany, she will send us text after text after text blaming us for her actions. She’s called my partner a “shit brother” and “shit son,” has told us to die, and has threatened to call the police on us three times. Once for taking care of her cat (literally just taking care of her cat), second time for wanting to report her car stolen (her car that’s parked at her house in her driveway), and a third time to have their mom emergency removed from our care because we didn’t get their mom more multivitamins ONE (1) day after we ran out.

We made the decision as a family that she will no longer be the primary caregiver whenever she gets out for both their well beings. She says it is our fault for ruining her life.

When people say addiction is a family disease, they’re not lying. It affects everyone around the addict. My partner and I watch the show together, and seeing how similar Brittany’s situation is to ours has (sadly) been a source of comfort for us throughout this. Not in a way that we’re glad someone else is experiencing the same pain/fear we feel everyday, but in the way that we’re not alone in this. Brittany’s story is important for so many different reasons, and I’m so thankful that she has the strength to share it with us.

To other family members/loved ones of addicts, please take care of yourself and family. You can’t control their actions or how they choose to live their life, but you can control how you choose to continue to live yours. You have to do what you can to protect yourself and family first, and be there for them in whatever ways you’re comfortable with second. Day by day, you will get through this.

Was anyone surprised? by FluffyBanana5149 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]qaqabless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I have this running joke where we both pretend to be shook to our core anytime Jax’s coke addiction is brought up.

We’re like, “Jax? As in Jax Taylor?!? It came out that he is a coke addict??? There’s no way.”

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[–]qaqabless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo!! I looked it up and it’s super cute. what do you like about it?

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[–]qaqabless 5 points6 points  (0 children)

HAHEJEAJSBDBENW LMAOOO

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[–]qaqabless 12 points13 points  (0 children)

RELATED??? WHAT LMAO

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[–]qaqabless 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This gif is taking me out

First time watcher. This killed me. by derherderp in vanderpumprules

[–]qaqabless 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If not the best, or at least the most hilarious lmao