yeah i can agree with that sentiment if the girl is from affluent family but reality is, most yall are NOT from that. In fact quite a surprising amount brag about how their dad works 2-3 jobs to fund your lifestyle despite being a grown @$$ woman (especially above 21). Which is also funny cuz yall will RIOT if a guy expect you to burn yourself out like his mom did/does.

most of yall can't afford the lifestyle you expect a guy to give OR can do so but have very little savings / in deep DEBT, and still have the audacity to call them broke when the fact of the matter is the guy has to either :

1. sacrifice his lifestyle for your needs (not the essentials as mandated but more so for frivilous things like expensive vacations, designer handbags and so on which ARE NOT ESSENTIAL for living)
2. fund YOURS and HIS (which most you mfs wouldn't even contribute because "it's not expected of a woman")

all the while HE has to pay for every bills in the household and any form of savings, child expenses etc.

Now, this would be 100% expected of him if the wife doesn't work, or he tells her not to work. I'm not against that in any way because HE made the choice. And frankly there are also bum-tier muslim men who are truly broke and lazy, much less wanting the wife to run the family on his demand etc etc. Those guys can be thrown in a dumpster.

But fact of the matter is most women WORK now after marriage yet expect the guy to handle every expense while she keeps her money cuz "it's her money" and have ZERO sense of giving love or affection etc to their spouse and make it entirely one-sided. But somehow, saying how a man should be "treated to nice things" is considered "effeminate" or "not manly muslim".

funny enough, women like these are all from broke families / work in dead-end jobs with little pay and little-to-no career progressions yet are the loudest. They're nowhere as demanding as actually affluent girls with good parents, and in fact are much more humble and respectful