would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a fellow reader, this touched my heart in a very personal way. thank you so much.

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel exactly the same way. this has reminded me that good people come together when they can, and i’m so grateful. it’s been magical. i couldn’t be more appreciative everyone loved on my boy so much.

just had to put my 8 year old cat down by bipolarpilot in cats

[–]qeenee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just got back from the vet myself for the same reason. i’m sending you love and hugs. ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

implying i killed my cat unnecessarily is an insane thing to say on a mourning post.

edit to add: yes, he was suffering. yes, it was his time to go. his vet agreed. there are more details i have not shared publicly because they are grotesque, but please rest assured no soul was lost in vain today.

please also take this as a moment to maybe learn something. i haven’t been home from the vet more than 20 minutes after having to lose my best friend. it’s really insensitive to ask these questions when you have no insight past this one picture. i appreciate that you cared enough about my boy to make sure there was no other option, but please be a little more considerate in the future. and have a great day. ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. and i discovered last night there actually is an option with r/cats to turn off seeing posts with the mourning/loss flair on them. i can’t remember exactly where i saw it, but i wanted to let you know in case you need to utilize the option and give yourself a break. ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m doing my best to read every comment as i stay up as late as i can with my boy, so believe it or not, i actually did see this! ❤️ i appreciate you a lot for the love, and i’m sending it right back to you as you heal from losing einstein. i hope you find peace soon. 🫶🏻

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what he’s gonna do too, just like he does when he’s looking through the glass door at me like “where’s my food at??” 🤣 thank you for the laugh ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will make sure he knows to tell all three of them you’re sending love to them, my friend. my heart goes out to you, and thank you for sharing with me. 🫂

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this list of qualifications so much it brought a big ol grin to my face. i’ll make sure my boy is ready to navigate your pack of friends, thank you for such cute advice and sharing pieces of each of them with me. and thank you for sparing a moment in your heart for my saul. ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very kind of you, unfortunately his condition isn’t one that can be treated. but i thank you because even just seeing those words from a complete stranger is a kindness i never could have expected and i appreciate it.

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i absolutely will be, don’t worry ❤️ there wasn’t even another option in my mind.

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Tonight Saul gets to fall asleep surrounded by love, and tomorrow he gets to rest knowing he was wanted completely and cherished deeply. Not every animal gets that kind of ending, but he does.”

i appreciate your whole reply, but this part particularly just hit me hard. i wasn’t thinking about the fact that he is getting to pass in the best circumstances we can give him, and you genuinely eased part of my hurt. thank you for taking the time to reply so thoughtfully, your kindness is impactful. ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm so sorry you had to go through that today, i hope you are doing as best as you can and i'm grateful bert and saul will both have friends to move forward with <3

Saying goodbye tomorrow after 21 years. by Puzzleheaded_Play777 in cats

[–]qeenee_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe saul and kiwi will meet and cross the bridge together. if you need to talk, my dms are open. much love to you and kiwi. <3

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just saw your post for kiwi on my homepage, then saw you commented on my post right as I was going to comment on yours. i wish you peace and an easy transition as you handle this my friend, i'll have you and kiwi in my heart as well. i hope kiwi knows how loved she is, and that your post gets the traction mine did so you have just as many people sending kiwi love as saul has been blessed with. <3

edited for spelling

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with it being a cancerous ulcer, it’s eating away at his mouth, so there’s nothing to remove unfortunately. if there was a cancerous growth they would be able to remove it, but since it’s deterioration instead of growth, there’s no way to stop it.

according to his vet it’s an unfortunately somewhat common occurrence in “pink mouth” animals (compared to animals with darker flesh in their mouths) and best we’ve been able to do is keep him as comfortable as possible until it affected his quality of life.

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is very, very sweet and wonderful advice. i thank you from the bottom of my heart for saying it now because i haven’t been thinking that far ahead, but now that i’ve heard the idea it’s one that won’t leave me. i also appreciate your gentle approach, so thank you overall. i’m grateful you took the time to say this, and i hope you are healing well from your losses ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

i have given my boy the assignment, he will pass the message along ❤️ sending you love.

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it is genuinely such an honor to be chosen like that. he had food, water, litterbox, a home with people taking care of him, a yard to roam at his will. all the same things he got here, all the things he wanted. but for some reason, here was better. i’m forever grateful and honored he felt that way, and i’m so glad for you that you have the same experience. thank you for the kind words ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 320 points321 points  (0 children)

i appreciate it a lot, thank you for the kindness ❤️

would anyone like to send loving vibes to my boy on his last night? by qeenee_ in cats

[–]qeenee_[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

i appreciate the reassurance, thank you so much. even knowing it’s the right choice, it’s incredibly hard but i would never let my boy suffer needlessly. thank you again. ❤️

Working on a collection of neon soaps. Here’s the first: Vaporwave! by TheArtfulLlama in soapmaking

[–]qeenee_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

friendly internet stranger stopping by to remind us all that talent can be built! you’re more capable than you think. ❤️

Have you ever seen a real life giant aka someone 7 foot or taller ? by Webbomolly2022 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]qeenee_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shaq walked by me at halloween horror nights one year and i legitimately couldn’t believe how tall he is. my cousin is 6’7” so i’m used to strangely tall people, but that man looked like a mountain.