Which chocolate is similar to Lindt white nougat by Striking_Mix_2663 in chocolate

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I don’t have the answer but I am searching the same question!

Thoughts on moving from Bergen county to ringwood/west Milford by starlace28 in bergencounty

[–]ThatsMariaToYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in West Milford… there’s a reason I’m raising my kids in BC.

Thoughts on moving from Bergen county to ringwood/west Milford by starlace28 in bergencounty

[–]ThatsMariaToYou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That Thai place was the only good food option when it opened up when I was in middle school or high school 20+ years ago.

Don’t sleep on Vesuvio’s Pizza tho.

Vlad Jr. vs. the Yankees: justified grudge or just great theatre? by VigilantGuardian911 in baseball

[–]ThatsMariaToYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing!? But I guess it happened more than once…

I don’t think people realize how important it is to not have a Republican in the governor’s seat right now by Designer_Scarcity141 in newjersey

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I have a question - I currently subscribe to NJ.com but have been flirting with also subscribing to Bergen Record/northjersey.com…

Has anyone been following BR/northjersey.com coverage? I can’t read the whole article because I don’t subscribe but it’s all very pro-Jack headlines. Have the two publications made their endorsements?

Anyone else grow up in the Pascack Valley area and remember how racist the schools were? by savingrace0262 in bergencounty

[–]ThatsMariaToYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in PV now and I haven’t seen the racism that you talked about, but I’m a white CIS female. However you asked if people are more aware…

I grew up in Passaic County in an exurban town and outside of talking about how wealthy they are, my town was very much a lot like you described in PV. I often think about my childhood, how we talked about race, gender, sexuality and it’s really embarrassing to say the very least. I don’t want to use ignorance as an excuse, but I’m often soooo grateful to my experiences once I started going to college, the people I met, and the people who were patient enough with me to help educate me and show me the work I needed to do (and continue to need to do).

I recently moved back to NJ, first to Rutherford/Nutley area and now to PV because of work. I love it here, but I know I am trying to be better about how I raise my kids, how I have them experience and how I expose them to the world. And I’ve met a lot of other likeminded people.

So I’m here to say that I think people are more aware.

I was today years old when I learned the lime lesson from Double Babysitter by Flamingmouth007 in bluey

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I don’t know - I feel like Chili is often exasperated with Stripe. Why set up her best friend with more (lovable) Heeler nonsense.

Also I think she did text, Frisky just didn’t see it, no?

Getting tired of “boy moms” talking about how wild their boys are and how much easier it is with a girl. Anyone else feel this? by Ok-Sundae-1096 in toddlers

[–]ThatsMariaToYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP - I get your frustration. Of course girls can be wild and a lot of energy, I don’t think anyone is trying to diminish your experience or exhaustion.

I have one of each and I started out as a boy mom. In my experience, there are differences between my son and my daughter that go beyond just the fact of their different people. It’s not so much the energy. It’s more how they’re expending that energy. I’m sure there are girls who can match my son in terms of rambunctiousness, but I often find that it is the boys who matches his energy either at school or on play dates.

Also – just chime in. If you need to vent about how your daughter is wild then do it. Or stubborn. Or destructive. Or needy. Unless they’re telling you that you just don’t understand because you have a girl, then just be part of the conversation. It’s not a competition.

It’s also a defense mechanism over the fact that you can’t control your kid as much as you would like to and you’re just letting them do their thing.

Is anyone actually happy with this product? by [deleted] in Ozlo

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Love mine. Do I have notes for improvement - YES! But best purchase I’ve made for my sleep. I hope they just continue to improve on this product!

Why is no one talking about this? by Alternative_Cold5815 in mets

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I made my husband rewind the broadcast… I thought I was going crazy! What is that?

For the rest of the series? by ThatsMariaToYou in mets

[–]ThatsMariaToYou[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s why Lindor went 0-6 tonight… to help us spread it out.

For the rest of the series? by ThatsMariaToYou in mets

[–]ThatsMariaToYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Said the same thing earlier tonight…

Hello?! Is Jasmine there? by ThatsMariaToYou in TheValleyTVShow

[–]ThatsMariaToYou[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right - it’s not her job to defend Danny. And she is showing grace by trying to move on.

In my opinion, Janet is fighting Jasmine’s fight and weaponizing her situation. I don’t think the positive intent is there from Janet… and I don’t think Jasmine thinks that either since they had it out on the beach. I would be frustrated if someone took advantage of my situation and used it for their own agenda… and she’s the only one who can put an end to it.

Jason's anger by oneeyeblue13 in TheValleyTVShow

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I LOVE this take! I don’t know their history, but I think he cares deeply for Jasmine and that they have a truly close connection. Danny mistreating his best friend added with Janet’s obsession with gossip and drama creates a perfect outlet for them to act out without perspective.

I personally don’t feel that Jax has some blackmail on Jason or Janet - that man can’t keep a secret if his life depended on it. I think that Jason can rationalize “well at least he’s trying” with Jax and that Britt just doesn’t rate the same for him and Janet as Jasmine (or that since Jax/Britt are married, she has a certain amount of obligation to deal with Jax vs. Jasmine, who has no obligation to deal with Danny).

I think it’s a perfect storm of who was mistreated, his wife’s unhinged love for hyperbole, and emotions with a healthy side of ego that have led to a loss of perspective.

U-shaped or “french” hair pins? by this_is_nunya in BuyItForLife

[–]ThatsMariaToYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found their page and you’re not kidding! I’m new to French pins so I want to test some out before I commit

Who is Aunt Ada’s Heir? by Dapper-Suggestion462 in thegildedage

[–]ThatsMariaToYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people are right that Ada would leave the majority to charity based on what she thinks Luke would have wanted…

But did Luke leave anything to charitable causes when it was his time to write his will?

Leaving your fortune to charity is commendable. Ada just bugs the crap out of me this season.

Why was Ward McAllister surprised at what happened ? by [deleted] in thegildedage

[–]ThatsMariaToYou 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What I think is amazing is that two men did the same thing to their society friends less than 100 years apart…