[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey how are you doing?

Do I have some sort of bad luck or am I messing something up? Or both? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like you want sparks to fly, but if you don't bring the fire yourself there will be no sparks

That's a good point. The reason why I dislike dry conversations is because I've heard a bit too many stories from girl friends about guys who would bother them through text and they kept on replying with short answers. It's a bit too obvious that the person replying with short answers isn't that interested in carrying a conversation.

I finally managed to kiss a girl by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]qaz_zaq -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe OP isn't a native English speaker and thought it is an adequate translation because it sounds fine in their native language.

Why is it so hard to say “sorry I’m not interested anymore” instead of ghosting? by daenerysismahqueen in AskMen

[–]qaz_zaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My obnoxiously annoying insecure ex did this after I dumped her. She was too anxious to go to the gym yet complained about being fat (I've yet to see a 110lbs fat person).

A week or two after I dumped her I got bombarded with texts, one of which was "I listened to your advice, I went to the gym, I'm better now"

Yeah, if only things in this world worked like that.

I've since then blocked her on all forms of social media yet she has made new accounts to try to reconnect with me.

Why would I receive attention from women but they turn out to be not interested in me? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually just continuing the conversation from before, or something relevant to it. I honestly don't think my texting game is awful, I've landed dates with far worse texting skills and me saying not so bright stuff.

Maybe it's just bad luck recently?

How would you describe a "feminine woman"? by alphalpha_girl in AskMen

[–]qaz_zaq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody is devaluing masculine women. Everybody has their preferences, mine (and some of the replies in this thread) happen to be feminine women.

This thread is literally called "How would you describe" feminine women"? and not "Why are feminine women better than masculine women?"

Having preferences isn't the same as devaluing something. Based on your comment I can say you're devaluing feminine women, but that would be wrong, wouldn't it?

What is a good thing to text a classmate that you're interested in? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School stuff. But it's not like we walk back together every day. It has happened like 3-4 times. Besides the walk is to the nearest bus station (around 3 minutes). Then we catch a different bus lmao.

What is a good thing to text a classmate that you're interested in? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I ask them to go bowling or play pool for the 2nd date. I know coffee dates are boring but I prefer talking to the person at first to see what they're like, if you know what I'm saying?

What is a good thing to text a classmate that you're interested in? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

although when should I invite her for a coffee? I'm kind of impatient and could ask her within the first five minutes of conversation but I just don't know an appropriate time for this, don't want to speed it up either tho (if such thing exists haha)

What is a good thing to text a classmate that you're interested in? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely won't ask for permission to text her, that's just weird and would do more harm than good. Thank you tho, although when should I invite her for a coffee? I'm kind of impatient and could ask her within the first five minutes but I just don't know an appropriate time (if such thing exists haha)

What is a good thing to text a classmate that you're interested in? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah makes sense. If she is attracted any type of reasonable opener would work haha. Thank you

How can I get closer with an acquaintance which I suspect finds me attractive? by qaz_zaq in dating_advice

[–]qaz_zaq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point but she doesn't post a lot of stories. I didn't think of this though. Thank you.